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Q: my bestest friend is probably making out with her bf right now and im a bit jelous because the one boy i really like likes me back but we vcant be together and im kind of like uch right now because her life is going so smoothly and mine is to but its not as intresting but usually she feels this about me and im so happy that shes finally happy how do i get over this jelousy.? because ive seen jelousy tear up friendships but i dont want that to happen beteen me and my friend we are bestest friends till the end
i know im so lucky to even have a best friend but im just kind of like jelous that somones life is "better" then mine i know it sounds retarrded but its tru
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you shouldn't wait on the boy to ask you out if you know he likes you and you like him. maybe he's waiting on you to make the first move and that's okay. go for it. then you won't be so caught up in your best friend's life. you four as two couples could hang out and it would be a lot of fun and you wouldn't have a reason to be jealous anymore. also, try handling your jealousy problems with jesus. :) he will do wonders. hope i could help.
x0//ViNTAGE
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Q: Okay, the other day at school a lot of high school kids came to our school and my best friends sister came. My best friend (shelby) also has another sister that goes to my school(nicole), so me, shelby, her older sister(brianna), and nicole and HER best friend (Rachael) were sitting there talking to her Brianna. Me and rachael already know brianna because we have gone over to her younger sisters houses so we know her pretty well. So, rachael goes up to brianna and they give eachother a hug. Then i go up to her and try to give her a hug and she dosent hug back and it was really embarrising. She gave everyone a hug except for me. Then i thought, "o great, next year when i go to high school, i will have no friends" I thought this because Brianna would hug everybody but me and i am scared that i am just not ready for high school. I know that this has nothing to do with high school but i already dont have a boyfriend and all my other friends do and they r way more expeirienced so those are two reasons i think i am not ready and i feel ugly and like a baby. I know this may not seem like a big deal to everybody but to me it is, so could someone please help? Thanks so much! :)
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don't worry. i felt exactly how you're feeling before i went into highschool. all of my best friend's had older siblings at the highschool so a lot of people knew them and i always felt like i wouldn't be popular or have a lot of friends once i got there like i did in middle school. in highschool there isnt really "a most popular group" or person, everyone hangs out with different people, sure they have their cliques but there is so many more people in highschool no one really pays attention to silly stuff like that. maybe that girl just isn't looking forward to you coming to highschool because she may feel you are a threat to her and all the guys will be looking at you. and dont worry about having a boyfriend, it's better you'll be going to highschool single so you will get a chance to look at all the older guys (because believe me, once your in highschool you really don't pay attention to the freshman guys) and not be tied down! don't worry about being less experienced, that just makes you look less like a slut. i mean in middle school all of us thought boys liked you more if you did "stuff" but now we realize if thats all a guy wants they aren't worth it! so hang in there and you have a few more months of school and all summer to meet highschoolers, go to places they hang out at and just smile at everyone and don't be shy. you'll fit right in. :) hope i helped!
x0//ViNTAGE
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Q: Ok well I got into a fight with this girl Taylor and ened up callin her a crappy friend. I started the fight by saying "why do you always ignore me" (bad thing 2 say because she got mad)Then she showed this letter to Bianca and got bianca to turn againest me. And i said sorry 2 taylor but she said i am a drama queen. We are bff and now she just ends it. So when Bianca and Taylor had a sleepover they ganged up on me and bianca was my bff and she was like "Ali i have a right 2 know why ur mad at me even though we arent goin to be friends" But i didn't tell them. And now im not friends with them. Theres a lot more but u would get really confused. Well what should i do bec there my bff and one minute im mad but then suddenley forgive them and they are going to take it anymore.
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don't let them walk all over you. obviously they aren't the best friends that you call them. they are immature and probably jealous of you so don't let it get to you. i think you should make them think it doesnt bother you because if they know it gets to you then they will continue to hurt your feelings etc because you let them. stand up for yourself and i'd be looking for new best friends. :) hope i helped a little.
x0//ViNTAGE
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Q: my "best friend" is going after a guy I like. I introduced them and I told her I liked him before she even met him, but now she's going after him behind my back and aparently he likes her.. am i the one being messed up or is she?
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don't blame yourself. your friend is being very disrespectful to you in doing the things you said. if they were friends before you began dating him that would be a different story. i would talk to her one on one about how you feel before it blows out of proportion. if this continues she is apparently not a true friend. i hope everything works out for you. :)
x0//ViNTAGE
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i love jesus.
my family and friends are amazing.
smiling is my favorite.
i'm usually a pretty happy person.
i'm kind of shy, not stuck up.
i'm addicted to texting.
the 70's and 80's own me.
we will probably get along. (:
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: March 11, 2007 Answers: 39 Last Update: March 18, 2007 Visitors: 3867
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