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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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ok i need quick finger desserts for around 30 teenagers by tommorow night and i dont know what to do. help please

moterzilla sticks
quesdillas
pigs in a blanket

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my friend passed away tuesday on the first day of school. i'm making a slideshow and was wondering if anybody has any idea for some good songs to put in it? thanks a lot.

im srry =[
fallen angels-- aerosmith
glycerine-- bush
counting blue cars-- dishwalla
tears in heaven-- eric clapton
what if god was one of us-- Joan Osbourne

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ok i have a friend and were like sisters we walk talk and eat at the same time we even finish each others sentences. i love her to death but she stayed over at my house for a month how do i tell her she is getting on my nerves with out hurting my feelings ?? Plz give me advice

just like sisters you will get on eachothers nerves. if she does something that bothers you then just tell her nicely, maybe you could tell her that since you gonna be together for awhile that if you do anything to bother her then for her to tell you

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My "best" friend carrie went out with mark, who is one of my other best friends. They broke up after three days because Carrie thought Mark liked me instead and ever since then she has changed a lot. Slowly, she can began being obsessed with being popular, lying, attention, cheating, cussing, and she gradually pushed away all of her friends. After she had lost four best friends, she came to me. I heard Carrie talking talking to one of my friends about me and I confronted her CALMLY about it on IM that day.
Carrie: hey
Me: hi
Me: how come you said I was fat?
Carrie: what the hell? i never said that.
Me: I heard you say it
Carrie: I DIDNT SAY THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me: I heard you and so did about three other people so don't lie. I just want to know why u said it.
Carrie: MY FUCKING GOD!!
Me: can you stop cussing?
Carrie: what the fuck?
Me: okayyyy im going to take that as a no
Carrie: you know what? fuck you
Me: I never even did anything to you.
Carrie: WHO GIVES A FUCK IF I CALLED YOU FAT!? GET THE FUCK OVER IT! FUCK YOU
Then she signed off.
An hour later she called me and said "Look, I'm sorry. I never even said that. I would not ever talk about you behind your back."
I didn't even want to listen to her try and lie again so I just said "ok I'm going. bye" and hung up.
A few minutes later, my friend, Samantha, signed on and said that carrie had said something else about me.
Carrie signed on.
Me: wow. you said ANOTHER thing about me? how do I copy you? Normally I could care less if you said it to my face..but you just told me that you never talk about me behind my back.
Carrie: so?
Me: so, you lied AGAIN.
Carrie: w.e.
Me: can you please just go back to normal..everyone wants the old you. you haven't been normal since you and mark broke up.
Carrie: i dont give a fuck
Me: please stop cussing
Me: ok look i was going to invite you to my party but i cant
Carrie: w.e.
Me: i dont want someone cussing in every sentence at my party and i've asked u nicely to stop
Carrie: I DONT GIVE A FUCK!!
Carrie: SHUT-THE-FUCK-UP!!!!! FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then she signs off and calls me and says, "LOOK I'M SORRY AND YOU CAN'T ACCEPT THAT, THEN SCREW YOU!" and hung up.
Well, what the heck? What kind of apology is that?!?! She's apologized two more times but I don't really think that's enough after what she did..do you?
Should I ever forgive her or just stop being her friend?

This is long, so I'll give 5's to anyone who at least tries.

i dont understand why you would want to be friends with someone like that but okay. why dont you try confronting her in person, that way she cant sign off or run away. if your still fighting then you can try to just drop it and wait a few weeks and see if she changes, maybe shes just still upset about breaking up with her b.f

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ok, well here's the story. i'm having my 14th b-day party and i am not having a big thing, all my frends r from skewl but 3 of them kno each other and the other on doesn't rele kno the other one. i'm thinking about a slumber party but i dont want to make the last girl feel left out. wut do i do???? help plz!!!

usually at a slumber party if you dont know people you usually get to know them and you just become friends. so i would have a slumber party

