I've dealt with a lot of stuff. Suicide, abuse, and that girl that's only like 13 and not a virgin. And tons more. I really enjoy getting questions from people, but if you just want to talk for no or any reason, or want a more personal answer, I like it even better when people e-mail me. I'm cool with any topic. I get on my email/ site at least once a week.
P.S: sorry for what looks like bad spelling/ grammar, but really I just have a realllly bad touchscreen. sorry!
E-mail: divergirl123_1@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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I'm a 14 year old girl and.. Hey, well today I just read your comment (and the. Post ofc) and I think the other girl and I have things in common. It's 2 years since I started being insecure and anxious. Idk why but everyone at school thinks they're funnier than me and stuff :L I have been playing the guitar (bass too) for 5 years and they just call it s***. And today I felt like I needed to google my normal day cause I can't really live like that so I'm looking for a friend :) kik: Faridaboo palringo:16088078 and email: darkbeautybass@gmail.com
-F.K. (link)
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Sorry if I'm intruding, but do you know who this was directed towards?
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I recently met a guy, we sort of clicked and we and sort of became friends.. Well not really, I'd say acquaintances. We've only hung out twice (the second time was a disaster).
He's asked me to hang out with him a few times, and I was busy and the last time he wanted to hang out. I said I had already plans but I'd hang out, if they changed and that I would get back to him later.
Which I didn't, and I forgot. And he hasn't texted me now in over 3 weeks. Grr, do you think he's pissed and doesn't want to hang out, and what should I do? (link)
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He may think you lost interest. But this happens to me all the time, and the guys just respond with, Hey I am so sorry I got grounded, been super busy lately, etc. But this is what I use when that happens to me- ' Hey, sorry about not being able to hang out, but if you're up for it I'm available --whatever day you're available here-- , if you wanna hang out?' ---- Try that. If he doesn't respond or says no, he may have lost interest. sorry. --hope I helped!
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Bff's that what i thought me and my friends were, me and my ex-best friend had been friends for 3-4 years we were really close told each other everything and never lied to each other. recently i fund out that she has been spreading rumors about me and lying to my face about everything in a journal i found in her room she wrote i want a new best friend. After all this i told her i don't want to be friends now should i still keep her secrets or get revenge by spilling her secrets like she did with mines
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dont. please dont. trust me, Im going through the same exact thing right now. just dont be her friend, and, Im searious, dont tell everyone her secrets for revenge, It'll just snap back at you. im sorry, good luck.
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Alexa/13
I was talking with my best friend about my boyfriend and told her that I had sex with him and that the condom broke. She then said I was becoming a slut and that she was gonna ask my mom to get me help. I was so upset and dont kno why she would say that she made me cry. Why would she say that? It really hurt my feelings and now she wont talk to me. (link)
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psh. you wanna know why? 'cause you are one. your 13! its just sad. i hope you rethink your life and make some better choices.
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Ok so I have this friend and I feel like we both kind of "find an excuse" to touch each other. Like if we're sitting in the car then we'll fall asleep (even if we're not tired) just because we want to lean on the other person. Or reach over to grab something just to touch the other. Ya know little stuff like that. But I'll give you a list of things that have happened:
1. We lay on each other during movies and put our legs on each other
2. One time we were in my pool and she untied my bathing suit and hers and said she wouldn't give it back until I got out of the water and jumped in with her and also later took her bottoms off
3. We were in my pool again and kept wrestling under water and she kept wrapping her legs around me
4. (I have a big butt) and she asked if she could grab it and I let her
5. We are always wrestling and getting on top of each other
6. She wanted me to tell her something and twisted my arm back and was like right behind me and we stayed there for a while
7. We grabbed onto each other during a scary movie and kept holding each other even after the part was over
8. We were watching a movie and her legs were wrapped around mine and she asked what would you do of this was a guy, like that would be awkward and I was like yea!
9. She lured me into one of our guest rooms in the basement that is kind of scary and weird things happen down there. But all of a sudden she acted scared and grabbed onto me and we were laying on the bed and just holding each other really close and all you could hear was us breathing (and we were in the dark) and then finally we got up and she was still acting like she was scared and was grabbed onto me and her body was really close to mine and then I got to the door and turned on the lights
10. She's always acting horny around me like randomly humping poles and walls
11. She had a remote control and got on top of me and was acting like she was raping me (using the remote control as her... Penis)
So yea also answer (based on what I just gave you) if you think that she'll be up for a kiss like if she'll do it. And also how do I go about kissing her? Its all I think about but I really don't just want to ask her so what do you guys think I should do? How do I make moves on her to get close and how can I find a way to kiss her? (link)
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(guessing you're a girl) yay lesbians! anyway.. well what I did to get my 'lover' to kiss me was we were in my room and i put on a movie and just kinda waited until the sex scene then she started to fall asleep, so i said stay up my friend said make me, so.. hehe... i did. lol anyway just like get her alone when your both relaxed maybe even truth or dare. good luck ;D
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