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all the guys in mygrade hate me. they think im a whore cause i dress slutty but i dont mean to. I have no idea what i am doing wrong! i am so sad. please just help all you can
dress the way you want to and dont listen to what they say. who cares if you liket he way you dress thats fine and if you like the way you are then great. But dont get down because of assholes sayin shit to you like that...they dont know you dont take shit to heart by peopel you dont even really know..if you dont think your a slut then thats all that matters all that matters is what you think about yourself it doesnt matter what people think about you.. ok.. hope i helped ya.
14/f. I have started talking to this boy G, I've always thought he was cute, but then I started talking to him and his personality is great! I really really like him, I have hinted around about be more than just friends but he laughs like its a joke so do I so I won't look stupid, but my question I want advice on is "How can I tell him I want to be more than just friends?" I am really good friends with his brother if that helps. Thank you guyss and girls haha
just go up to him and tell him how you feel and everything and tell him that your bein serious about it and that he should be serious too and not to laugh. BE very straight forward and tell him very direct so he listens to you and doesnt laugh or anything. Ok well tell me what happens and dont worry about it dont be nervous or it will show and you might end up sayin something else. K well tell me what happens and how old is he?
I dated this guy for a month.
He's a nice guy, but have bad temper. There're so much differences between us. HOwever, we also have the same option on the overall view of life. We fighted a lot (2 out of 3 times when we went out)considered the period of time we dated.
Now, he doesn't talk to me at all. No emails, no txt, no calls. I know we couldn't work out as couple, but I'd like still be friend, but he obviously doesn't want to...what do I do?
well theres nuthin you can really do you have to wait til he comes around and starts talkin to you. But if you guys fought all the time why would u want to be his friend im sure he will fight with you now too. thats not good to be friends with someone that has a bad temper because taht leads to violence and thats not a good relationship. eVen if u were friends he will stil have hes temper and if you guys get into a fight which friends do that leads to big trouble. i think you shoudl just stay away from him for awhile because i had a friend and her bf had a bad temper then they became friends but he started to hurt her and threaten her and she had to gobak outwith him because she was scared. But after awhile she realized that she had to leave him and she did. But i just dont wnat that for you because thats where it leads too. okk well hope i helped if you need anymore help you can write me in my inbox!
-kateylnd
Say you had so called friends mybe one real one and one accompliance with that person you d not like so much and they were talking about girls they thought were pretty and you weren't included but they all were would you still consider these people your friends?
i think that they arent your real friends. Friends dont do that to eachother. Friends are supposed to say good things bout eachother but sometimes have their disagreements. My friends always say they think im pretty but i dont think so. They are there to tell you good things to make you feel good and be there for you. SO i think that i woudlnt be friends with them anymore and forget bout wat they say if they say anytrhing bad bout you. I had so called friends like that before adn i finally learned that they arent worth my time. So i would find some true friends that will stick by you. Ok well i hope i helped?!?! if ou need anymore help you can write me in my inbox.
-katelyn
Okay I have an ex boyfriend that won't get the hint that I am in a loving relationship., well today he decided to call me and was mad because I might be pregnant. Well anyways he told me that he still wants to be friends and everything he just didn't want me to tell him about me and my boyfriend. Which it's hard to do, because I love him so much. But what really upsets me is that we were supposed to be friends, when he just told me tonight he doesn't care what I do, but that he still loves and misses me and wished he could have me back, what am I supposed to do? Keep being friends with him, or tell him where to get off at????
Hi,
I think that he needs to move on but its hard for him and you need to understand that. Im sure he knows thats what he needs to do but you need to sit and talk about everything because im sure he still wants to be your friend. I mean its better to have a friend than him be mad at you all the time and end up not being your friend. I mean you should have alot of respect for him and i dont think you should talk about your boyfriend to him because thats hard to hear when hes still in ove with you. I mean im sure if that was you you wouldnt want to hear about your ex boyfriends girlfriends thats really hard to take in. Just sit and talk to him about it and see what he has to say and if you dont want him in your life anymore than stop talking to him. But if you want him in your life as a friend or w/e than keep talking to him and be his friend. But you need to tell him that you guys are just friends and only friends because your with someone else. Ok well good luck with this and if you need anymore help you can ask me in my inbox ok?
Hope i helped out!?
~katelyn~
Since i have been dating my boyfriend i kind of have distanced myself from my friends. I want to stop doing that and get my friends back. But in addition to that i want to be popular. I want to have alot of friends. How can i do that?
Hi,
I used to always want to be popular and have everyone like me. But i realized that my friends i have now may not be the popular kids in shool but they are to me and you should just stick with your friends. being popular isnt everything. Having friends is more important and do you really think that popular kids are really your friends they may act like it but alot of popular people are hated. Maybe you need to see that for your self but if you decide to go back to your friends they might not be their and you need to think about that. If you like your friends then stick with them dont care about anything else and if your bf is coming between you guys then he isnt worth it because your friends and your family are always there for you all your life. NOT SOME GUY! believe me i learned that the hard way and maybe you do too but please dont make a mistake and forget about your friends. Like i said they are the closet thing you got! So i think you should just forget about being popular and hangout with teh people that care about you the most. if your bf doesnt like your friends or doesnt want you to hangout with them then he needs to get oout of your life because their the only ones that will be there for you when your down! Ok well i hope i helped ya out! :] and if you need anymore help im here!
xoxo
~katelyn~
Ok I'm going to tell ya right now If u dont like clique questions stop reading. I'm the leader of a clque, I'm the most popular girl in my school and I have 4 great friends we have weekly sleep overs and things like that and theres this new girl at my school who came in and took my friends I dont want to be mean to her (which is taking all my will power) so wat should I do????
I think that you should just include her in your clique. Also i think you should stop worrying bout havin power she didnt steal it i think everyone has some power in their lives. I say just include her in then myabe if you want you power bak you might get it bak. well if you need anymore help with anyhtin else just feel free to ask!
~katelyn~