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My friends are seniors so I want to make them a graduation gift, which is a music video type thing. But I need some good music... does anyone have any good suggestions? I already know about vitamin C graduation song and green day's 'the time of your life'. And any suggestions on making the music video better [using movie maker]

thanks! I rate high :)

the starting line -- best of me
third eye blind-- hows it gonna be?
lost prophets-- last train home
the beatles-- let it be
nickelback--photograph
third eye blind-- semi charmed life
aerosmith--dream on
saliva--always
kenny rogers-- we've got tonight
lifehouse--you and me

^ those are some songs that i thought you could use

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okayy i have 90$ to spend on christmas presents for 3 girls and 3 boys. The girls i have picked out already and that leaves me with about 40$. This one guy jimmy, i like a real lot and i was thinking of gettin him a 24$ calonge from abercrombie so thats 26$ left. i don't know what i can get my other two friends.

Luke- he's a skater, he's funny, likes sugars and candies and even though he's 13 hes pretty much loving in a 8 year old attitude. like he gets excited over stupid things and the other guy, Tyler if pretty much the same way only hes not a skater i dont know what i can get either of then with 26$ so if anyone had ideas i'd appreciate them so much!

- ill rate if you answer

Thank you,
Alisha

for luke go to a candy store and fill a BIG bag with all his favorite candies.

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Hey Columnists,


OK, here's the deal. I am 13, and I am in 7th grade. My best friend,(9th grade) has been my best friend sence we were like 2 years old. When I was in about 2nd grade, my friend(4th grade), her brother(5th grade), played "Truth or Dare." What we did was dare each other to get naked, and then he would touch us. Well I have had a HUGE crush on him sence I was in 1st grade. This guy is in 10th grade, and on the computer he asked me if I wanted to play truth or dare with him again, but this time just me and him and i can't tell my friend. I said I don't know and signed off. I know that was him on his screename becuase he asked me in person, I pretened I did'nt here. I want to do it, but I can't let my friend know and thats very hard for me...becuase she is my BEST FREiND! Should I do it? or not? THANKS!

no.. you dont know what hell do if its just you guys. my step dad always tells me about his friends sister who was 14 years old and she was home alone with her boyfriend in the basement and he strangled her so dont do it not only that but if your friend does find out then shell be mad


she knew this kid for almost her whole life too.. he also told me about the two kids who were BEST FRIENDS and he killed her and they were best friends.. like hung out everyday

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there is this girl that i've liked since 2nd grade and i like her even more.i am now in 9th grade and i think she is the one but i am afraid to ask her out because i am afraid she will say no. so what should i do?i am a male.

just ask her out.. the worst she could say is no and if she does just move on

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14/f my friend's dad just died this morning. what can i do to show her that i care and that i'm here for her? i have no idea what to say to her because i've never experienced a real loss..

theres nothing you can say. my dad died too and i felt like i just wanted people to stop feeling bad for me so maybe just try to cheer her up.. but if she needs a shoulder to cry on..

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how do u get your advise thing to be so colorful and pretty ?

to tell you the truth i saw another girls adivce column that looked like that so i just played around with colors

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hey, well see there is this guy...and he's really sweet to me on IM. then my friend tried to set us up. like she told him to get to know me, is what i really mean. and then he told her that i sound cool, but he wouldn't talk to me. i still wanna get to know this guy but how can i do that if he won't talk to me?
-can't get him to talk

maybe he has a g/f or something. has he ever met you in person? if not, maybe hes scared to meet you or something. or maybe your coming on a lil too strong

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hi my name is destiny and i need help trying to get a bf.i going to middle school and i like a boy but i pick on him cause i like but he hate me.

im guessing that your going into 6th or 7th grade. im going into 9th grade and iv never had a b/f either. your still young, dont rush things. but to answer your question, try to get him to notice you. talk to him about things he likes. if you still wanna make fun of him, then do it in a playful way s ohe knows that you dont realy mean it and just want his attention. good luck

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I dont want to be left out from my friends...how do i make it so im happy and im loud and boy crazy and just described as "awesome" please i really want to be outgoing and like this!

you cant change yourself to be like other people, if you do that people will know that your being fake and acting like a poser. just be yourself.

