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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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Ok! So my friend liked this guy(let's call him Edward)first. She liked him first and EDWARD asked her out first, but she didn't say anything because she didn't like him. Now I like him because we spend a lot of time with eachother. Now she likes him again and I'm not sure if he still likes her. What should I do. Please answer soon!

Since you`re not sure who he really likes, ask him if he likes her. If he doesn`t then she can`t do anything about it and can`t make him to have feelings for her. You can try telling her you like him and just wanted to let her know so she doesn`t hurt anyone. You really have to see what happens from there and try to work things out. Eventually, you should tell Edward you like him. Hope this helps. ♥

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i was wondering. how many pictures can photobucket hold?

It really depends on the pictures because when I used my account I could only get 3 pages and wouldn`t allow me to upload anymore. I`m sure the site has changed allowing more. ♥

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last year i hung out with the wrong crowd. they were all sluts and they were really mean to me sometimes. im not friends with them anymore, but one of the other girls i was friends with then was left by them. shes changed now and shes trying to become my friend again. she was so mean to me and she hated me just because they told her to. [i know this because she told me.] we used to be really close..like best friends...until she took their side. shes really being nice now, and she said sorry and shes just trying to gain my trust again. and its not like its only been one fight we've had...its been a lot. but now that she was left by them shes changed. should i be friends with her again...even though all my new [and way amazing-er] friends tell me that i really shouldnt trust her...or should i listen to what they say and stay away?

You could try to give her a second chance. But just be careful because if her friends told her to leave the "crowd" then maybe she's looking for new friends and will try to use you. If you truely don`t want to be firends then don`t be. Your now friends are better friends to you & she doesn`t deserve to be your friend. Hope this helps. ♥

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well my friends and i were at the movies and some guys came along and my best friend liked him but she also liked another guy. so he sat in between us and then i sat next to another guy and she sat next to another girl. but in the middle of the movie he started like touching my arm and flirting with me alot and then he put his arm around me and i didnt no what to do cause i didnt wanna be mean and just throw it off so i waited a couple minutes and just pulled it off and didnt talk to him the rest of the night. but now my friends really mad and says this could ruin our friendship. what should i do?

You couldn`t help it - he put his arm around you & started flirting with you. Tell her your sorry but you couldn`t help it and don`t let one little thing like this ruin our friendship. Hope this helps. ♥

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i really like this kid, like alot. my friend tom said that hes gonna ask me out, but he doesnt know when. i really wanna go out with him, but everyone hates him and they say hes wierd and stuff. but i dont know, if he asks me out should i go out with him?

Don`t listen to what other people say about him. If you really like him then go out with him. They can accept it or get over it. (: ♥

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Yeah okay so.
There's this girl and she was like my best friend for awhile. We were on our school's basketball team together and stuff and then, recently, we got in a fight.
I liked a guy for five years, but stopped liking him for awhile and she thought she liked him first.. well now he likes me and i still like him because i guess i never got over him. She's pissed. and then i thought we weren't fighting anymore and like she started yelling at me for a totally different reason. She thinks I have changed and stuff and like idk. Sorry if this is confusing..
Anyways. We are on super bad terms right now. And like, I guess i dont really want to be her friend but I don't want enemies.. i dunno how to get through to her and just tell her that i dont want to hate eachother anymore.
help?

Talking about it will help. Try apologizing first, then tell her how you feel about things and then tell her you want her to understand why you guys are in the situation and wish you could just put it behind. And take it from there. Hope things work out. ♥

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ok so i have these friends.lets call then jan and jen.well when i went to school on monday jan was totally pissed at me and she wouldnt tell anyone why.so later on jen started getting mad at me and i think that jan told jen why shes mad and jen got mad about it too.i wasnt there on the last day of the week so i think maybe jan made all our other friends pissed at me.what should i do?

First try thinking what you might have done to make her upset and mad. Then call her and ask if she mad at you and what you did wrong. Then try to handle the situation from there. If she continues to do that then she`s not a real friend. Hope things work out. ♥

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Okay.. so over the summer me and one kid i have known since i was in first grade went out. and then when we broke up we kinda were mad at each other and stuff but then we became like best friends again.(& he got another girlfriend)I could tell him like anything and seriously he was just like my best friend. Then all of a sudden, online, we were just talking and randomly he just told me i was like stuck up and thought i was all cool and ms. popular and stuff. I want to be his friend again, but I don't want to change myself to make one person happy when i have a bunch of people that like me the way i am. (and by the way, i DO NOT act like that!)

So like.. I dont really know what to do because i miss him but he's being stupid. lol
help?

Like you said don`t change for one person to make them happy. Just give it time. Wait until he apologizes or talks to you first. If he doesn`t then you know he`s not worth it. Hope things work out. ♥

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Last summer, this boy that was my BEST FRIEND. Came to my house in the middle of the night, to do it with me. In the beginning when we were on the phone, I played along, I thought he was kidding, I even asked my friends.. i was like.. hes kidding right? & there like oh yeah. So i went with it. Then he told me he'd be at my house later. He doesn't live really close so it was about a 3 mile walk. When he came, of course I said no. Ever since, he got mad at me & hasn't spoken to me since. I miss him, he was my best friend. Was I wrong? I mean at the time, I felt so, so smart & all. That I said no. Now, I feel like I messed up something, I messed up the friendship & its all my fault.

Am I wrong?
How can I make it better?
or realize, i wasn't wrong? .. if i'm not.

