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Hey I'm just an average girl who wants to give people advice to help them! You can rate me 1-5 (5 being the best) and tell me what you think of my advice column and give feedback but dont be rude or anything, so I hope my advice helps =)!
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My best freind likes this kid. He likes her back. Well, me and him argue about stupid things alot and he bugs the heck out of me! He's just so annoying and will yell at me online and stuff. He's a year younger then us. He is considered "gay" in his grade. Well, I also think he is two timing her for this girl in his grade. There was this dance last night and he was with her dancing with her the whole time! My freind likes him so much though. Should I talk to her about it or should I talk to the guy about it.. but I know he will tell my freind. Should I keep it to myself?? Plese help!
I think you should talk to your friend about it because she is your friend and will trust what you say. She has to right to know. Make sure you tell her that you arent positive he is two timing her but you saw him dancing with the girl.
Maybe you could tell her to talk to him about it.
If they settle things out just ingnore him if she really likes him dont get involved and express how much you hate him it could cause problems in their relationship. Just block him online and ingore it.
Hope I helped =)
Okay well I'm 13 and I'm in the 7th grade and I'm worried about my friend. Okay shes pretty much drop-dead gorgeous and could get any guy she wants. Well I mean she's not like a slut or anything (Okay she kissed her ex boyfriend(corey) 4 times he was her first kiss ... and then shes made out with her current boyfriend once. ).
Anyways she has had family problems. She has two little sisters and they get favored and her mom pretty much yells at her 24/7 and ignores her all the time.
Then recently, about 2 weeks ago, she went to her neighbors house(AJ) and Corey was there. Well Corey grabbed her and she was sitting on him ..., hes like really muscular so she couldn't get away, anyways Corey started rubbing her body and then AJ's like on top of her and hes unhooking her bra. She finally got away and ran into the bathroom and Corey comes in and he was all like awwl hilary i'm sorry for being a jerk i'll help you. So Hilary believed him and he ended up unhooking it again. This kept on happening she was there for about 2 hours.
So shes pretty tramatized from that and her mom. Well to make things worse her mom was yelling at her Tuesday night and she wasn't really paying attention because she hates being yelled at. Her dad then asked her if she was paying attention and she was like it's kinda hard not to dad when shes screaming at me. Then her dad comes over and punches her jaw(and her neck cracked).
Now Hilary is one of my bffae and I don't know what to say to her to help her or anything. Please help me on what I can do for this situation to help her out.
Ohh and we were going to call child abuse people if her dad hit her again.
Ok this is a really hard situation but all of this goes to TELLING SOMEONE. DONT wait to call child abuse you have to call them now!!
call them now!!
call them now!!
call them now!!
call them now!!
call them now!!
call them now!!
And about corey he can be charged by the police for sexual abuse and assault, tell the police.
TELL THEM NOW.
TELL THEM NOW.
The more you wait the harder it gets to defend yourselfs.
I have no advice on what to do with her mom unless your friend want to talks to her about it, or maybe she can have her sisters talk to her.
Hope I helped and good luck to your friend.
alriqht we`ll you see my best friend and i have been close for about 3-4 years and shes pretty much the only person i trust. i know she never tells anyone anything i say and i can just tell her anything and i know i dont have to worry about anything gettin out. but heres my problem .. in the summer she qoes to camp for 8 weeks and they qo on daytrips and usually liek everyother week go on trips for almost the whole week. i don`t ever see her once in the summer (seriously) and shes like obbsessed with camp and she might call me once or twice. and she does it ever single summer and usually blames it on me. and like she usually does it in school liek has one best friend and ignores me for liek 3 months and then i get mad and she supposidly doesnt no what im tlkaing about. and i invite her over and shes liek sure and the next day her away will be out with so and so and im not the type of person to hang onto people but i mean shes the only person i trust so its kinda hard not too. and i kinda forgive her when we make-up but i kno exactly whats qunna happen and i mean i kno i cant just forqet about her its kinda impossible. and everytime i talk about her theres no use and everyone knos that she treats me like shitty.and were qoin to hiqhschool toqether (next year) and my middle school qets split up so im loosinq about three fourths of my friends .. ii really need help on what to do.
wow this is a really hard question to answer but i will try my best to help you ok i didnt understand somethings
like when you said she blames it on you?? i mean she blames you for going to camp or something im kinda confused on that
i also dont get when you said, "and i invite her over and shes liek sure and the next day her away will be out with so and so and im not the type of person to hang onto people"
ok well i know everyone says this but its true try and talk to her and tell her how you feel if she is really your friend she will understand and stop but if she doesnt what kind of friend is she? there is still plenty of time to get new friends and you can still keep her as a friend but if she doesnt stop try not to keep her as close or you will be constantly getting hurt
Hope I helped!!
Im a 13 year old girl .... I dont have THAT many friends in school ...(i still have some though) and i also dont know many people in my classes ... what do i do to make friends ???
