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ive been really really close with my friend emily from 4th grade....i've also been friends wit another gurl chelsey since 1st....emily hated chelsey...then one day this year i invited both of then ova hopin they'd become friends...they did...now they hang out moa than i've hung out wit both of them....i cant tell emily a secret wit out her tellin chelsey and vise versa...sadly i think im jelous(:-(....i dont want to lose them!..what do i do! (link)
you sjud tell them both that you feel like a third wheel now and ask if things could just got back to normal....i mean they dont have to hate each other but just ask if u can hang out w. them more or just have them hang out less...


my BEST friend knows that i like this guy even though ik he probably doesnt like me and that he is a grade younger than me, but to me that doesnt matter. just a couple of days ago the guy i like i think is starting to liek my BEST friend and i think she likes him too and she knows that i like him alot! and he said that he wants to go out with her and she wants to go out with him, what should i do or tell her?

- Sad N Confused (link)
just tell her that you rly like the guy and if she was rly ur best friend she will understand and not go out with him but if you dont tell her then youare gonna be unhappy so u jus needa tell her how u feel..hope u hepled..


My best friend has been acting really weird lately. My other b/f just got home from Kansas the other day and she wouldn't even play with us. She didn't talk to me on the way home from her play and she always wants to do stuff with little kids then hang with us. Whats wrong? (link)
you shud just talk to her and ask her wats goin on nd then ull kno...


i was at my friends house and her brother invited 2 friends over and they were being soo friggen annoying and the brother was annoying the sister in front of his friends...wat would you do? (link)
well personaly if it was me i wud jus slap them becuase im not that good w. my lil sister but maybe the best thong to do is just ignore them...


What do i do...theres this guy whos one yr older than me and he is the most gorgeaus guy ever! but he likes this grl who doesn't like him (i've talked to her about it) and i rlly like him...b/c theres more to him other than his good looks...i want him to be mine rlly badly but i dun know how to tell him b/c he might think im stupid...how do i tell him how i feel...help me!! i rlly like him (link)
the best way to tell him is if you say it straight up jus be like i have wanted to tell you somethin for a long time and then just tell him..hope i helped


I have this friend that only asks if she can come over or if i can come over if one of my other friends isnt home or has somebody else over. It really makes me feel like a rebound girl. I told my friend about it but she said that she doesnt do that. What do you think I should do about this? (link)
if shes doin this then shes not a real friend and you shud just not hang out with her even wen she asks u to and hang out with other ppl and then she willl kno how you feel if you do the same thing to u and then she will come back to be and try to be a betta friend


Well me and my ex boyfriend Kevin just broke up yesterday....well today someone called me and was like you dont know me but i am one of phylicias friends and do you care if her and Kevin go out so i sed no...nut i really do care alot...Phylicia is like my BEST friend in the world and i still like kevin but i dont know? What should i do? (link)
you shud just tell her how you feel and if shes a true friend she will understand how you feel..


I'm 23 and i've been wetting the bed since i was a child. At sleepovers i was made fun of so i never got a girlfriend. Now i have a fiancee and she wants to sleep with me but i'm afraid of wetting while she's in it. I need some help, but i don't know where to go. Who should i ask? (link)
im not sure how to answer this one but im gonna try...maybe you shud just tell your fiance about your little problem and see wat she says or maybe you can go to a doctor or something and see if he knos nethin that can help you..im sorry i kno this isnt rly good advice but its all i can think of right now..hope i helped..


okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(

Lilly (link)
just tell him that its not workin out nd u rather be friends he'll understand...


