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ok i'm grounded for a month ( no joke its been 2 weeks) and my frndship with ma best friend is fading away. i yell s0o much i lost my voice for 4 days and evrything. at this point i dnt wahna live nemore ! i'm losing it ! helpp me (link)
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~here's advice for ya, live everyday your fullest, don't be worried about being judged, live your own dreams, follow/listen to your own heart, be who you are because there is only ONE you (even if you are a twin), only YOU can make your own happiness! Life is too short to feel sorry for yourself and life is too fun to waste~
That's my quote. Don't say that you don't want to live anymore. That is the most saddest thing a person can say. Think of all the good stuff you have rather than the bad. I know times like this is hard, but it will eventually pay off. Just get through the day, and live it your fullest because maybe there's some1 wishing they were u. To even have a friend. To have parents of their own, mean or nice. To have a home. To have a room to be grounded in. That's only the beginning. Try thinking of stuff that you have that others don't. And that might help your mood. =) Please rate me! That would help me a ton! Thx! And I hope I helped you!
~MiSSc~
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plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???
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Dear PAT,
1st of all, i'm real sorry about your father. Did you have a good reason why you didn't show up? Or was it because of your dad? If shes not gonna listin to you, then I suggest you two take some time away from each other, then maybe she'll listin to you. Sometimes bestfriends need that. Like you've spent so much time together, that its just too much time, and then you guys start getting mad at each other over little things. Just give things some time. Right now consintrate on your family first, then your friends. Every things will work out on its own. Dont worry you aren't gonna loose your friend. Maybe shes having some troubles you dont know about. But dont ask her, if she needs your help, she'll ask you. =)
Hope that helps! If you rate me, that will REALLY help me! THX!
~miSSc~
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This summer while in Canada I met a really awesome girl, however I really really really..... screwed up our relationship. I cheated on her once, guilted her into a lot of things I shouldn't have, and I lied to her so many times. It was just in the last week that I was with her that I started to straighten my act up and realize how wonderful she was. I want to say sorry so bad, but I live 1600 miles away from her and don't have a planned visit there for 2 more years, also I want to do something bigger than just write her an email and hope for the best. We are kind of friends now, we talk every now and then online, but I still feel like this is still keeping us apart. If anyone has any ideas on how to say sorry for being this horrible I'd love to hear from you. Also, flying up there just to say sorry isn't out of the picture, its about $700. I really need something big that says I'm sorry and I'm willing to do whatever it takes to have you trust me again. (link)
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Dear HTSIS,
Your name is the title of your subject. It sounds like your not trying to win her heart back which is a good thing, because I doubt she will. Not to sound so cruel, but your the one that did this to her. If she wants to be friends with you then I think she will accept an apology from you. You can fly there, if you want to, and have the money. But, maybe either calling her, even though you have talked to her on the phone, just call her up and tell her how sorry you are and whatever you want to say. Or you can send her a long forgiving e-mail, and talk about all the GOOD times you had with her and then tell her how soryr you are. Or you can send her some flowers and a teddy bear (or whatever kind of animal she likes) and tell her your sorry on the card. Those are just some idea's. I'd go for the flowers and animal idea best. I wouldn't give her candy because it may seem like your wanted her back for a girl friend more than a friend.
Hope that helps! Tell me the results as soon as you get the results.
~miSSc~
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I've known this guy for six months, and we fight a lot. But in all honesty, i care about him more than i've ever cared about someone. I told him I never wanted to talk to him again after our last fight (and I really meant it), but it's hurt him a lot. I can't figure out if things would be better if we didn't talk, or kept being friends. (link)
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Dear SOG,
If you are wondering what SOG is, it's the subject of your question "Stay or Go?". Back to the question. Ok, before I answer to your question, let me ask you a couple questions...do YOU think it would be better if you two didn't talk? Do you WANT to be friends with him? If I were you, I would say I am sorry, and tell him I still want to be his friend. If he wont accept you as a friend I doubt he'll be your boyfriend, and he wont be a very good friend and not very forgiving. It's okay to fight whether its a big fight or little. It's ok to fight with words but not physically...but hopefully that's not the fight your talking about, but i don't think it is. Guys will be guys and no matter how much you love them your still gonna fight, but try to have a lot of good times together and not bad, in order to do that, it's sometimes best to TRY and agree with stuff and each other. But if you don't want to do something you dont want to do, dont do it. You are your own boss. So if he doesn't want to be your girlfriend, don't force him or he will be less fond of you.
I hope that helps! If you have any(more) questions feel free to ask! If I'm not making sense or you have a question about my answer you can always write me back! Tell all your Advicenator friends to come to me 4 advice if you can, I love helping people!
~MiSSc~
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i have friends but the second i turn my back they talk about me make fun of me and they are so two faced and a backstabber because they always go crawling back to my arch arrival enemy antonia what should i do? (link)
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Dear Friend,
I'm not sure if there is such thing as friends until the end or best friends forever. I think it might be so, but only if you have a good bond between you and your friend. But I wouldn't count on the "friends until the end" because, I once had a friend...and we've know each other since dippers. And I thought we would be "friends until the end". But then her dad got into a car accident and is now 100% disabled and just recently her mom died. And now she's into drugs and smoking and drinking, piercing her tongue, and dying her hair purple, when she use to be role modles for others and the perfect beauty. I mean, we still keep in touch, but the friendship we have is...faded. I guess what I'm trying to say is, friends change. And just when you think that nothing will keep you apart something happends. But it doesn't happen to everyone. But the friends that you have which are "backstabbers,two faced," bullies. I wouldn't necessarily call them "friends". Friends are the people that will be there for you, let you have a shoulder to cry on, call you to talk, go shopping with, make you laugh, cheer you on at something your good at, but most of all make you smile...but never make you question if they are really your true friend. I hope you can see the difference, and see what i'm trying to get through to you. But to simplify it for you...
if they make you cry
and wonder why,
then they aren't your friend,
and won't be there till the end.
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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