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i also dont know like anyone in my classes but i just be myself andmake new freinds and remember it doesnt matter how many friends you have as long as you have good ones
Hope I helped!!
Hey, me and my friends are always bored! we are always sitting in my garage and keep repeatingly keep saying "what do you wanna do" ! do you have any ideas that we can do!? please suggest! i rate high for good answers!
Ha i know EXACTALLY what you mean well if your mom can drive you somewhere there are plentyy of things to do for example:
- go to the movies
- go to starbucks??
- go the the pool if you dont have one
- go to the beach
- go to the park?
Here are some things you can do at home:
- walk around the block
- go in the pool if you DO have one
- play truth or dare??
- watch a movie at home
- make up a dance
- bake something??
Well thats all I can think of for now!! Hope I helped!!
ok i have a problem mii bff is s/o one of her frends house. but im also that girls frend to n im kind of jealous n i kind of want to make them feel bad about not inviting me...i dont want to bee rude n ask if i can s/o i juss wanna join in on the fun without thinking i invites myself i need help please!!! also do i check ur web page for ur advice answers?????
ok im not sure what s/o means but im going to try and answer it, ok have you ever invited somebody over and not ur bff?? its pretty much the same thing they dont have to invite you everytime, but if they never invite you thats different and kind of rude, maybe when your friends talk about what they're doing like hint in that you have nothing to do all day and your bored or something and MAYBE you might want to talk to your bff about it even though she might tell the other girl but Its worth a try if you cant hint at the face you want to go too, but if she invites you sometimes and sometimes she doesnt dont be jealous sometimes friends like to hang out alone =)
Ok the next question is kind of weird because you will have already figured out where to look once you are reading it lol but for the future if you have an advicenators account there will be the number 1 next to questions and you can look at the webpages also
Hope I helped!! =D
I just moved here from a different state & I'm starting school on Monday next week. I'm extremely nervous, I've never moved schools before & I'm 15. Pretty much, my question is: At lunch, I'll probably be sitting by myself. Does anyone have any suggestions on some things I could do to interest me, while sitting at lunch by myself. I don't want to look stupid and just sit there and stare around at people. I want to be able to do something. I'm not going up to people and asking them to sit with them because, I'm not that type of person. Thanks for your help.
think about it you can look at this two ways
1) just act exited and hyper use all of ur nervous energy in a good way be outgoing nobody knows you here at all so you can start out anyway you want to be
2) you can be shy and timid and end up sitting by yourself for a long time while in your head you are going to regret never being outgoing and trying to make friends all the time and who wants that
trust me just start out like you would with your old friends you'll be much happier and the people at your school dont care!! They mgiht think your weird if you are so quiet because u dont say or do anything!!
I hope you take my advice and I hope I helped!! =D
i need ur help i have this best friend who called this other girl i dont like fat but it was on my sn so she thought it was me so that girl and all her friends started ganging up on me and putting words in my mouth like i called them all fat and this huge fight broke out it was like world war 3 Now my so called best friend saw what i was going through but still would tell them that she said it so then i told them that she did and they still wont believe me now the "best friend" has moved to texas we now have become frineds again but i dont kno if i should ever trust her again.?!!! help
WHy wouldnt you want to trust her again?? She told the people gainging up on you that she did it right "would tell them that she said it" im kind of confused here and the people u are fighting against are just being immiture i know this is really sucky advice but I'm not really following you question?? drop another one in my inbox if you want to make it more clear
Hope I kind of helped!! x0 =D
I dont no what i should do ive known my friend for like 4 years. We have gotten really close but now all of the sudden theres more people that we hang out with. It seems like shes pulling away from me and i dont think she likes hanging out with me. How can i tell if she doesnt want to be with me and what should i do about? The ohter friends she hangs out with i hang out with to. I want to hang with just her sometimes though and i feel that this wont happen much.Please help!
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Well there are two things you can do:
1: I REALLY recomend you asking her if she still likes hanging out with you anymore and you could probably tell by her answer if she means it or not (ask her in person away from everyone else) and ask her if you did anything to bother her that you don't know about, it could just be that she likes hanging out in groups instead of just with one person because she thinks it's more fun.
2: Maybe if you want you can ask her to come to your house more often and see if she acts differently then she used too, and if she does then ask he whats going on but if she doesnt maybe she isnt pulling away from you and she doesn't relize that shes hurting you so you should just tell her how you feel
Well I hope I helped!! =D Good luck!!
ok so when your on the phone it REALLY sucks when you have awkward silences! so wut r some things yo an talk about? like lets say you want to make a list of topics to talk about, wuts r some things you could put on the list? pleas hurry! ill rate for fast asnweres
Here are some ideas:
1)Bring up something that has happened recently with yourself or them
2)Talk about an inside joke
3)say, "well this si wierd" and something will pop up?
4)talk about what u r doing....maybe
5)tell a funny story of something that happened to you
Well thats all I could think of Hope I helped!
