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Ok, so well last year, i was kind of the queen bee of my grade.

then all my best friends left my school.


so i settled for the coolest one out of all the girls;

one girl who i fought with last year and this new girl.

they would always leave me (as in not wait for me if i was getting my stuff after class)

and now they're kind of closer and that mkaes our threesome (not like that...) kind of messsed up. i just want to be back on top again :]



HELP?!

thanks xoxo

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I always hate it when my friends meet my other friends because i'm scared they'll start liking them more than me and then they'll start hanging out with each other, leaving me alne and having even less friends.

Is there any way to fix this? This always happens.

If you don't have advice but this happens to you, please say that and share your feelings and opinions on this

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There's a girl, I'll call her Sara, is really slutty and all she can talk about is how much she likes emo bands and how she flashes her breasts to guys. This is mostly the reason I don't like her, and the other part is that she's kind of punk and I have a clean, preppy style. Well, anyway, she is really nice to me, and I always help her around and stuff because of that. It's really hard, because she's always so nice to me, but I really don't like the way she behaves or talks. I know she tries to fit in, but I feel guilty about not really liking her and venting about how annoying she is to my friends when she acts so nice. Any advice?

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one of my bestfriends and i got ina fight over myspace earlier. she lies alot and she posted a bullitin all made sayin why does everybody say shes scene and why they say shes obsessed with certain bands and why people think she told everyone she cuts. she knows what scene is she says she is she even looked up on how to be scene. she is obsessed with the bands she says it and shows it. she does cut and i would understand why someone would say they didnt im a cutter too we were helping eachother through it but she TOLD EVERYONE she cut and she was showin off her scars and then she did it on the top of her hands wtf and told everyone. i told her and she went off on me sayin i better not talk to her today tomarrow maybe even next week.
i also screwed up my knee and foot with a broken ankle on the other foot. shes beggin me to come to the skating rink because she doesnt have a ride. i went last week with a broken ankle and my foot screwed up. my friends sat down with me because i couldnt take it skating. and she was saying just leave her come skate with me. my friends got mad at her i got pissed 2 stood up for me.
i cant really trust her before this she lied so bad she does anything to make her life sound so much worse or somedays better. she lied sayin she has over a million dollors in her wallet and another time she said her family is on food stamps. she says all her clothes is from hot topic and then she said the only thing she has from hot topic is bracelets i bought her. and all her clothes is pinks and stuff she says she wear all black everyday which i have never seen her like that(i wear black everyday) for myspace she posts fake pictures of scene people and say their her and she has a pic of me wearing all black and with my guy friends and the caption was me rollin with my homies. NONE of her pics are even of her and she says they are. she got me and my friend in the most trouble any of my friends have ever got in there was authority. she just acts like so many people mainly me and no its not even a little complimentary ITS PISSING ME OFF but i do still love her but i dont know why. the whole time weve been friends its screwed up my life and shes screwin up hers. none of my family or other friends trust her but our friends dont see it. were only 13 what can i do?! this has caused me so many bad things i lost alot of old friends but most of them will only like me when im not around my friend. i dont get this ANY OF IT. please help me with all u can for her sake and mine?!

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17/f okay so i hang out with a close knit group who has been like this for three years. I have an amazing best friend who i adore and love. anyways.... so my sister is a freshmen and she is with my group now too. which is cool. so on to my problem..... okay there is this girl that came to my school like a week ago and i have found that i dont like her all that much and neither do alot of the people that i hang out with. My bff was the one that invited her over and i dont really know why other than she was trying to be nice. But lately she has been acting really weird. and i havent been at school cause i am sick so i dont know whats going on but people are calling me and teling me that my bf is like following her around and that this new girl is trying to take over the group. and i dont know why no one is putting this girl in her place but now i feel like it is my job to do it. and i dont know why i dont like her i just get a bad vibe and dont get why my bff is throwing herself out there trying to make her feel like part of the group. im not jealous.....i just dont get why she would be putting this girl before all her friends..... can someone please help me???? What should i do with this girl?Show her her place or let her take over??? and what if my best friend doesnt see she is acting like a little puppy dog??she isnt like that!!she is a leader not a follower!!!!please and thank you to anyone that can help me sort this out....sorry its kinda long

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so, me and this girl used to be friends, but now we hate eachother. like really badly. And she always fights with me (even now) about the stupidest shit. Well, today, she talked shit behind my back.......and she thought I was doing something similar, but I wasn't.

My question is : what's the best thing to do? Confront or just ignore and leave them alone no matter how upset you are?

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15/f

my one friend is having a sweet 16 party, like in october. and i mean, i really wanna go, because me and her were really good friends. but like, i dont know any of her friends. and i feel weird. because i dont wanna like follow her around, yano? i guess its pretty big, and alot of people are gonna be there. but its no one i know.

what should i do?

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Now I know that I have nobody to blame but myself, but I have wrecked nearly every close friendship I have had in my life because I end up hooking up with my friends' boyfriends behind their back. Most of the time there is drinking involved, but I don't think that is the problem. I think the desire to do it is already in me before the drinks and it just ends up being easier to do once I am drunk. I do not know why I do this. I know that I just want to feel wanted and I like the attention that I get from men, I guess it is an ego thing. I really love my friends and don't want to hurt them but I can't seem to break this cycle. I don't want to have to avoid ever hanging out with a friend when their boyfriend is around, I need to find a way to just stop being such a horrible person. What can I do? Why do I keep ending up in this same situation when I conciously know that I don't want to do these things?

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Im really jealous of my best friend. Whenever we hang out and meet new poeple it seems like she always has to out shine me and everyone whos with us. Like if we meet guys they always think shes so hot and even when she has a boyfriend she has to make them like her more. It seems like i can never meet guys cause they always are all ofer her then something happenes and they will never talk again sothe guy is basically "off limits" to me since were best friends. I dont know what to do its come to the point i hate hanging out with her.

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