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you can call me tori.im fourteen- but know alot for my age.
im taken& he means the world to me.
i love helping people with their problems
and since i've been through a lot it's easy
for me to help& understand.
i have alot of fake friends.
im not even close to perfect.
i hate when people lable.
i like straight-up, outgoing people.
hating me isn't proving anything.
i love to smile.(:
hopefully i'll help most of you
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Welp i'm fourteen and I wrote to you before.But I used to have a cutting prob. but I haven't in a long time.It seems I still want to tho.I think it's because my one friend doesn't eat all the time and I hate that!She's already tiny-pff.But it seems to be a thing for girls to not eat anymore.I don't get it.She says it's wrong to cut..but it's not good to not eat when your already a size 2.She looks sick and pale.She can't cover it up;really.I talk to her but then she will bring up my prob.I want to help her.I think I do but then she ends up doing it over and over again.Ugh;can you help me help her? Thnks.
Well she's right cutting isnt good. i've had that problem before too& it's not good& i've thought about doing it recently. and her not eating probably doesnt help you because shes making it harder- she must have a problem though& you should tell her parents or have your's tell hers because that's not healthy at alll since i've also went through that too. hopefully if you tell someone close to her they will notice it too and get her into help. she really does need it& if she wants to stay healthy she needs to do it the right way. i hope you can get her help& i hope you help yourself too because cutting isnt the awnser- you two should try& help eachother out.
14/female
My relationship with my best friend is falling apart. Last summer was the summer of my life. We had a huge group of friends; 6 of us girls. then we parted over the summer, and i became close with this girl.. and we went everywhere together. we were all each other had for a friend basically. then we entered highschool. of course we had problems with like friends and stuff, but then in the past couple months things have been horrible. ive cried the past few nights just because she is being really rude to me.. and i didnt do anything wrong. she says something is wrong, then we talk and she is fine.. then the next day its back to square one. im just really confused.. and i odnt know what to do with summer coming up. she has all her friends i dont fit in with.. and i feel really awkward with them. i just, dont want to lose her.. and our relationship means a lot to me. sometimes though, i feel as if she uses me.. and doesnt understand my feelings. [im really emotional].. idk, im not one to stick up for myself.. but i am thinking about saying something to her about it. i just, dont know what to do. and i really need help. so, i hope this wasnt too long and confusing, but thank you for reading it.
you should defanitly talk to her about it i know your probably nervous because you dont want to make matters worse than what they already are but you shouldnt hold stuff like that in. sounds like shes having some mood swings and maybe going threw a lot and now shes taking it out on you. thats why you need to talk to her and see what her problem is. tell her that your relationship means alot to you and your only trying to make everything better if she starts to get an aditude with you about it.
so i have this friend and she is really retarded and i dont want to be mean to her or anything but how do i tell her that she needs a fucking life besides acting like a total dickkkk all the time!?!?!
fuckkkkkkkk offfff chelsea =)
Hi;i'm 14/f.
I need help.I feel the need to tell a friend to stop talking to this boy.I think it's to late.He's alittle older and tells her to sneak out so they can do ''fun stuff''.Hum..wonder what that is.I mean she tells me she won't but I know he could talk her into it.I know when he moves out or away she'll be heart broken.Then she won't eat;this is something she likes to do when she's upset.When I talk to her about it she won't listen and sometimes that makes me mad.I don't mean to talk behind her back but I can't help it.I want to help her.But now she says she LOVES him.I don't want her to get hurt and have to get even thiner.Ugh.What should I do?
well your not really talking behind her back you just trying to help. she needs to understand that your just trying to be a good friend and help her. you really need to get her to eat again; talk to you other friends and see if they noticed this too. or even if they dont sit her down and have a one on one talk& let her know that your worried no matter how mad she gets she needs to know this. he doesnt sound like a very good boyfriend it almost sounds as if he just wants to do stuff with her than puts stuff in her head. maybe thats why shes also upset; if it gets any worse you might need to tell her mom or an adult that she is close to go get help
My best friend.. I don't know what happened. But I can't stand her. There's seriously no jealously or drama .. anything going on. But lately she has been bothering me. I don't know. The things she does irriates me sometimes. Like when she tries to make me feel guilty for not sharing/buying her something. She would never repay me back anyways. She would always ask me if I was emo [that bothers me so much] whenever I didn't smile for a second. Is it just a phase? I don't know. She keeps throwing so many questions at me and I can't face her. I don't know. I feel like I'm taking care of her sometimes. I'm not her mother... My other best friend has noticed the distance between us. I really don't like her clinging onto me sometimes. I dont know why I'm suddenly feeling like this.
well she might be able to feel the distance so she is trying to ask all the questions to feel close to you again. but you need to let her know that she is bothering you before you stop being friends because that wouldnt be good. you dont have to be mean but you dont have to be super nice either just try and say it to where she understands where your coming from.
im 14 and me and this girl have been friends for like ever. and suddenly she just started crap. she told the people i sit with at lunch i was talking about them behind their back. WHICH I WASNT! and now all of them hate me. and i play a sport and two of the girls from the lunch table are on the team. at one of our games, she had people crowding around her and saying i was being a total biotch! and all she does is make up lies. i tried to tell the people i didnt do anything but they dont believe me. please help.
she might have heard stuff that maybe you were saying abour her even if you werent! maybe another close friend got jealous of how close you were and wanted to end it so they started stuff. if you want to get to the bottom of it just confront your friend and ask her why she is acting like that and try to talk to her and explain everything to her also try doing that with the other people. it almost sounds like your friend coulda been jealous of something you did so she had to make herself look good. and if you two have been friends for a long time talking to her shouldnt hurt even if you do fight a lot of friends do and they get over it. if she still wont listen to you then she wasnt a true friend all along which kinda sucks =/
You give wonderful advice ( ;
we should probably hook up sometime.
haha just kiddin
hah. thankss