Hey, here's something quick. My friends and I have nothing to do today! We really want to go out! It's raining and is supposed to continue all day! Have any fun ideas for teen girls? Mucho Gracias!
Theres not many things to do on rainy days but i would suggest going to the mall or seeing a movie, or go to starbucks YUM! Hope I helped!
OK my best friend ashley is comming to visit me from CO on sunday and i dont want her to be bored or anything while she is here! Does anyone have any ideas of what we can do?? Thx a bunch!
Ok here is a list of ideas :-D
1)The movies are always great
2)Walk around your neighborhood
3)Rent a movie
4)Go to the park
5)Go to a fair if there are any
6)Amusment/water parks!
7)truth or dare?
8)make up a dance
Well thats all i can think of! Hope I helped!
i have this rly good friend. but now....shes different?? she always blackmails me. 'if you dont tell me this i'll tell everyone ....' and now shes like best friends with my worst enemy!! she always talks about my enemy behind her back even though shes friends with her. and i have a feeling she talks behind my back too. i dont really wanna loose a friend, but if i talk to her about it she woould just make up excuses or say something rude. 'oh? so what i blackmail u? at least im not ___ like u' shes also a spoiled brat! she wanted an ipod , a laptop, a flat screen tv, and she got it all. and she tells me every single day 'did you know i own 6 other houses?'
what should i do?
Wow you have no idea how many stories i've heard about these things happening, Well I know you dont want to loose a friend but think about it, what kind of friend is she!? I mean she really has some attitude problems to work out, Maybe one of the reasons she acts like this is because she is spoiled and she's used to always getting what she wants and used to having the world revolve around her, If I were you I'd just stop being her friend and stop talking to her and one day she will regret not being friends with you and leaving you for some other weirdo that you hate, ok I hope i helped!
OK, brace your self, a while ago this guy trent ased me out and he was 2 years older. I said know cus i just got out of a bad relation ship. Now hes reallllly good friends with one of my good friends James. James is going out with alexa and trent is going out with alexas friend ashlyn. well me ash and alexa are all 14 ( im not good friends woth them) and james and trent just turned 16. WELL ANY WAY... I have these to other real good friends Morie (girl) and briana. and one day we (james trent bri morie me) were all hangin out at night and out of absoluty no where briana goes Oh My Gosh I LIKE TRENT!!! ...ALOT!!!! A WHOLE LOT!!!!! .. I WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH HIM!!! and i was all confused , she suddenly likes this guy and just goes to atempt to make out with him (BTW bri just turned 13 last week) Well after she triend to and failed at making out with him she told MOrie to do it. Morie said she didnt want to chus this was the first night she ever met him. well bri said if she didnt so wuold kill herself ( she "cuts") so morie talked to trent about it ( mo turned 12 last month) and they went in the back and made out. well over the night trent began to really like her. They made out like 5 time and he followed her EVERY WHERE!! and they flirted alll night. SO me and james were like "trent arnt you going out with ashlyn???" He said " im taking a break" But later ashlyn called james saying "trent isnt anserwing his fone if u see him tell him to call." James asked if they were still going out and ashlyn said yes. So trent is baisicly cheating on her with morie, but Mo and trent arnt actually going out cus mo likes his little brother(14) who likes Alexas cusin mandy and also because trent is almost 5 years older then morie. And latly he is flirting a lot with me to and i keep telling him hes taken and i dont mess with taken guys. but i do like him a little. And I am just soooo lost! what do i do, what should MO do, Should we tell aslyn, or what should we tell trent... or just help!!
sorry its so long. If you actually read this and anserwed you get an auto 5 ( unless your response just SUCKED!)
It's ok that its long ok, first comes first, about ashlyn trent and mo. Trent is being a real jerk about "taking a break with ashlyn" he is being a player and mo is only 12. You have to talk to her because she is probably too young to understand 16 year old guys. Tell her that trent is bad and stuff. Also tell ashlyn about him i mean wouldnt you want to know if uyr bf was cheating on u? Trent has to get his girls straight here! I mean whats he doing? Expecially with a 12 year old girl! Tell him no girl likes a player. Now you...why did you tell trents brothher you are taken???? You didnt say anything about a boyfriend in there lol. But I think you should just wait and see what happens with him and Mandy because he likes her. You will find the right guy dont worry! I hope i helped!
i've been best friends with this girl since 6th grade. and we've always had good time together. but ever since march she's started to hang out w. different people and we've been talking a lot lessand sometimes i feel like i hate her. i'm in florida rite now and i didnt tell her that i was comming down here. and she's on AiiM alot and i havent talked to her...should i talk to her on AiiM? or shood i let her talk to me first?
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I think that you should talk to her first only if you still want to be friends with her. And it has been a while since you talked to her right? So it might seem kind of weird to act all friendly and such so you might want to just say hi and maybe ask her why you havent been talking lately, did you do anything to offend her or something? If you didnt then she is just being a real jerk, but if you do want to be friend with her talk to her on aim because thats always eisier than face to face Hope i helped!