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I know this sounds like a wussy story, but for the life of me I do not know why I feel this way....
I have this female friend whom I have been good friends with for many many years, We almost went further than friendship, but I declined cause I felt I would lose such a good friend.
Over the years we have always been friends, and I know now that she is the one for me, but how do I tell her?
she has been married and divorced, moved to another country with her boyfriend where he dumped her.
I moved to another country for career reasons, she has asked if she can come and stay with me for a few months, I am really exicted about her coming, but deep down I am full of fear because of the way I feel!
If I tell her, I may lose her or it could be I am gutless in the face of the one I truely love!
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hello. this seems like another opportunity for you and her to have a relationship. so take it! tell her just to her face that you made a mistake before and that you really love her very much. she might even feel the same way about you. i can see how you dont want to lose her as a bestfriend but having a relationship with her could make something even more beautiful. hope i have helped. please rate
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Ok, i'm going to a soccer camp, and it allows u an hour ansd a half for free time. since were not allowed to bring electronicts, i'm going to be so bored. I'm new on the soccer team that's hosting the camp, so what should i bring or do that can include some of the girls at the camp?
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heyy .. umm uno is always fun you could bring some magazines like cosmogirl or j14
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My friend is very mad at me, so she said since i didnt do anything and it was all my friends, if i didnt talk to my friends for friday, saturday, and sunday, she wouldnt be mad at me anymore. So i did it. This girl that asked me not to talk to them is on my softball team ALL summer. well i didnt talk to them, and they got REALLY mad and walked off, they told my other friend that they thought i was a BITCH because the only person i care about is me and nicole(shes not mad at me and not the person i wanst supposed to talk to)!So they hate me now!!!!they are my best friends and they arent talking to me!HOW CAN I GET THEM BACK? (link)
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heyy .. okay you dont want to get them back because they will be even more mad at you and hate you more trust me this has happened to me before all you need to do is get them calmed down and sit them down and talk to them show them that you miss them and want them to talk to you again and be te good friends that you one were
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alrigh tim 13 and well im half a virgin ( i havent had sex but ive given something) and well it was with my x boyfriend and this was like in april of this year and people are still talking about it and every since then theres this group of boys in ym class that are all my friends but ever since that thing in april they've all been like well kinda giving me names and stuff like today they said im gonna be a hooker when i grow up, you know stuff likw that and i was just like wondering if i should be worried about that.. like do you think it'll go to far and well how oculd i convine them to stop it? (link)
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heyy .. if you havent had actual sex then your still a virgin just because you gave a guy a blowjob doesnt mean that your virginity got taken away and every one makes mistakes but let me tell you if you keep it up doing things like that then you will be a hooker so stop while your ahead
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me friends are in this fight and I dont know how i am supposed to help my friend! (link)
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heyy .. have them both sit down and talk to both of them and work it out have both of them state the problem state how it happened and state how to solve it
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ive known this gurl for 2 years now and ive meet all her friends and we bacame friends but lately we do nothing but get into fights... im going to teh same school as them and they wont leave me alone they say i ahev no friends and when i get to ej i will have no friends because i am a skank i dont kno what to do i try ignoring them but they just wont stop......plaez help!!! (link)
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heyy ,, umm keep trying to ignore them thats the best thing to do or fight back do whatever is more you out of those two things also talk about ti with a school conseller
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My ex-BFF made up lies about things i said about my other friends. She keeps doing mean things to me! She's gotten on my last nerve and i dont want to b her friend anymore! The problem is that my parents are friends with her parents! I've tried talking to my parents about it but it doesnt work! they say it doesnt make a diffrence but it does! Is there anything else i can do??? (link)
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heyy .. you cant pick and chose who your parents will be friends with but you can certainly pick and chose your friends so dont chose her as one because she seems like a bad choice what you could do is try talking to her about the things she does to you and if she doesnt stop shes not your friend anymore and tell your parents what she does to you and ask them to inform that girls parents about what she does to you
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Okay, I've been best friends with this girl since last year and we've been so tight! And now I think my other best friend is jealous and is trying to take her away from me! What should I do? (link)
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heyy .. okay first of all he isnt takening her away from you beacuse you never owned her and it seems to me thats your a tiny but jealous so my advice to you is not to worry about it she is going to have more friends then just you sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear and remember there are other people out there
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hey im one of those people who really likes helping other people, you know helping them with problems whether serious or not. well some times i get overwhlemed by all of their problems and i become depressed too. and sometimes it feels like they start to expect SO much out of me and i cant do everything...then we get into a fight! what should i doooooo??? (link)
