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alriqht we`ll you see my best friend and i have been close for about 3-4 years and shes pretty much the only person i trust. i know she never tells anyone anything i say and i can just tell her anything and i know i dont have to worry about anything gettin out. but heres my problem .. in the summer she qoes to camp for 8 weeks and they qo on daytrips and usually liek everyother week go on trips for almost the whole week. i don`t ever see her once in the summer (seriously) and shes like obbsessed with camp and she might call me once or twice. and she does it ever single summer and usually blames it on me. and like she usually does it in school liek has one best friend and ignores me for liek 3 months and then i get mad and she supposidly doesnt no what im tlkaing about. and i invite her over and shes liek sure and the next day her away will be out with so and so and im not the type of person to hang onto people but i mean shes the only person i trust so its kinda hard not too. and i kinda forgive her when we make-up but i kno exactly whats qunna happen and i mean i kno i cant just forqet about her its kinda impossible. and everytime i talk about her theres no use and everyone knos that she treats me like shitty.and were qoin to hiqhschool toqether (next year) and my middle school qets split up so im loosinq about three fourths of my friends .. ii really need help on what to do.
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wow this is a really hard question to answer but i will try my best to help you ok i didnt understand somethings
like when you said she blames it on you?? i mean she blames you for going to camp or something im kinda confused on that
i also dont get when you said, "and i invite her over and shes liek sure and the next day her away will be out with so and so and im not the type of person to hang onto people"
ok well i know everyone says this but its true try and talk to her and tell her how you feel if she is really your friend she will understand and stop but if she doesnt what kind of friend is she? there is still plenty of time to get new friends and you can still keep her as a friend but if she doesnt stop try not to keep her as close or you will be constantly getting hurt
Hope I helped!!
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