My relationship with my best friend is falling apart. Last summer was the summer of my life. We had a huge group of friends; 6 of us girls. then we parted over the summer, and i became close with this girl.. and we went everywhere together. we were all each other had for a friend basically. then we entered highschool. of course we had problems with like friends and stuff, but then in the past couple months things have been horrible. ive cried the past few nights just because she is being really rude to me.. and i didnt do anything wrong. she says something is wrong, then we talk and she is fine.. then the next day its back to square one. im just really confused.. and i odnt know what to do with summer coming up. she has all her friends i dont fit in with.. and i feel really awkward with them. i just, dont want to lose her.. and our relationship means a lot to me. sometimes though, i feel as if she uses me.. and doesnt understand my feelings. [im really emotional].. idk, im not one to stick up for myself.. but i am thinking about saying something to her about it. i just, dont know what to do. and i really need help. so, i hope this wasnt too long and confusing, but thank you for reading it.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? toriiii answered Wednesday June 6 2007, 12:41 pm: you should defanitly talk to her about it i know your probably nervous because you dont want to make matters worse than what they already are but you shouldnt hold stuff like that in. sounds like shes having some mood swings and maybe going threw a lot and now shes taking it out on you. thats why you need to talk to her and see what her problem is. tell her that your relationship means alot to you and your only trying to make everything better if she starts to get an aditude with you about it. [ toriiii's advice column | Ask toriiii A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.