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Hey!
Im kalene im 15 years old And i D Love to answer any of your ?`sz ill do the best i can! Ive been threw alot in my life and i bet i could help you through alot..if you got`sz ne more ?`sz feel free to im me or email me or whatveer floats your boat!!
Love ya
--xO KalenE

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ahhh!!! im gonna go crazy. one of my best friends thinks her life sucks and it doesn't. because her boyfriend broke up with her and her parents don't treat her right. she said she's going to start cutting herself and that she's given up on God. I don't know what to do. and please don't tell me to talk to her. if you do tell me what to say. because i'm really confused...

Tel her that if she starts cutting her self people will dislike her more because they will think shes a freak and she could kill her self and then she d go to hell and regret that boys are ass holes your going to get more broken hearts but you gotta move on LIFE sux everyone knows that and offer it up people have it worst then you..tell her to get up stop crying and getting people too pitty her and do something abouot it tell her to talk to her parents tell her to find a new guy and smash it in his face and tel her to get makeup or some new clothes and make her feel soo great about her self when she looks in teh mirror good luck!!
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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My friend and i had a fight last summer. And then when school started she acted as if the fight never happened. Shes all like" Hey Buddy!!"
I dont belive she just be mad then be all nice.
She then made most of my friends turn against me. I'm not her friend anymore but she insists on being friends. How can i get her to leave me alone?

Telll her * Why would i want to be friends with someone who made all my friends turn against me there is more people out there that will be my friend who wouldnt do that..so just leave me alone and go hang out wit other people...* she was mean to you do the same to her!good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?!

Girls always fight just dont talk to her and she ll come back to you..if she s a tru friend
good luck
((xo-Kalene-Ox))

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this question dosent really go under friendship..but there was nothing else i coul put it under...anyway..i got a dvd player for christmas and i have some good dvd's like napolian dynamite but i get sick of it if i watch it alot and the day after tommorrow but that is pretty long and finding nemo but that aso gets kinda boring... the only movie that i enjoy watching is my favorite movie ever...sweet home alabama...i dunno what it is about that movie but i never get sick of it...does anyone have any other movies that are good and they never get sick of? cause i would really like another movie to watch! lol =)

I always watch 13 going on 30 and Sweet home alabama is one of my favs as well, um.. I also watch elf alot thats realy funny but it is a christmas movie? umm..Sweetest thing never get sick of that one!! good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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i am 14/f and i'm in 8th grade...i have tons of make-up but i can never put it on quite right!! i can do mascara and concelor and i can do the blush and the lips that i can do good...but i have a horrible time doing the eyes...i dont know why but everytime i try to do them i just cant do it right..and it looks really bad! i cannot do eyeliner at all! and the eyeshadow just dosent work for me...does anyone have any tips that might help me be able to put it on alittle better?

well i use mac makeup and first i put on this shimmer color its liek a gold but it jus looks like a lil sparkle behind the dark eye shadow and then i put the darker shadow on its like a taupe and i no that sounds like weird but its very natural and makes you look rele pretty dont go wit a pink or a blue or even a white thats soo 6th grade..upgrade it a notch have fun with it!!
GooD luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Well out of the blue, starting after winter vacation, my old best friend is coming back to my school. We were best friends growing up till third grade when she lefty for a Catholic school well now she's comign to my public school and she was nervous and called me up for the first time in 4 years. NOw that I am the only one she knows it means that sjhe gets to "shadow" me for her first week till she learnes where everything is. I kinda don't want her around anynmore though, she immature and I have outgrown her and made new friends. Yet i feel stuck becuase her mom called my mom and said how excited she was and stuff and i can't just bum her off on someone.... What can i DO?

Well you have to let her shadow you and who knows mabee she matured a lot more..all you have to do is deal wit her for a week then your own your own i bet she ll meet some new friends soo she wont always be by you but i mean be nice to her she mite not be that bad..i mean how would you feel if you were new and you didnt no anyone but one person? think about it like that
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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i have alot of friends and stuff, but iv just started to realize that they might not be as true as i thought. i love them but i hate them, they just seem not to care anymore. i also have people calling me a whore and a slut and stuff like that wenever i walk by because my "friends" tell them stuff thats not true. how do i avoid something like that..and how do i know if my friends are true?

