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This may be long, so brace yourself lol.
Ok, so I like my ex boyfriend and i have "I love you" in my profile.My other ex kept on wanting to know who it was and I didn't wanna tell him because he'd get extremely mad. So then after awhile he started calling me a bi*ch, as*hole, and prick n stuff.He said that I think I'm too good for everyone and that's why I won't tell him. He thinks it because I only told my cousin (my best friend) that I liked my ex so that made him think that I thought I was too good for everyone. He was a really good friend of mine, and since I won't tell him who I like because I wanna keep it to myself and my cousin,he doesn't want to be friends anymore. Was he being wrong or was I? please help! What should I say to him? (link)
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Well to me it osunds like he is being a real jerk to you and htat he is taking this way to far.You shouldn't say anything if he is like htat then you shoulnd't have him in your life.i hope things work out.
claire
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Me and my best friend kelli used to really like this kid named brian...after we both had our share of asking him out he turned both of us down on the account of wanting to be single....now he barely ever talks to us and we really miss him...we went to friendly's all 3 of us together...and a winter carnival but i miss him a lot and so does she...we used to be a three sum but he kind of left...i love him as a friend and i want to earn him back for the both of us...please help me hes a really good friend...i love him like a brother
Rachel (link)
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Well you should tell him that you don't want to loose him as a friend and that your over him in the romantic way.I hope everything works out.
Claire
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i have this friend and she got sexually abused... i don't know exactly what happened but im really worried about her. she hasn't talked at all to me and shes acting like every part of her is gone! i dont know what i can do to make her feel ANY better. i have no idea what this man did to her but it messed her up really bad! she doesnt eat, sleep, or talk! im really worried!
What should i do!
signed,
brittany (link)
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You should tell someone that your friend was sexually abused because it could be rape and thats illegal. You friend should go see someone like a sychatrist(i dont know how to spell) I hope I helped.
~Claire~
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ok..so there was this girl and she was like my best friend all thro 8th grade...then my b/f broke up with me and she went out with him a DAY later. how horrible is that?! well..he is so mean to her and he talks so bad about me and my other friends..but she wont stick up for us..AT ALL! she sits there and laughs about it. she said she was sorry and i was like.ok..and i have forgiven her and everything but now its like evrything she does gets on my nerves i cant stand this girl. and its hard because she still thinks we are best friends and i dont know how to just tell her..Hey girl..we arent friends...i thought it would be easier to forgive her but it keeps getting harder cause she is like the fakest person in the world. idk what i should do because now we are in a huge fight and she is making it seem like its MYYY fault.and ignoring her doest work because she is good friends with another one of my best friends so its like everywhere i go with my friends she is there too..ughhh please help! (link)
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Well I think you should just tell her because if you don't really like her then you won't care if she gets hurt because she'll be back to her old self in no time!! Just be straight with her.I hope I helped>
claire
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there is this girl.. n everytime some1 likes a guy.. she somehow takes him from the girl.. n she is doing it to me this time.. and I don't wanna let that happen! cause I realllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy like him and I have for a while.. what can I do to stop her? (link)
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You should talk to her and tell her you don't like her stealing you r man and if that doesn't work then bad talk her or something evil that will get her to stop.You should also ask you man not to leave you if he really likes you. Leave fighting to a last resort. Well if you need more adivce on anything just leave me some in my inbox!!I hope I helped.
claire
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ok so I have these 2 friends....We r really close but just like anyone sometimes i just get tired of being with them.....well first off they had planned to go bowlin....i hadnt heard that we were going for sure all day so another friend of mine called and since i had not heard from them i made other plans....next.....we had planned to go see some free concert and the day of the concert i had softball practice and didnt' really like the guy that was singing...so i didn't go and the whole time they were gone they called me tryin to rub it in that i didnt' go and tryed to make me wish i was there....when all i thought was nothin cause i didn't wanna go.....Then the next day they said something about going to see fireworks...but when they called me I was at my sister's fixin to get in the tannin bed and i wasn't ready.....So that night i went with my sis and her family somewhere else ot see fireworks... Was I wrong for not doing that stuff with them? Should I feel bad about it? cause as fo rite now i really dont' feel bad about it cause i did what i wanted ot do and went where i wanted to go .....
please help!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well if you were probably right to get away from your friends a litttle bit becasue you don't want to lose them because you wanted to do other stuff and were a little sick of them.
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Hey Hot Stuff. I love you. =] Your amazing.
Love always, yous knows whos. =D (link)
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hey hot stuff ur amazing too i heart you sooo much!!!
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this year i have lost alot of friends for things that are confusing me. 1) i lost 2 frinds because of the way i eat (i put ketchup on chick'n) and because they said i talked alot about my family.
