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this boy, who used to be my best friend, like i told him everything, he was like the bestest friend i ever had. we were best friends for like 3 years, i loved him soo much. we were such good friends. and then this thing happened, and we just stopped talking. well, i switched over to his school, and he'd ALWAYS stare at me. like look me in the eyes, and like look at me forever. then, i saw him today, and every chance he got, he'd like sneak looks at me, or directly look me in the eyes. i'm not sure what i should do, i don't know when i'll even ever see him again. but im just.. confused. i mean, why is he always looking at me? all of his friends were like looking at me too. they werent laughing at me or anything. but like, they just were staring at me. why?? i just, really need some answers. i wanna know whats up with him. i really wanna talk to him, but i'm scared about what he may say. i dont know how he feels about me, and i just dont wanna get hurt.
why do you think hes always looking at me?
and what should i do? (link)
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My idea is that he likes you. boys tend to stare at you alot when they like you, and he probably told his friends how he felt about you and so maybe they like .. idk look at you too? but if hes always looking at you and making eye contact thats realllllly good and a strong sign that he could possible like you, so just see how it goes and let him make a move
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ok so im goin to be a junior in highschool next year and for the past two years i have ahd this group of friends where we hang out everyday, and torwards the last couple weeks of school in sophmore year we all got in this huge figh tand the gruop started to split up. a new girl cameinto are group which i hate to admit i tis basically the reason evryone got i nthe fight because she was rude and brought out everyones flaws. now my question is, my best friend is one of the ppl that left the group, she hansg out wit hthis one girl named sam now, i dont know know where to go next year. do i go with my bestfriend which btw we are super close, but the reason she left teh group was to basically get a way from everyone, so do i go wit hher, and this new girl who i don tlike all that much, or do stay with my old group of friedns and get cought up i nall the stupid drama, or should i find just an all new group of friends.??? please help. also my bestfriends little sister is gonna be a freshmen cmoing into ur school and im pretty good friends with her also she is fun and i know some of her friends so thier is that option. im thinking about just moving around so what should i do?? (link)
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our group had this problem as well. stick with your best friend. if you are really relaly close I would mainly stick with her. but leaving a group can be fun! go with different people who says you have to stick with one group thats no fun!! haha, just hang out around different people. but stick with your best friend the most :]
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i like this boy. hes 14 and i am too but i really like him and we talk alot but idk if he likes me. i think he does but everytime im like positive h likes me well be talking and he will like mention how his best friend likes me. it sounds like he doesnt and hes trying to get me to like go out with his friend.
im pretty confused so if you i could use your answers.
thanx in advance. (link)
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If you seem sure that he likes you, he probalby does. I think he wants to make sure you don't like his best friend.. or maybe he feels guilty that he likes you as well. So I think you should come forward and just tell him how you feel :]
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Me and this guy have been back and forth, I can't never know for sure if he likes me or not.
I told him I like him, but he never said anything back to me. But he always talks to me; always txt me; always emails me.......
We went out one night, and both got drunk.
He told me how beautiful I am, and he always loves me(yes, love is the word he used), and then he kissed me. (for really long time.....)
The next day he called and asked me what did he say the night before..........(he only remember he made up with me, but doesn't remember what he said to me!!)
Then he asked me out again for movie, but barely talked to me the whole time when we were out. I asked him why did he kiss me the first place (the night we were both drunk), he said "it just happened."
