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Well Rasi... I have this friend. And we use to be really close friends, but now I feel that we r driffting apart. I was wondering if u think I should still be her friend, only because of the way she is behaving around me... Just today, she told me that I wasn't any fun anymore, and that I needed to get off my medication, because it was changing my peronality. And I invited her someonewhere, but she won't go, just because she doesn't like some people... and I even asked her if she would go, just for me, because it would mean alot and still.. she said no. Her response was " your not important enough" I don't know if that's a joke or not... well sry to bore yuo.. I'M DONE! It took me weeks to think of this, *laugh*...
from: you know who...
p.s. THIS REALLY DID HAPPEN.. I think I know the answer anyway to this question, i would just like to know other people's opinions.
Ask her if it was a joke or not. If she was kidding then forget about it, but if she was serious then forget her. If one of my friends told me I wasn't fun anymore or wouldn't go anywhere with me because of some people she didn't like then I wouldn't wanna be her friend anyway. [[ ♥ ]] Rasi
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ive been friends with this girl for like the last year. shes really cool to hang out with and we always have a lot of fun. and like whenever she has a problem, im always there for her. i dont mean for that to sound conceited... but i am. but whenever im in tears or i just need to talk, i go to her... and she changes the subject to her right away. well for the past year ive just been like well whatever.. cuz im used to keeping my feelings inside.. but like.. recently we had this huge fight (if i give any details.. you'll know who this is) and she got mad at me. well...she recently forgave me.. and yeah i guess thats good, but like i dont know if i should be hanging out with her anymore. all my other friends keep telling me that shes such a bad friend to me and all this stuff. but like then again, for the past year, ive only been hanging out with her. so yeah i have friends at school but i dont hang out with any of them cuz im always with her... what do i do...
HEY THERE -- ASK HER WHY D0ESN`T SHE HELP YOU LIKE YOU HELP HER. IF SHE DENYS IT THEN TELL HER WHAT YOU TOLD ME ABOUT HOW WHENEVER SHE HAS A PROBLEM YOU HELP HER && WHENEVER YOU HAVE A PROBLEM YOU GO TO HER && SHE ONLY TALKS ABOUT HERSELF. DON`T HOLD YOUR FEELINGS IN, TELL HER XACTLY WHAT`S ON YOUR MIND. I USED TO DO HOLD MY FEELINGS IN BEFORE && ALL IT DID IN THE END WAS MAKE ME CRY. IF YOU LET YOUR FEELINGS OUT, YOU`LL FEEL GOOD. IF SHE KEEPS TALKING ABOUT HERSELF WHEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM && GO TO HER && SHE DOESN`T CHANGE HOW SHE ACTS A LITTLE FOR YOU THEN SHE`S NOT REALLY A GOOD FRIEND. HANG OUT WITH YOUR NEW FRIENDS. DON`T JUST KEEP HANGIN AROUND YOUR ONE FRIEND CUZ THERE`S TONS OF PEOPLE OUT THERE && A LOT OF THEM WOULD PROBABLY WANNA BE YOUR FRIEND. I`M NOT SAYIN NOT TO DITCH YOUR ONE FRIEND BUT HANG OUT WITH NEW PEOPLE. GOOD LUCK BABE [[ ♥ ]] RASI
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ok so my best guy friend is moving. i used to like him but now im trying not to b/c he's moving and i no it won't work out. but i still want to be friends. how can i still be friend's with him if he's moving like 2 hours away. will being friend's work with him so far away?
W0W L0L THAT HAPPENED T0 ME BEF0RE. i GAVE MY GUY FRiEND MY PH0NE # iF HE EVER WANTED T0 TALK T0 ME & HE HAS MY E-MAiL ADDRESS/SCREEN NAME S0 HE CAN TALK T0 ME 0N THAT T00. JUST GiVE HiM Y0UR # 0R ASK HiM F0R HiS S0 Y0U GUYS CAN KEEP iN T0UCH. ALS0 GET HiS E-MAiL ADDRESS/SCREEN NAME iF HE HAS 0NE. iF Y0U GUYS KEEP iN T0UCH THEN YES Y0U GUYS WiLL BE FRiENDS N0 MATTER H0W FAR AWAY Y0U GUYS ARE FR0M EACH 0THER //♥
My best friend just passed away :-[. she was only 13 and she died of cystic fybrosis. i miss her soo much! we have been best friends since the day we met .. when we were 3! every night i cry myself to sleep because i miss her so much! She passed away last week. PLEASE HELP ME! what can i do to keep her with me and what can i do to make me get over the fact that im never gonna see her again!? thanks a lot ..
