okay im 15/f and i think i love this boy but hes turning 13 and im fixing to be 16 im not sure how to handle the age difference and all. how do i know if hes to young and/or if i love him?
I think that the age thing isn't really such a big deal if you say that you love the boy. I mean i have been in realationships were i have dated younger boys and most of the time had no problem with it. Also think about it this way when people get older and they get married they are most of the time not the same age and lots of marriages last. I think that you should just stick it out. And also don't let anyone tell you an different if they have a problem with it forget them
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So i have a good friend, we were friends since grade 5. now were in grade 8. in facebook, she tagged all her friends. she tagged me as "a good friend" and she tagged other friends including my crush as "the one you can trust on". so my friend doesnt trust me :(... what should i do? we were like sisters...really close to each other. maybe i was acting a little mean to her. thats coz she doesnt care if a guy makes fun of me ... (being racist with me)..
wow, you are taking that a little too serious. I mean she said that your are a good friend doesn't that mean a lot to you. I mean maybe she felt like you guys were so close that ir shouldn't matter to you if she didn't tag you as her friend. But anyways since it is bothering you tell her how you feel about the whole situation. And try and open up to your crush... you just might have a chance.... good luck... i hope i helped....
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ok there is this guy in my class and he is my best guy friend. ive had a crush on him since we met. i know he only likes me as a friend but my feelings keepgetting stronger and stronger. i want to go out with him so i asked him out and he said "OH GOD NOOOO" but i still like him and my friends keep asking him out for me and i dont want them to. what do i do about him and my friends?
Tell your friends that you want them to just leave it be. Also tryand get over him because you might totally freak him out and lose him all together. Respect his decision for not wanting to go with you. Want the best for him even if it is not you... {i say this like all the time lol} Still be there for him as any best friend will. If it is meant to be it will happen but for now just let it be. Try to migle or meet new guys not saying find a new crush but keep a little bust to keep your mind off of him. good luck.... hope i helped....
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ok i might be thinking too much but what does it mean when a guy friend of yours give you a hug. its almost just like every other time he hugs you, except different. normally we let go after like 2 seconds or something, but for some reason he pushed me to the wall, and then he lets go. we just talked regularly afterwards. im thinking too much arent i? was it a joke? or was it suppose to mean something?
It depends how you felt or how youor how you took it, to me it seems as ifyou took it has more than a friendship hug. Honestly, i couldn't tell you what kind of hug it was because i wasn't there. I think you could be thinking to much of it. I think you wanted to be more than a friend hug which is perfectly fine. Ask him if he thinks your attractive or likes you as more than a friend... see what his answer is. ask yourself if you like him more than a friend and see where that takes the both of you... good luck.. hope i helped...
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I know that it's really not right to want revenge, but I have to have it. Before Halloween this past year, my friend (let's call her Tori)stole the guy I liked, and we were almost going out. She knew I liked him. But I let it go... we became friends again. But now: she did it again. I can't stand her. What can I do to get revenge?? (if you tell me revenge isn't the answer I'm rating a 1)
Your like so right i would get revenge that's the honest truth. Tryand be cool with tori for a little bit and find out who she really likes or even who her boyfriend is. Get him to ethier cheat on tori with you or even get him to leave her. Give tori a little taste of her own medicine....good luck... hope i helped....
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ok well there is this girl in my class. shes such a retard and her name is dana, she is fat and bucked tooth. i hate her!!!!!!!she is soo mean to me and my other friends!!!!!why !!?!? she always wants to hang out with me. i gave her a chance but she turned out to be a stupid fat bucked tooth lard!!! and she is a couch potato. when i can to her house she would eat oreos and watch TV the whole time!!! what should i do to make her stop bugging me?!?!help!!! oh and she says MARR HARR just like nicole does.
Ok, just tell her you don't want to be buddy budyy with her. i mean you are making very clear to me that you don't like her do the same to her. i mean just do little things to express that you don't like her. Or tell her that you would like you and her to just be cool and not best friends. Also, when you tell her try not to be so mean about it. I mean she is a human being... good luck... hope i helped...
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im 15 years old and in the 9th grade ive been best friend with this girl named rebecca, we've been best friends since 6th grade and we were pretty much inseperable! we hung out every chance we could, she's slowly starting to change though and now its like she doesnt even want to hangout with me anymore. everytime i ask her to hang out with me shes always like ''i cant im grounded'' or ''my moms being gay and wont let me do anything'' and then like 20 minutes later on myspace she'll post her status as hanging out with so and so! when she just told me she was grounded. why would she lie to me? i mean i understand shes going to have other friends but that doesnt mean she has to get rid of all of her old ones.i'd rather her tell me the truth then lie to me, if she doesnt want to hangout with me i'd rather her just tell me instead of her just making some lame excuse! i mean why would she tell me shes grounded and then post that on myspace when not only is she my friend on there but i was online too! im her only true friend and she treats me like dirt, she doesnt even talk to me at school she just walks past me and looks at me. she took me off her top and everytime i try taking to her shes really short with me expecially when shes with her other friends. i even bought her something for christmas i messaged her on myspace saying that i got her a gift and that if she wanted me to i would bring it by after my mom gets off. all she replied back with is i have a friend over and then she signed off! i still havent been able to give her gift, because she still has no time for me. i want to confront her about it but i have no idea what to say i dont want her to hate me because she is my best friend i just dont know what to do. i actually care about our friendship and is willing to do anything i can to fix it so any advice will help!