Well obviously they are not tru friends I would talk to them about and ask them why they are calling you a slut and stuff liek that...nd start to hang out wit some new ppl..even if there kinda geeky they ll prob treat u soo much better!!
good luck to ya
(( xo-Kalene-ox))

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i got invited to two things tonight. my boyfriend wants me to hang out with him and stuff. but a bunch of my friends want me to go to their party. half of the party my friends are going to don't like me and it's a sleepover. i want to stay at home tonight but there's no possible way i could get a ride home from a place 15 mins. away bc my parents will be wasted. but i want to go to both! what do i do! HELP!!

If you can take your bf to the party if not hang wit him ull have much more fun bc if have of the ppl dont like ur bound to not have fun...hope ya have a good new years
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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all my friends are either doing something with their family or are out of town! and i have nothing to do or anyone to do something with! =( i'm from minnesota and moved to texas about 3 years ago and each year for new years we have gone to celebrate new years with our family and friends in Minnesota. so this is my first new years in texas and i dont want to spend it alone. does anyone have any ideas of what i can do?

REnt alot of movies get some ben and jerry icecream and then watch the ball drop at 12 whiel ur on the phoen wit a guy or one of ur close friends hehe!! have fun
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Ok, this isn't exactly a friendship question, but i didn't know what else to put it under.
I'm going to turn 14 in about a month, and I'm in the 8th grade. This year my parents are letting me have a party, and I need some good party ideas for my age. Skating is out of the question because i had one for my 13th birthday party.
Any suggestions?

Well if your allowed too have it at your house for my 13th birhtday i had like a hawian them and mi mom all made us unacholic pina coladas and straberry dackarees and i made these cupcakes that had flowers on um for liek mi birthday cake and ii had all these signs and cool stuff everywhere it was a blast but if u cant..umm roller skating is lots of fun ummu can like rent out like a hotel or something not rele a hotel but there lil dance area its not that expensive and ii dunno how ur friends are but all mi friends like too dance and have lots of fun so have liek a dance kind thing and they have food and dj its aweesome
good luck to ya
(( xO-Kalene-Ox ))

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2 of my friends are starten 2 act like whores it dont exactly turn me on and they think it does becouse they are always wherein whorey clothes and acten like they are prosttutes around me and my friends how do i tell them that the whorely style doesnt turn me and my friends on

Say if your trying to dress like that to turn us on or get attention well your gettin attention but not the kind that you want..be your self dont try to be someone that your not...
good luck
(( xO-Kalene-Ox))

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Ok there is this girl at school..ill call her Kristen and we were like best friends in 5th and 6th grade and the beginning of 7th grade..we are now in 8th grade and i think Kristen hates my guts but im not really sure..but i still sorta wanna be Kristen's friend. My other friend ill call her Brittany..who is still my friend..is like best friends with Kristen. And whenever its just me and Kristen together..shes so mean to me and doesn't talk to me or anything. and whenever Brittany is around me and kristen..like we are all together..Kristen is super nice to me.. i think its because ive told brittany about kristen being like this and kristen doesn't want brittany to yell at her.I want us all to be friends..but i don't know how to because kristen is sorta 1 of the popular girls and im more in the middle and i don't know how to talk to the popular ppl. Sorry it was long..but does anyone have any ideas of how i could become friends with kristen? Or why she does is mean to me usually..but when brittany is there she isn't? Thanks in advance!

this is a hard question i think you should ask kristen what her problem is with you and why she acts the way she does in certain situations and to be honest some times people who r popular are kind of snobby and are mean bc they think they are better then every 1 but if kristen treats you like htat alone shes not a very good friend so i d say just stick wit brittany and she may see your spending alot of time wit her and wanna be part of that if not us leave it go dont try to be all nice to her and liek bowing down to her bc then she has a rite to treat you like that! stand up for your self babe hope i helped
cya
-kalene

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