AWW i'M S0 S0RRY! i NEVER HAD T0 DEAL WiTH THAT BUT THiS iS WHAT i W0ULD D0. BUY A L0CKET & PUT A PiCTURE 0F Y0U 0N 0NE SiDE & A PiCTURE 0F HER iN THE 0THER .. THAT WAY SHE'S CL0SE T0 Y0UR HEART. THERE'S REALLY N0 EASY WAY T0 GET 0VER HER. i'D PR0BABLY NEVER GET 0VER iT iF iT WAS MY BEST FRiEND BUT JUST TRY Y0UR BEST BY KEEPiNG Y0URSELF BUSY LiKE HANG 0UT WiTH Y0UR 0THER FRiEND, TALK 0N THE PH0NE, SH0PPiNG, ETC. WHATEVER MAKES Y0U HAPPY. G00D LUCK SWEETiE i H0PE i HELPED Y0U! //♥
Hey! i have a friend whos parents always move. She might not be at the same high school in a year or so. It's been over a year and she still misses a friend form where she used to live because they got very close. Theres a friend where she lives now that she really likes but dosent'want to get to close because she's afraid that she will miss her once she moves again, like she did with the person in the other place where she lived. She feel complete and a lot better having a best friend. She dosen't know if she should get close to this person and take the pain as she did for the last person or not to get close and not have a best friend. Which should she do? o and she tried talking this out with her parents but the words don't seem to come out.
aww i`m kinda havin the same problem xcept i didn`t move. last year they built a new middle school where i live and everyone from different middle schools had to go there. i made tons of new friends and now most of them go to a different high school then me! i still have all my old friends at the highschool i`m at now but i miss my new friends sooo much because some of my best friends are there. this questions kinda hard but if i were her i`d get close to the person and take the pain because i would want a best friend. she could always e-mail her friend when she moves again, call them, or visit her sometime. that`s what i do with all my friends at the other highschool. hope i helped and good luck with your friend! ♥
i have a friend and her dad used to beat her and rape her and do horrible things to her so she moved in with her half brother and things seemed fine for a while she was really happy but now she's acting like she did when she was with her dad and i think that her half brother might be hurting her but i'm not sure how to ask her about it because she said that he was her last chance and that if she messed it up then she would have nothing left...she thinks that everything that happens to her is her fault and it's not she also doesn't want anyone to wry about her so she doesn't really tell ppl when things are going bad for her she just keeps it to herself and then ends up doing something stupid i'm really worried about her what should i do?
i would ask her how things are going with her and her half brother. if she says things are going bad like he`s beating her like her dad did, then i think you should tell someone like your parents or the school councelor. if you think shes lying about her half-brother beating her tell her not to do that because you don`t want her doing something stupid and get herself into more trouble. everything that happens to her isn`t her fault and she shouldn`t think like that. if she can`t live with her half brother anymore, why wouldn`t she have any place to go? can`t she live with her mom, grandparents, or any other family members? good luck and i hope i helped ♥
I have a "friend" that is sort of mean to my other friends. She excludes them and is very posesive of me. She gets angry when me and my 2 other friends do things together, without her. My other friends basically hate her, but i don't want to break the friendship off because i don't want to make an enemy. I hat being stuck in the middle!!!
~Stuck
tell her she shouldn`t do that to you! i understand why your friends hate her! she should understand that you have lots of other friends and you wanna hang out with them too. she isn`t really a friend if she only wants you to be with her and not with anyone else ♥
Ok so I have a good amount of friends and everything... but I am a bit shy. I just know I'd have WAY more friends if I was more outgoing. It's just really hard for me. Can I have advice on how to become more outgoing... and what I should do? Thanks.
-Hopeful
you can join clubs after school like your favorite sport club, art, music, whatever you want! you`ll meet lots of different people. just be yourself and then you`ll have a lot more friends! ♥