Like 5 of my best friends are cheerleaders..and they talk about cheerleading 24/7..and i feel left out alot of the time. How can i feel not left out? (link)
you can try cheering too..


i have this friend who i only like as a friend, but he likes me more than a friend. how can i tell him that i only want to be friends without making him mad?


confused wierdo (link)
you have to tell him straight up that all u wanna be is friends cuz if yoou say somethhin else u might be leadin him on nd that never good so jus say i jus wanna be friend..


im going to the beach soon, and i was wondering what were some good ways to make friends? (im 14) (link)
just start talkin to people and be rly nice


OMG I HAVE THIS FRIEND.. WELL X FRIEND N SHE HAS LIKE NO FRIENDS NOW SHES LIKE A LESBIAN!! N SHE LIKES MY FRIEND KATIE!! WHAT DO I DO (link)
omg ily hun! i cant beleive u wrote that i here but umm yea my advice is that you needa warn ur friend katie about this new lesbian grl!=o lyl bffexOx


My friend has a heart condition that she hides from just about every one of her friends except for me. The problem is that she is kind of a party girl. She smokes about a pack a day, gets high about twice a week during the summer and once a week during the school year and she drinks excessively on a very frequent basis. I've really really considered doing a few things but I have encountered so many problems. The first thing is that she absolutely doesn't want to quit even though it could kill her. Her mind set is that if she doesnt live til the age when fun switches from getting messed up, playing football in the rain and then having sex with your latest boy toy, to sipping tea and knocking a tennis ball back and forth, then she's not missing out on too much. Unfortunately for me, I kind of agree with her about that. Anyways, the last time one of her friends talked to her about it she quit talking to him and now will rarely even answer the phone when he calls. Another problem is that she lives 1600 miles from me and I only spend 3 weeks a year with her this year, though im currently saving up $1200 to go see her and my buds there this winter, so I cant really talk to her face to face. I would tell her best friend but she made me absolutely promise not to mention her heart condition to him, so I'm not sure what to do. The rate she's going a person without her condition would die around 40, and with her mind set, I could accept that, but if she doesnt quit soon she could die before I even get to see her again, and to be honest, that scares me so horribly that it was all I could do to write this. Thank you for any advice you might have. (link)
it doesnt matter wat you promised to her u really need to tell someone really fast!! tell an adult so they can help her out more than you vcan. saving her life is so much more imoprtant then keeping your secret. she mite get mad for a lil while but then shes gonna relize that it was the best thing to do. hope i helped _xOX_good luck!


I am so confused. I really want to be freinds with this girl. We used to be really great friends and we also used to sneak around town all the time. We would say we were going to the pool and really go to her boyfriends or my sorta boyfriends. See I really dont know now because ever since my sorta boyfriend went to Indiana we havent had time to talk to each other or hang out. My sorta boyfriend is back and we havebt talked or seen each other in a while. Sometimes I just think that my friend just used me to see my sorta boyfriend. I dont know what do you think? Do you think we are still friends and what should I do about it? (link)
i dont think tou guys are still friends...jus let her go nd move one w. a new friend


hey i have a friend who is sooooooo obsessed with her boyfriend and she is on the phone with him all the time and it gets sooo annoying but i love her too much to tell her that! and like what should i say to her and plus he is pretty ugly!! ick he is gross!
signed-
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as much as you dont wanna tell her u have to! if shes a good friend she will listen and less time with him nd more time w. her friends..hope i helped


I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore! (link)
hun if shes gonna leave you for a different friend i dont think she was that good of a friend jus try to make some new friends and forget about her..hope i helped


8th grade is cuming ^ soon for me n after 8th grade itz like good by to any friend i have and then when i go to high school im gunna have to start making friendz over again n itz worse then elementary to middle school cuz at least there i had a couple friendz. itz gunna b really hard for me. im trying to keep thinking about it now so on the last day of school it doesnt come like a surprise to me. i dont kno how im gunna handle it... does any1 kno anything i can do or if itz happend to them b4 ot tell me wut they did? plz help i dont need help right away but im really worried. (link)
i kno how you feel becuz im goin into 8th grade too and its sad to kno that all your freinds are goin in diff directions but i think everyone goes threw this and in the end it all works out for everyone_xOX




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