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i have a boyfriend, lets call him [ X ] and my bestfriend is telling me she really likes this other guy, lets call him [ A ]. but everytime i'm hanging out with my bf X and my bestfriend, she's always flirting with him. and i think she might like him, but i dunno how to tell her to just stop w/o hurting her feelings.
anyone have any advice for a nice way to say "stop flirting with my bf!"
please and thank you. (link)
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Tell her that you dont like her flirting with your boyfriend.If she is your friend she will understand then.
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I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.
What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied. (link)
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You have to confront her thats the only way she will know that you dont like how she like how she lies to you.If she was realy your friend she wouldnt lie to you(you should tell her that when your talking to her)and tell her that your starting not to trust her.If you dont confront her then she will just keep lieing to you.So you should realy talk to her.
**~~GOODLUCK~~**
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I have a friend, and whenever I go online, she almost always Instant Messages me. I was cool with it for a while, but no it's just irritating. I've put an away message up, but I always eventually come back. What can I do (It has to be nice)? (link)
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I think you should be honest with her.Tell her that she is IMing you a littel to much.But try not to sound so mean.Or you could do what other people said and tell her your not able to talk.Hopefully things work out!!!!!!
*Good luck*
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My best friend and I were going to go to the same college next year since we both got in and it's a good school (UT). Well I was talking to his mom today and college came up and she said that she was sorry that we wouldn't be able to go to the same school. I asked her what she was talking about because the plan was that both of us would go to UT. Well, it turns out that he had changed his mind a few weeks and go and now wants to go to Tx State.
This really upset me becuase I don't know why he didn't tell me about it. I'm not mad that he doesn't want to go to UT. If he thinks Tx State would be a better school for him and he really wants to go there then fine. But why not atleast share that info with me?
I can't believe I had to find out from his mom in a random conversation I had with her. Why do you think he didn't tell me? Should I ask him about it or wait until her brings it up (IF he brings it up)? (link)
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I think he didnt tell you cause yall are best friends and he didnt want to hurt your feelings by telling you that he wasnt going to UT.I think you should ask him about it instead of wating untill he tells you(who knows he might not tell you).But I think he didnt want to hurt your feelings by not going to UT.
*Good luck*
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ok so today my freind showed up i school with this gorgeous sweater on... however it was sooooo tight on her... it looked bad on her and she looked liek a slu*. (sry) and so like she wears a cami under it(it was a v-neck) but the v nexk litterally comes around her breasts. and it makes her boobs look huge. she gets medium adn not to be rude but she's fat and I get smalls and im pretty skinny. she always dresses like this and i hear people talking about it. how can i tell her she is dressing inapropriately? she's my BF and i want her to be known as lovely. (link)
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I think you should be honest with her.After all she is your BF and if she was a true BF then she would understand.And tell her that noone realy likes a slut.And if she dosent like the truth and she gets mad at you then she realy might not be a true BF.But dot just burst out with you dress like a slu*...Tell it to her in a nice but truefull way!!!
*goodluck*
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Hey so I have a boyfriend and hes really hot but I like him cause I like his personality. So my friend Allie kept on telling him to dump me and go out with her. She already has a boyfriend and I told him and we are both really pissed at her and we dont know what to do. Should I just ignore the fact that shes trying to steal my boyfriend or something else?
Thanks xo0ox (link)
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You need to tell her to stop he is not her boyfriend he is yours.And why is the guy who gose out still going out with her?And why are you still her friend after what she is doing?If she was realy your friend she wouldnt be telling your boyfriend to dump you and go out with her.You need to tell her to stop.And stop trying to take your boyfriend cause if she was realy your friend she wouldnt do that.
*Good luck*
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My friend, Holly. She use to be awesome. Were cousons. Now all she thinks about is being a hor. well at least she acts like one. Shes a bitch. What should I do to remind her shes my friend?
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ill rate high.
ill make fav columnist.
ill do anything but i need help!
thnkz (link)
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Tell her how you feel about how she is acting.If you keep how you feel about she is acting to your self then she might just keep acting like that.To remind her that she is your friend do the things you use to do with her like haging out and stuff like that.Let it be just you and her hanging out.
*Good luck*
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hey my name is ashley and im looking for some cool new things 2 add 2 my profile like quotes or daily tips. I went 2 google and everything and i cant find anything so would someone please give me some quotes or anything i can put on my profile! thx i appreciate it.
O u can Im me on AIM its modeltownerfan (link)
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hey here are some websites i found:
http://www.dailyinspiringquotes.com
http://www.links2love.com/love_quotes.htm
http://www.fukkad.com
http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com/Links.htm
Hope i helped my screename is p3a3n3d3a
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OK, brace your self, a while ago this guy trent ased me out and he was 2 years older. I said know cus i just got out of a bad relation ship. Now hes reallllly good friends with one of my good friends James. James is going out with alexa and trent is going out with alexas friend ashlyn. well me ash and alexa are all 14 ( im not good friends woth them) and james and trent just turned 16. WELL ANY WAY... I have these to other real good friends Morie (girl) and briana. and one day we (james trent bri morie me) were all hangin out at night and out of absoluty no where briana goes Oh My Gosh I LIKE TRENT!!! ...ALOT!!!! A WHOLE LOT!!!!! .. I WANT TO MAKE OUT WITH HIM!!! and i was all confused , she suddenly likes this guy and just goes to atempt to make out with him (BTW bri just turned 13 last week) Well after she triend to and failed at making out with him she told MOrie to do it. Morie said she didnt want to chus this was the first night she ever met him. well bri said if she didnt so wuold kill herself ( she "cuts") so morie talked to trent about it ( mo turned 12 last month) and they went in the back and made out. well over the night trent began to really like her. They made out like 5 time and he followed her EVERY WHERE!! and they flirted alll night. SO me and james were like "trent arnt you going out with ashlyn???" He said " im taking a break" But later ashlyn called james saying "trent isnt anserwing his fone if u see him tell him to call." James asked if they were still going out and ashlyn said yes. So trent is baisicly cheating on her with morie, but Mo and trent arnt actually going out cus mo likes his little brother(14) who likes Alexas cusin mandy and also because trent is almost 5 years older then morie. And latly he is flirting a lot with me to and i keep telling him hes taken and i dont mess with taken guys. but i do like him a little. And I am just soooo lost! what do i do, what should MO do, Should we tell aslyn, or what should we tell trent... or just help!!