Sounds like he might have only wanted sex from you. Maybe he thought you were being serious and was embarrased he walked all the way to your house and didn`t get anything. I think you did the right thing. Just give him time. And after a while just try to have a conversation with him and maybe talk about what happend. Just be careful he doesn`t try to do it again. ♥

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well me and my friend have been having alot of fights lately. and she keeps saying how i have mood swings and how she hate it and stuff like that and i dont understand why she would say those things about me because seriously, im not having any and its just her because after she got a boyfriend, she never talked to me or spent time with me anymore because she was too busy with him and like, she keeps blaming everything on me. like for months now, ive just been taking the blame and saying sorry for everything to keep the 'friendship'. i dont know whether i should keep the friendship or not anymore becuase shes just being really edgy and i dont know how to please her. and you probably would tell me to just not take the blame and not be friends with her but shes actually the best friend ive ever had [excluding the times where we fight..] but yeah. so what shold i do.

I think that you should tell her how you feel. Friends do that when they get boyfriends, and you have to learn to deal with it. You`ll get a boyfriend soon and now how it feels. I used to be like that if my friend would blow me off for a boyfriend but then once I got a boyfriend I realized how she felt and did the same thing. Try seeing if you can see if she will maybe hang out with you one night so you can hang out and really talk about things. She`s your best friend and sounds like you truly don`t want to lose her so be patient and try to talk to her. Hope things work out. If you need anymore help just leave me another message in my inbox. ♥

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ok im so lost i have a boy friend and i like to other guys they are both my friends and they only like me as a frined but i wont to go out with thim what do i do i dont wont to hurt my boy friend

Don`t lie to your boyfriend, be honest with him. Tell him you`re confused right now and want to take a break. Figure out if you have feelings for your boyfriend and if you do, stay with him. ♥

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One of my best friend's came to me and another friend (also both bi) and told us he was bi and he was serosuis. Now fast forward a couple weeks, he says to me he's complety straight and would never do another guy, now i think he's lying whatta do ya think?

btw were all 14

Maybe he was bi-curious? He could have been lying tho ♥

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I have start school again on Wednesday, and all the girls in my grade are starting to wear makeup and jewelry, but I am more or the sporty kind, What should I do

You don`t have to dress like them to fit in the crowd. But if you want just wear very little make-up like cover-up and mascara. If you play sports it won`t be that much make up to sweat off. Hope this helps. ♥

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This boy likes me but I only think of him as a brother. He confessed to me but what should I say to him?

Tell him you only see him as a brother type of friend, and only like him as friend. ♥

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I'm writing a goodbye letter to my bf (of 16 months) and i don't know what all to put in it... so could you help me out please.. just give me a few sentences or something.

He's going about an hour and half away

Since I don`t know him and how your relationship is. I don`t think I can really help you. If your still together and he`s moving away just put in long distance quotes:

He is the only one for me.
No matter how many miles from me
he is, I know he'll always be there for
me. He has it all. I don't want anyone
else cause there's no one better than him
& no one can make me feel the way he does

I don`t know what else, sorry. :/
Hope this helps.♥

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so my friend and me were going to hang out tonight..and we had talked about this lastnight and we were planning on having a sleep over but now her and another friend are doing something n havin a sleepover..but arent including me..what should i do?

Tell her how you feel about it and that it wasn`t fair how she ditched and you guys had plans first. ♥

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Well, I have these two friends [lets call them...Anna and Sue] Well, They claim to be Best Friends but they NEVER hang out and always get in fights, and they dont know anything about eachother!

I am good friends with Anna, and she is moving in a few weeks. Me and her have been hanging out A LOT this Summer, and Sue always gets mad. So I fight with Sue, and she calls me a bitch a lot. But she doesnt realize some things...

Whenever I am with Anna, she talks about Sue like crazy! And not good things either...

So how can they be best friends? I care about both of them...but Sue really is a beotch. I dont know how they are "best friends"

please help me! i dont know what to do!

Jealousy is probally in the middle of your relationships. Try getting both of them to hang out at your house, or somewhere else & get them to talk to eachother. And for Sue tell her to stop being selfish because you want to spend time with Anna before she moves and that you would really appreciate if they would just along for once. ♥

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I have this friend, me her and 2 other friends had a possy. Then she got a boyfriend and started acting different. She got mean and I got to the point where I didnt even like to look at her. Me and my friends made inside jokes about her. But, the thing is, she still thinks im her best friend, and I don't know how to tell her im not.
13/F

You have to be completely honest with her just tell her your not sure if you really want to be friends because she`s being mean and changed. And just try to talk to her. ♥

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my bestfriend lets call her kate she's like so kool.but i don't think i trust her because she's starting to talk to my crush alot and flirting with him and not even knowing she's flirting! and i've talked to her about it and she says that she'll try to back off but she hasn't i told her she could talk to him but just not flirt with him and she's done this to me before and i've dealt with it. she's told me she's liked the same guy i like after i tell her i like him!!!!! it kind of gets mad...no it really gets me mad!! and she acts like good bestfriend and all, but in this case i hate her!!!! pease help me out with this problem....

You should really tell her how you feel. She`s suposse to be your best friend and she should understand. If she doesn`t stop then don`t be friends with her anymore because she`s not being a good friend.. Hope things work out. ♥

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i used to be friends with this group of girls that i hate now. two of them are trying to become my friends again but theyre a lot of trouble so i will not accept theyre friendship. but i cant stop thinking about it. do you have any advice for this situation?

They were once your friends and your feeling guilty because you are a good friend. Be honest with them and tell them that it bothers you because of the things they do. They should understand. Tell them you would if they didnt do as many bad things. ♥

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