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There is this guy that I know, and I've been trying to get to know him for a while, but he's unreadable.
He will only talk to me when everyone is around, and even then, he's indirect about it. He'll never actually start up a conversation with -ME-

When I try to talk with him alone, he'll end it promptly.

What can I do to get this guy to open up? I don't know what his deal is, if he likes me, or hates me, or what.

im sure he thinks you're really kewl but is nervous. So what you have to do is talk about something casual, convient. Like what a teacher than you both have said or how so and so are going out. If he ignores you, gets up and walks away, or doesn't really have much of a response hes eaither shy, tired or in a bad mood. But never give up im sure he will get more into conversation if he can relate.Hope i helped good luck

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13/f
Ok well i've been really bored lately and i just got of restriction that lasted for ever and i just wanta do something fun with all my friends guys and girls. So i was thinking about throwing a party but like i need a theme and some good ideas like what to do so it wouldnt be so lame and just something we could do from 6:00 pm to 9:30 pm that would be fun and wouldnt get lame and stuff like that and that we could all have fun doin if this helps i have a nice pool in the backyard but its too cold to swim i also have a trampoline and i would want about 25 people at the most so give any good ideas and ill rate u a 5
thx

Okay now its November right so why not throw a fall party. Im 14 and my best friend just threw a party in her backyard. Now I dont know how outgoing your friends are but if you start with thruth or dare the games will get funner and funner like truth or dare the suck and blow (from clueless) then spin the bottle. Also watching a movie in a basment with comfy warm chairs might be fun too and give people a reason to cuddle and what not. But you seem to want to give ur backyard some use, so just let people chill and talk. Im sure no matter what you do you'll have tons of fun. Hope I helped good luck lyl xoxox MWA

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my best best best friend in the whole world since kindergarten is turning into a big JAP! she has so many fricken juicy hollister abercrombie etc clothes its soo annoying. we'll call her sally. so i'm not the most popular girl in the world but i'm not a complete loser. i'm a little ditzy and crazy and dorky but thats who i am. thats how all my firneds are. she doesnt seem to accept us though. all she cares about is being popular so she doesnt even say hi to us anymore. she doesnt care when we leave, and she follows her rly popular friends around. she doesnt hang out with me and my other friends anymore. its like she doesnt care that we exist. but shes so fun and nice when shes not busy being careful about being popular. i want her to be the same sally she used to be. over last summer, she started changing alot and getting much jappier. i didnt say anything--i didn't think it mattered. it's gone too far now-- what should i do?

Okay I know EXACTLY what to do. You make her hang out with Luke Klump and me and Pat and she'll be so cought up in old times she'll act the same again (hopefully) and then she wont hate me and we can all be gangsterz hahaah JK ILYSFM sexy asian hahaah (if you havent cought up Im bestt friends wih the girl who posted this shes my lyfe)

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well my friend that i liked this year asked if i was coming to school the last day of school ...i said that there was no point becasue we get there at 8:00 and leave at 9:30 and were only going to be allowed in are first hour class and watch a movie ..he said that it would be my last time for me to see him and that he wanted to see me.i like him alot ..i was gonna kiss him but i think that would be to werid wat can i do ?! please help me

Heyy! OMG thats sooooooooooo cute! You should go I mean he wants you there for a reason and oviously he feels more then friendship. But you should let him make the move because once sexual tensin enters things are never the same...but theres also a plus to that because it shows that your both ready and your friendship probably wont be messed up after

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this may sound very goody goody but.. i am so sick of everyone doing drugs and drinking.. not that im completely innocent i mean ive done it before but it seems like right now every single person is into that and half of them are doing it to forget about problems.. now i did learn about drugs and i did learn that weed can actually make depression worse and i also know that after youve done weed for a while your wanting to try a new drug so what do i do.. i hate it that my friends do drugs and drink and dont tell me to forget about them and get new friends because i love my friends.. and also.. everyone in my school does it.. whether you want to believe that or not is up to you.. but really.. the ones that dont are like .. messiahs or something.. please help
*stonecoldmystery*

You should tell your friends you feel this way. I mean drugs are TERRIBLE (i know from experience) DONT DO THEM. my dad was a huge druggie until this year and my sister and I are scared . If your friends wont ley off then tell someone else how you feel.
i hope i helped!

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today there was this party at one of my friends house i was all ready to go and i looked really cute but then i got this call from my mom and she said it wasnt ok to go to the party because there were drugs in my friends house (because his mother is a drugattic)and also his stepdad got into a fight with the gand group called hells angels so that means that the gang may come to my friends house and try to hurt him or one of his family members at anytime and i have three problems with this 1. is most of my friends didnt go to the party but four of them did and i want to make sure they are ok how would i go about that because i am not sure if they know about all the mad stuff in our friends house and i dont want to tell them because my friend who had the party doesnt kno any of this and i dont want to embarris him 2. i think my friend who had the party might be mad at me for not going (and the otehr people that ddint go) because he doesnt know why we didnt so we had to make these realyl dumb excusses up and i feel bad for him is there any way to tell if he is upset with us? 3. im really worried about my friend who had the party because it is a very unsafe place to be i mean there is drugs in there and his mother could get arrested in front of him at any time (and that might damange him for life if he sees that)and the gang might rob or come into there house at anytime and try to kill them is there anyway to keep my friend safe?

thanks for reading this all i am very greatful because i really want to help my friend out

My dads a druggie but i dont live with him and what you friend should do is move out cuz its really hard to live with people who are....like that i know from experience just dont let her stay there no matter how hard it is to get her to leave.

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