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I'm a guy and I dated my best friend. She just told me she was bi wat should I do? I don't want to ruin this relation ship
Well tell her how you feel about this.. Theres nothing wrong with dating someone who is bi. It means essencially that you could possibly be changing their minds on their sexual orientation.. If your their friend then you will accept it
Ever since mt Best friend.( since 1st grade ) Moved 1 hour away,we have been getting more and more distant. We e mail eachother,and viedo chat some times but i havent seen her since October. She says i am still her Best friend and i belive her,but she has moved to a new school, &i am home school and she has mede new friends. I am kinda worried we could just eventually drift away and separate. We will probably nor see eachother for about 6weeks cause her new house is being biult. BTW thanks for all yourhel and please help me and my friend get back together!
Long distance friendships and relationships are really hard. I have 3 different good friends around the world. 1 lives in australia and i never get to see her, i have another living in ottawa, and a third in florida. I live in london, ontario and it is super hard to keep long distance friendships when u hardly get to see them. Im sorry to tell you this but if your barely seeing each other then its best to only become good friends. You will bwcome great friends with alot of other people in the world. Your young and you likely wont keep the same best friend forever. Its hard to say and believe but its true. Uour going to meet other people who one day youll call your bestfriend but you will eventually grow apart. I used to be friends with this great girl named amanda throughout elementry school and then in high school we went in 2 different direnctions. It does happen and its lifes nature. Youll be ok, you really dont know what shes doing and she couldve called someone else her best friend by now. Im sorry to break the bad news to you but its just the way of life.
Alexa/13
I was talking with my best friend about my boyfriend and told her that I had sex with him and that the condom broke. She then said I was becoming a slut and that she was gonna ask my mom to get me help. I was so upset and dont kno why she would say that she made me cry. Why would she say that? It really hurt my feelings and now she wont talk to me.
Um you say your only 13, trust me, you dont wanna be called a slut. It can start a chain reaction and others could call you it too. And also, you had sex when your 13? What are you thinking? You dont want to do that because you do not wanna risk the chances or becoming pregnant! Even though you used a condom, you say it broke and thats not good at all. I would try a pregnancy test just to make sure.
In regards to your friend calling you a slut, you just talk to her about it. I know it hurt your feelings that she said that, but maybe you shouldnt talk about your sexual life in front of her... Does she have a boyfriend? If not, then I think she might be jealous.
Dont ruin your life by having sex at this age, it can cause a bad reputation for you in high school saying you lost your virginity at this age. But, just talk it out with your friend and try to get along with her. And also, if your ever in a position where you have to choose between your best friend and boyfriend, choose your best friend. Friends stay together, guys are whatever :) Hope this helps!
Well, I had this friend last year in middle school and I thought I heard him call me a b*tch. I went up to him and asked him if he called me a b*tch and he yelled and said no and we started yell, but a teacher told us to stop and go onto class. I've been trying since after that day to be his friend again, but now we're in the next grade and aren't in any classes together. My younger brother and his younger brother are in a sport together too. What is the BEST way to get my friend back as fast as possible?
(P.S I am not a boy.)
Ive had a similar problem, not fun =/ Just play it cool like that never happened and walk up to him at lunch or something and just try to small talk, asking 'long time no talk' and stuff like that. Even try messaging him on facebook, even though its not very good to express yourself over the internet, its the easiest way. Sometimes taking the easy way out can be fine aswell. Just try talking to him on facebook and if things go bad you can always just log off, hope this helps! Inbox me on here how it goes =)
Me and this guy have been really good friends for like 2 years now, I thought maybe he had feelings for me before, but i don't know now. He flirts with me a lot, and we talk all the time. I do have feelings for him, and he recently started hanging out with his best friend's ex girlfriend and everytime they hang out, he tells me. I don't know why he tells me this, although i would like to know. it does make me jealous. Like last night he didnt talk to me at all like he ushually does, and then this morning he told me he was hanging out with her till 1am. -_- I think i'm just hurting myself by liking him still if he's obviously more interested in her? I don't really know what I should do, clearly there isn't anything I can do about it. But should i try and stop liking him? And give up on my feelings that aren't going to get me anywhere? Or just continue even though it's hurting me inside..
He's 18, i'm 17. We're both seniors in high school, so is the other girl.
Anything helps, thanks.
It kinda sounds like something i have been through. If he likes you then maybe he is trying to get you jealous. If you dont want to get hurt then dont like him. In my situation, the guy and me are still really tight but I have a boyfriend now. I hope you choose the right decision, but remember that you dont show your jealousy. Try to talk to him and explain but dont say your interested. Play hard to get. Hope this helps :)