2) i lost a friend because her friend walked all over me and she never did anything to stop her/because she keept secrets from me about cutting herself but told everyone else and mad them promise not to tell me even though i was her best friend(at least thats what she said) 3) i lost 2 friends because of something someone else did! they blamed me even though i appologized for what happened. isnt that alot of friends to lose in such a sort period of time? what am i doing that is driving away all my friends? should i change myself? please help!!! ill tell u everything that happened!! (link)
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You shouldn't change yourself for other people. Maybe you just find the wrong kind of friends. My advice is just wait for a new friend to come along. I've lost my fair share of friends and it sucks. I hope i helped.
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Okay, so friendship questions are rare for me. This is gonna be long. If you have a problem with that, stop reading right now.
I'm really kind of scared. My best friend, short of sister, I think, is addicted to this guy.
Problem is, they never dated. She liked him, but he didn't like her. Then she got over him, and he liked her.
Then she decided to unget over him.
He's a possessive asshole. He's basically "claimed" her and talks about their married future, and she goes with it, considering him hers as he considers her his.
The worst thing is, though, all her life, her family has considered her the "screwup", so all she's known is displacement and pain. She's longed for real love her whole life, even the "parent" kind of love. Not just the husband/wife love.
I don't even know how to explain this. She thinks he unconditionally loves her.
I have unconditional love. My boyfriend and I have discussed marriage, and he loves everything about me, even my flaws, and wouldn't change me.
This guy, however, he's used her, emotionally abused her, hurt her more than anything, and he's even like, haunting her dreams. He tried to change her. Get her to dye her hair blonde, change her clothing style, criticized everything...
I'm just afraid she's going to end up with him and cause herself more pain.
She's created an idea of him for herself. Things he does, she's given examples...I can see that he's only doing these things because he gets something out of it. He gets a person to possess. Someone to own. I hate him for what he's doing to her, but she won't let me talk sense into her.
I can't talk to him because he doesn't like me anyway.
I don't know what to do about this. This girl is seriously like my little sister. I want to protect her from him. Not from all guys, just from him because I know he's bad news.
He tried to convince me to cheat on my boyfriend with him, and to tell me that if he "really" wanted me, I could be his in a heartbeat, because he's just that good with women, which sickened me from the start. I don't understand what she sees in him. Fine. Whatever, I can deal with that.
I can't deal with him hurting her and making her think he's the last person out there for her (she's had bad luck in relationships).
On top of it all, she's afraid her parents are going to make her move, and they're not sending her to college next year, which is where she should be.
What do you think I should do? I mean, I can't really DO anything. What can I say?
-Siren =( (link)
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Well first off if you can't change the fact that he is part of your friends life then don't.But you can help your friend out by talking to each other and going to see movies and help her out by showing her you care. Its horrible that her parenst think shes a screw up but you can give your friend the love and support she never got from her parents. For now stay clear of her so called "boyfriend" so you won't get tangled up with his bad ways! I really never experienced this so i don't know first hand how to handle this though.I hope i helped a little bit.
claire
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well this girl used to be one of my best friends but then she got all pissy to my boyfriend so i got mad at her then i became her friend after a couple of months but i was talkin to this kid and he all of the sudden said dont talk to me n i looked at his profile and my page said that this girl made up a little thing call the Hayley Haters thing and all they do is talk about me! and there are people in it! what should i do because its pissing me off! PLEASE HELP! i rate high!!! (link)
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Well it sucks to be hated believe me,but maybe you should try to ignore it and maybe the reason they have that group is to make them feel better about themselves
i hope i helped
claire
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Im 15/f
I have 3 best friends. Well, all these guys like my one best friend and their always around her and soo many people follow her and try to be her friend! It's so annoying because sometimes she ignores me, and my crush is one of the guys that likes her, and shes always hanging out with him. My first question is do you think I should be mad at her becuase shes always ignoring me for boys and shes ALWAYS hanging out with my crush??? She also hangs out with this girl that hates me and she tells me she doesn't like her. I think thats a lie because shes always hanging out with her too and the girl thinks shes her best friend. It's werid because no boys liked her last year and she was alot different last year, she was a lot nicer and payed more attention to me. I'm not jealous but it just bothers me alot. My other best friend gets annoyed by this too. What should I do??? Please don't say talk to her because I already have and she didn't listen and I get in alot of fights with her and I don't want it to cause another one. Thanx (link)
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First of all if your friend is ignoring you for boys than she isn't really a good friend. I had this happen to me once. I let it go and I made new friends. You should try that too.You never know maybe she will become nicer again,but until then let it go and make new friends.
I hoped i helped
claire
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