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ok so for the 4th im going to this crazy party..there will be alcohol..firewors..etc. of course we dont want any of our parents to come pick us up from this party because we will be too tipsy plus it will be too late...we are thinking of calling a taxi to take us home..my dad works the nightshift so he wont be home and my mom almost always falls asleep early..do you think if we had the taxi drop me off at the bottom of the hill from where i live ( a country road) and turn its headlights off so nobody will be awaken by me..think it wwill work out? if my mom is laying in bed and is awake by chance..and she asks why im home so late i can just say because my friends family were out at this 4th of july fireworks display 45 minutes away and thats why im late (1 am im thnkin of being home)

tips on staying calm when tipsy?
tips on not drinking too much? i just wanna get a lil buzzed
if you dont like my plan what is yours?

not a good idea, how do you know that when your 'tipsy' that you are going to be able to call a taxi. then if you do, are you going to remember to tell the taxi to drop you off and the end of the hill and turn the lights off? and then what if he doesnt want to turn his lights off? i would suggest maybe sleeping at the party (if its someones house) or sleeping at a friends house.

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a few days ago my best friend(a girl)asked if i wanted to go to the movies.i said sure and i decided to invite my boyfriend to come along too.he has done things with us before but never said what he said to me.he told me he didnt want to go because he didnt like my friend and he never has he was just too afraid to tell me.now i am really upset because my best friend is upset. we cant do things together nemore. i am really close to both of them and now i cant even talk about them near each other because i know they dnt like it even if they dont say nething.what should i do?

how did your best friend find out? did you tell her because if you did then you've had to known that she would get upset.i think it might be for the best anyway at least your boyfriend thought you could handle the truth and told you and now you can have one on one girl time with your best friend, besides im sure she must've gotten tired of you two being together and just her, like a third wheel or annoyed that your not paying as much attention to her as you used to

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I'm a female

You see, I started going to a new school this year, and everyone was mean except this one girl, who was really nice to me. But then once I started to think we could be bestfriend, she told me off and said she didn't want a bestfriend. It really hurt my feelings...but now that it's summer and she got my phone number, she's been stalking me, wanting to be bestfriends again. She's always calling me, and now she is coming over tomorrow, on Friday. She's really picky about things, and I have no clue what to do when she comes over. We don't like the same movies. She likes romantic comedies...does anyone know of any movies like that (PG rated please)? And what are some nice things to do when she is here?


Thanks! I'll rate high!

you shouldnt allow her to treat you that way, is she gonna dump you again once the school year starts up? that is something you should be asking yourself. maybe you and her could walk to a nearby movie store and pick out some movies together so you'll both be happy. you could also walk to an ice cream or italian ice place and sit out in the sun. if you have a pool you could go swimming.

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Dear Julie,
My name is Hope and I am going into 8th grade and I like to talk on my screen name all the time and I was talkin to this gril and she says that I am very quite at school and everybody thinks I have no friends but i do and she dosent belave me. I am feeling so sad and alone and I don't want people to keep thinking that please help me.
Hope
P.S. Please e-mail me at butterflygirlhs7@yahoo.com

i sent my answer to your email address.. i hope it helps

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Ok I have 4 friends...2 of them I really like to hang out with cause they r down to earth, fun to hang out with, don't act to crazy and I have a lot of fun with them...The other 2 i love hangin out with also but... they r really crazy don't get me wrong I love them to death but.....The first 2 don't like hanging out woth the second 2 as much cause they are really crazy...i don't know what to do...To be honest I really like doing stuff with the first 2 somewhat better cause they are more like me but I really like hanging with the others also....What do I do?

whats the problem? why cant you hang out with both and different times?

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o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???

i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*

tALk to her.. thats the only way your going to find out whats wrong, maybe its something else and she is just upset right now

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