sorry its so long. If you actually read this and anserwed you get an auto 5 ( unless your response just SUCKED!) (link)
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You should tell ashlyn.That wasnt fair what briana did to morie because this whole thing would'nt have happend.Morie should tell trent(without hurting his feelings)That he is too old for her and that she likes his brother.And you should tell trent that he should'nt be doing that to ashlyn.But you should tell her before she finds out her self.But either way her feelings are gooing to get hurt.
*Good luck*:)
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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10 (link)
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I would tell them how you feel if I where you I would be mad to because even though it was a joke that was still mean.About the "still be mad at them part"that should be your desion.To me it deepends on the way they act when they tell you sory.Some people would just say sorry to get it over with and some people would say sorry cause they mean it.If I where you they would have to promiss me they would never do it agin.And to know they are not lying they would have to put it on the most valubale thing of your friendship.Hope I helped.
*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)
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i have a problem my friends and there parents are calling me a slut and they think that i've already had sex before when i never did!what can i do to show them that im neither of these things?!? please help me!! (link)
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Why are they calling you a slut?If you never had sex your not.Stick up for your self.Dont let them talk to you like that.If they call you that they must not realy be your friends.Find new friends because your friends who are calling you a slut are not.If you know your not a slut then your not.Ask your friends why do they think your the slut since your a virgin and there not.You shouldnt let anyone call you that.And just tell them out that you have never had sex.And if they dont belive you ask them to ask every guy you`ve been out with.And if they still dont belive you just forget about them and make better friends>
*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)
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i am in skool right now and my friends are next to me. they got an e-mail that has a song on it, they are singing along and won't shut-up! how do i gewt themn to shut up?! now they are also dancing, even the teacher says they should shut up (IN NICE WORDS) and now i am going to kill them! wtf, they won't sahut the f***ing up! (link)
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Just tell to shut up.But if you dont wanna lose your friends ask them nicely or secretly ask the teacher to move you or sperate them.
*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)
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my friend genesa is soo stubborn once she gets angry shes on mute and she gives them the devil's eye and turns people against you even if you give her a billion apologies she won't budge!???? (link)
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You shouldnt even be her friend if you gave her so much apoliges and she still dosent forgive you.And she shouldnt even be turning people aginst you it is her and your argument not everyones argument.You shouldnt even be her friend if she acts that way.
*Good luck*Dont forget to rate:)
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My best friend since Kindergarden is acting really weird. i think it's her mom. Her mom really bashes people and says mean things about them.
Well, we have "popular" girls at our school. And I like them, I really do, and I hang out with them
Well my best friend is saying I am only friends with them to get popular. And it's not true. She also never calls, acts weird around me, and said she couldn't come to my party for a dumb reason. Her mom also said something nasty about me, and my other best friend. Please help me.
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Well it might not her more.Mabe she thinks that you care about being popular then realy being her friend.Try to spend more tie with her and settel your argument.And if it is cause of her mom mabe you need to ask her mom to stop saying all those rude things about you cause she has no right or you could ask your friend to talk to her mom when yall settel your argument.
I hopeeverything works out dont forget to rate:)
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i have a lot of guy friends and they come over to my house a lot (along with other friends who area girls) and sometumes they are like all over me. Sometimes like during the day or something they'll even do it in front of my mom and little sisters. They say stuff like "youre soo sexy" and even stuff about my as.s.. it's really akward around my family.. but i dont want them to think im trying to get rid of them.. how should i talk to them about.. should i even say anything? lol thanks (link)
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I have the same problem with a boy(except he dosent say the stuuf infront of my family)he says things like"Since youve been bad I am going to fuck you hard tonight"or"I am going to smack that big ass of yours"or"love you".You should tell him to stop.Even though I tell him to stop he dosent You might get luck and he might stop:)
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o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???
i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*
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Have you you told her you have the feeling that she dosn`t want to be your friend?Mabe its just a phase pepole go to in friendship.But if its not and she tells you she dosen`t like you cause of somthing you do but you like it about yourself you can always make new friends.
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My best friend jade is getting mad at me because i am freinds with this girl kayla who she got in a fight with. now she wont talk to me unless i stop being kaylas friend, and then we
stoped talking, now yesterday she called me saying that she wants to be my friend again should i forgive her?
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Well it sounds like she wasn`t being a good friend to start with if she wanted you to stop being Kaylas friend.But if she wants to be your friend you should tell her to stop acting like that.:D
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my parents are way overprotective. like my friends are allowed to stay out til 11 or later, and i have to be back before dark! what can i do? (link)
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Mabe your parents still find you as a child.So try to be more responsable in front of them.
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