Ok, you should just give her a little more space. you know how us girls are we can't stand each other over the smallest problems. I can understand that you are her best friend but maybe she has madea new one. You need to confront her and when you do just tell her how much you want to be friends with her. Tell her just like you told me about how you are willing to do anything for your friendship. Also, find a few other friends she will soon realize what a great friend she is missing out on. I mean you are a really good best friend and she needs to know that. Maybe she is just going through one of those phases we all have with our friends you never know..... just try to confront her in a nice way.... good luck... hope i helped...
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my friend and her boyfriend have been dating for a little over 2 months and he practically lives at her house with her, her brother, and her brothers friend. her boyfriend cory is controlling of her and doesn't ever let her hang out with her friends without him and when she does hang out with me cory gets really mad at her thinking that she would rather spend time with me then him. so when me and my boyfriend wanted to go to the beach with my friend, Cory didnt want her to go so when i called her house he said she was in the shower and would tell her i called and tell her to call me back which she never did. but, cory always goes and hangs out with his friends all the time without my friend while she is working and even when shes not. im just very concerned for my friend because im scared for her when she realizes what a jerk he is being and if she decided to break up with him, that he might want to hurt her, i dont want to ruin our friendship but i just dont know what to do, me and my boyfriend are both very concerned. does anyone know what we can do? please help
You guys can try and give her some space. I mean she will probably have to realize it herself. sge might even be aware of the problem but she loves him so she deals with it. You should also try and open up to her sbout it tell her how you feel. Explain to her that her being happy and her not getting hurt means a lot to you. Have a conversation with cory too.... good luck... hope i helped
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I have written so many stories abot this guy I like. So If u wunna know about him just look at my other stories. Anyways, I have liked him for a long time but has started REALLY liking him about a year ago. He has asked me out and I wasn't aloud. So I said no that I wasn't aloud. But I am actually thinking about defyin my mom and lying to her. And going out win him. I knew he wouldn't ask me out again. So I kept on wondering how to ask him out. My frend txted me (she is also his ex) and she asked who i liked. I said david (that's his name) and she said that we look like a good couple. Then the next day she toldme that she had asked him out for me. I was like /WAT!!!!!!! / and she replied /is that ok???/ and I was like /it depends, watd he say/ and she told me that he said no. And I thought that he really liked me. So maybe it's jut her saying no because she still likes him. But then he txted me asking /were u too chiken to ask urself/ i said /about wat/ and he said /nvm/ so now I'm REALLY confused. Wat should I do. I think I might be IN LOVE with him. So pleas help me. Thankyou in advance.
Wow, i think that it was wrong for you friend to ask him out without your permission. I have been where you are abou the not being allowed thing. The boy could like you but is wondering why you didn't ask him yourself. Ask him yourself and see what he says. I think that you friend still likes him. I also have been in the i think i am in love stage but remember we are only thirteen. Did you ever ask your friend how she felt about you liking him. Ask her how she feels about it. I would suggest not to go with him though because she will probably say no and then deep down still want to be with him. But follow your heart. I wish you the best good luck.
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I go back 3 years ago me and Elvia were really good friends.then my 7th grade came and she met a girl name Marissa, they became best friends and things between them went from good to fighting every week she always came to me and told me what happen and what she should do i told her to just stop being friends like every week and she always did the opposite thing like now. A year pass it was new years and the hole time i spend talking to her.After that day weeks past and a month or two pass and didnt talk and it wasnt normal cause we would text every single day.Then one day she gave me a note in school that said she was really sorry for not being here for me and i forgived her.Then again a month went by and she texted me and i didnt reply because i was mad because i just felt like she just wanted to use me for when she needed help with her best friend,then the next day i texted her back and i told her i was mad at her and thats why i didnt text her back but i told her i was playig but i really wasnt then she said i dont believe you and i said ok i dont believe anything you say and she got mad.It has been 3 weeks and i always see her in school and we always look at eachother and just walk away,i really miss her cause even though she has a best friend that hates me i think as her as my best friend and i dont know if i should just move on or talk to her.Please help me.
everyone goes through the problems with there best friend. My best friend didn't used to think of me as her best friend and it hurt really bad. I found myself not wanting to hang around with them because i was jealous. Since you feel she is your best friend hang in there because i can tell she means a lot to you. If you want to test and make sure you can buy a necklace of a braclet the kind that has best friends on it and give her one and see how she reacts. Tell her that you don't want the whole texting thing to ruin your friendship. Tell her that you know that her and marissa are best friends but you want to be her friend to. Tell her that your friendship means a lot to you and that you want to leave the past in the past. Try hanging ot with her and Marissa even though you don't like marissa it will show her that you are willing to sacrifice and comit. I would also strongly suggest to find a few other friends to hang with so you wont be all alone. good luck.
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