WHAT?!! I'm confused!! Does he like me or just try to get into my pants?!! Help!! (link)
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wow. that is a bit confusing. But I would say he likes you, he wouldnt waste his time talking to you txting you and emailing you if he just wanted to get in your pants. I think he does like you. especially if hes asked you out twice..... maybe he's just shy or isn't quite ready to make a commitment as your boyfriend. but Im pretty sure he likes you
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One of my friends is very rude! Now when i say rude i don't mean burp in your face, potty-mouth rude. I mean this: she never listens to me...like if i tell her a problem of mine she turns it into a joke, even though i listen to hers. She also constantly puts me down by saying "youre dumb" or "retard!". Also she leaves me when the "populars" are around even though she isn't popular! This is so annoying and really hurts my feelings! I don't know weither to leave her or what! I know that scince we are just entering highschool it gets tough but it shouldn't be this bad! You know with the whole "clique" thing but, i just don't know what to do!!!! (link)
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wow.. that realy doesn't sound like a "friend". if shes making it hard for you then shes not a good friend at all. friends don't ditch you for "popular" people... you can either ignore it and just go along with it ( which I personaly do not advise) or if you want her to remain a friend, be open about it and tell her what she is doing that hurts your feelings. if your just starting high school you will meet so many new people, its great, you want better friends then that, and you deserve better, so talk to her about it, or find friends who treat you with more respect then that. :]
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ok welll...one of my best friends(we will call her bob) hasnt really been talking to me lately then i was takling to my other friend(we will call her jo) today on the phone and she said that bob told her something and told me what it was...it kinda upset me that bob didnt tell me but she told jo...so i talked to bob and she said ya it was true and when i asked her y she didnt tell me she said well she didnt think i would want to hear...the thing is it had to do with one of the guys i have liked for a year and a half...and i told her a while ago that i hate guys right now because they are confusing so she said thats y she didnt want to tell me...because she didnt want to bring up guys yet she does anyway other guys i mean...i just felt really left out that bob wouldnt tell me because it turned out to be something that i should know...so we got in an argument and i dont think she is treating me like a true friend...i mean we are suppose to be best friends and she is not telling me things but she is telling our friend jo...who is in the wrong me or her??? (link)
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I think that she should have told you honestly. if shes your best friend there shouldn't be secrets... I think you should tell her how you feel, and make it clear that she can tell you anything, even if you might not want to hear it, just tell her you feel bad that she didn't come to you. :)
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i care wut ppl think of me and i guess i wanna be more popular . i hav alot of friends but if anyone says anything to me like"ur being a bitch" i get rlly offended and hate them nomatter wut it is.i just weanna not care about wut ppl think of me. can someone help me?! (link)
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well. I think that you should just look more at yourself. are you happy with yourself? because if you are then thats all you need. personally I really never care what people think about me. theres nothing you can do to stop what others think. no matter what there is always going to be someone thinking negetively of you. that is called life. just let things roll off your back just remember things like that are natural. of course everyone cares a bit. but try not to care, just think about it. and what they are saying? does it REALLY even matter? just something to think about :) I hope you can really look into yourself and stop caring so much about what others think... :)
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my friend and i were at a party. she has a boyfriend of over a year now, but she seems to flirt with every guy she sees. there was this one guy at the party who has liked her for awhile so people kind of made them hug. nothing wrong with hugging. but then she started to act differently around him and to me, everything she did is almost like cheating on her boyfriend. later on, her cousin invited her and i to sleepover at his house with his friends (my mom said no, so her mom didnt let her either). the thing is, she REALLY wanted to sleepover. i think she wanted to be with that guy all night. so, do you think i should just ignore it and let her do what she wants, or should i tell her boyfriend? (link)
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ok well shes NOT cheating. but its not right what shes doing either. talk to HER not her boyfriend. just tell her how you feel and ask her if she wants him or her boyfriend because she has to choose. just explain to her that what shes doing is wrong. but I wouldnt tell her boyfriend yet. if she cheats then tell him.
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So I am graduating so im 18. The guy I like is also 18. We go to the same school. We're friends. I can tell him anything. Just recently, he started calling and texting me. And he also started making a lot of plans with just the 2 of us. When I hang out with this other guy I used to like (and my friend knew I liked him), he stops talking to me for that day; pretty much completely ignores me or isn't nice. I don't know if he wants to be just friends or more. Help! (link)
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It sounds to me like he likes you. and he is jelous of this guy you used to like. if he stared to txt and call you... I think he wants more out of the relationship. maybe try flirthing ? if you want more to. im not sure what you want. but just see how it goes. maybe give him a try
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Okay well im a 14/f and i have a friend- ex friend now- but she texted me and was like i tolled everyone your secret! - and my secret is that im a lezbian- and she is the only one i tolled and i thought she was just kidding but she wasn't she tolled like veryone i know and so now everyone is like Oh god you are a lez sick your perverted , do you have a girlfriend , you should die lezbians and gay people shouldn't be aloud on earth ext.... but its starting to get to me and i dont know what to do can you help me??
love,
Stressed out! (link)
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wow. that is a really l mean thing to do... but don't let it get to you. so what if your lesbian. thats okay, peoples should love and respect you for who you are. and if they don't then I don't believe they are your true friends. I think you should take pride in who you are and not worry about what other people say. you will find people who will respect you for who you are. you don't need people to tell you who you are. I think you should be comfortable being who you want to be. don't worry what others say about you. be yourself.
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