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Okay well I used to have this really good friend, and he was really nice to me until one day I decided to call him and this is what I said,
me:hey!
him:hey.
me:whats up?
him:nothing really you?
me:nothing...
him:okay..
Me:So are you still going out with lauren or whatever her name is?
Him:yea
Me:cool...
him:Why r you acting like such a bitch?
me:What? im not?
him:yeah you kind of are
me:um...no not really
him:ok whatever.
---hangs up---

Then after that day he totally ignored me! He doesn't really go to school cuz he's home schooled so I never see him, but we used to be bestfriends...well to me he was. I was able tell him anything, and now he's being so rude to me. Oh, that's not all that happened. About 2 weeks ago I finally IMed him and was like..
Me:why do u hate me so much?
Him:cause...i do
Me:um ok? well, I didn't do anything to you.
Him:okay...

Then after he ignored me again!
I finally IMed one of my friends and told her wut was going on, and she IMed him and asked him why hes ignoreing me and all that stuff, and after he apologized. Now he's being mean to me again! Just now I IMed him and said hey! And he's like why are you talking to me? and i'm like why not? and he never responded. What the hell's going on, why does he hate me? I did nothing to him so what's he getting all mad about!?! Help I rate high.

{Oh, and yes I tried talking to him so don't say, "try talking to him" cause it doesn't work...just so yall know.}

It might be his girlfriend, she might not like the idea of him talking to you and stuff. Ask his girlfriend.

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my friend is well a "slut" because she goes from boy to boy and the only reason why she does is because she thinks they are cute but recently my other friend broke up with her bf and now my "slut" friend wants to go out with him what should i do because they are both my friends but i dont want any of them to get mad at me...what should i do?

D0NT GET iNV0LED

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my best friend doesnt like my other best friend. waht do I do> shortie

dont hang out with them at the same time. or kind of like invite em both to the mall and meet and just hang for a while and see what happens maybe they will like eachother.

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o0ok.. my best friend well she claims we are best friends and i love her to death. but she is aloud to have more friends but if i go hang out with anyother friend she like gets upset with me n im like o0ok how n the heck is this fair. so if you could help me that would be wonderful ik so confused n have no idea what to do.

thanks
Megan

wow me and my best friend use to be like that a while ago!! I was controlled by them and it wasnt happenning. What happened between me and her was we werent friends for a year!!!(there was 3 of us) i went my own way had way more friends then them and them 2 only had eachother. Then after a year the one friend came back to me because she noticed the other one was not allowing her to hang out with who she wanted so then a year actually helped. Maybe you's should spend less time together and take like a'break' for a little bit untill she gets it that you have more friends.

x3 spiCy xo hoTt

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Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?!

well if you's were really friends for that long its stupid of both of you's to get mad at eachother for that. But it is her fault for giving your purse to someone else. Thats a violation you cant give someone else's stuff away! Marie..well you shouldnt talk about ANYONE cause thats what it leads to you cant trust no one...and its TOTALLY wrong of her to go and tell marie..if that was me i'd probably give it some time and see how she acted ..but at the end forgive her only because you's were friend for that long its stupid to throw away a friend ship that good..

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Ok, i have this friend, well, she's kind of my friend, but not really. she likes me, but i dont like her. she's really annoying, and kinda mean and rude to ppl, even adults, and it gets on my nerves. For example, my sister had a friend over when i had her over, but my friend wanted to watch a movie that nobody else wanted to watch, and she wouldn't let us watch anything else, she literaly too kthe movie away from me and put it in, makin my sister and her friend leave the room. Isn't that kinda rude? What should i do about it?

Well thats definitly rude of her! She has no right to take things of yours and do whatever she wants with them. You should talk to her and tell her u dont like or appreciate how shes acting and if she keeps it up you's cant be friends!
hope i helped

spiCy xo hoTt

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Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out)

Heyy..well first of all i think what both of you guys did was pretty bad because a friend should never sleep w/ a guy that the other friend has a crush on but i also dont think its right that you told the boy that she was pregnant because it is her business and she should've been the one who should've told him...

spiCy x0 hoTt xOx

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i've been friends with the friends i'm with now for a long time.. we've always been close but now, they're all obsessed over like.. iunno being popular or w/e.. they act alot more .. iunno.. they flirt alot more and the diss ppl alot more.. and my guy friends always plan these outtings or w/e they always seem to forget about me and theres this one guy whos always the only person who remembers me.. wut shud i do? plz dunreply and diss me up.. ps. i'm a girl

heyy..well i think you should tell them how you feel n that you guys been friends for so long and that you feel left out..they'll prolly understand n if they dont then their not true friends..hope i helped

Love yah,
SpiCy x0 hoTt xOx

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well me and my friend went to wall mart and stole...and got caught but she blamed it on me and made my poarents pay for the shit she did and i dontr wnat ot tell my mom nor dad cause it will get her in trouble and i dont want to and she says that she will always be there for me....is she telling the truth or is she useing me
and
p.s
shes spoiled and boses me around liek im her slave...
help me please!!!

First things straight shes a terrible friend!! If shes spoiled why would she need to steel?, and blame it on you! bosing 'friends' around aint cool either. i think you should definitly tell your parents that it was her and make them pay for it.or you can tell ur mom u'll repay her for it and not tell on your friend but ur friend is still going to act like a jerk towards you! I wouldnt say shes using you id saying shes being such a bad friend !!!

spiCy x0 hoTt

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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary.

Heyy...well you seem really nice and you definently don't need them stuck up people!and since you dont like any of the people in your classes..make some that arent in your classes. During lunch or in the hall if you see people that look like they're really nice go up to them and start a conversation...but dont try too hard just be yourself and everything will hopefully go well! =) i hope that helped

spiceyx0hott xOx

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