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heyy .. just stop giving people help and when they ask you for it be like i already helped you enough and im not helping you again sorry ask someone else and your problems will be gone
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me adn my friend brooke spend an auwfull lota time together.. and people are starting to call us twins... we look nothing alike.. well kinda i guesss tall and blond hair... we both hate it so much and always say no we don't!! but people just keep saying it !! ugh ..what should we do~! (link)
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heyy .. just stop doing everything together and hang out with some new people i suggest you both do that so that way people wont call you twins
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I need help. When I get around people I never know what to do. It dosen't have to be a big group just one or two people but for some reason when I'm around them I just freeze. If they try to talk to me I just stare at them or walk away. It's getting really bad because now my friends are getting mad at me becasue of this. What can I do to get over being shy. (link)
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heyy .. my friend has the same problem and what he does is just talk online to people and try to build up confidence and have something to talk about online and then the next day in school you still have something to talk about sorry if i didnt help that much
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my friend called and asked me for a blank Cd and I told her I can't get her one b/c they are my brothers.She kept saying 'oh just ask him' so I said 'i can't, because i had my other friend over and we were watching a movie`I am constantly giving her stuff.i'm not even kidding. I give her clothes,i bought her lunch today(didnt even ask her to pay me back!)when i told her i couldnt she's like 'ok, whatever bye'i thought that was really rude.when people say the word 'whatever' to me i find it offensive and she hung up on me.what should i do? i did nothing wrong and just stuck up for myself... (link)
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heyy .. dont let her bother you its not your fault and tell her that your not going to supply her eeds anymore its not your job its her parents job and continue sticking up for yourself
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>on first I wont tell you that I'm from Poland and my english is quite good (link)
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heyy .. who cares dont chnage for anyone try to have your friends get into the certain stuff you like and maybe then you will blend in better
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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks (link)
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heyy .. give her some money that way she can buy herself what she wants and will like it or go to like a skateshop or something tomboyish that shes into and get her a giftcard or get a mall giftcard they have like hot topic there and stuff she might like
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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do? (link)
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heyy .. i am the same way there are some pretty cool people in my class but they arent popular like me so i just talk to them either on aol or the phone and they dont even know and they are cool with me doing that so try it
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Okay, well i have to do a speech, and im doing it on how girls are just terriably mean to eachother with the backstabbing, and the calling of names such as "whore, slut, skank.. ect" and everything else that has to do with bullying. if anyone has any stories about their lives and being bullying by other girls please comment me. or e-mail me on xobabicakesox@hotmail.com
thanks so much
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heyy .. well i am one of those girls who call people sluts whores and skanks so i think i would know why we do it we do it because all of the other girls that are in the "group" hate us because we are all friends in the group and they call us that stuff first and then we call them that because they called us that and we are the ones that get in trouble and have a bad and mean reputation just because we hang around with each other in a group well i hope you get our point of view and you now have the girls that get bullied and the mean girls side of it
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okay well my so called best friend has been ignoring me and talking a bunch of shit and calling me a bitch and everything like that and she's been doing this for like 2 weeks now. and i asked her why she called me a bitch and she started spazzing out about how me and my other friend ditch her all the time but i couldn't have been ditching her because she won't give me the time of day to do that she does this to me every year she can hang out with whoever she wants but when i start to hang out with someone else she gets all pissy about it..i don't know what to do anymore? i rate good/ (link)
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heyy .. just tell her that if she is going to ignore you all the time like that then your going to start hanging with other people besides her because she is not treating you good or fairly and that if she wants to hang with you she can but she cant treat you like crap all the time
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I think my friend keeps on lying to me and its proper upsetting anyone got anyways i can talk to her and see if she is really lying???
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heyy .. there are two ways to deal with a situation like this
1. go to her and say that you think she keeps on lying and that you want an explanation for it (the best ways of doing are not in person or the phone they are email or aim)
2. have a good friend ask her for you
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my best friend is pregnet. i dont know what to do. i know she wants to keep it but she hasnt even told her boyfriend and she wasnt going to tell me but i found the strip in her room. I'm afraid that she wont be able to handle it and that her parents will be mad if they find out I've known this girl since i was 7 and were 14 now and she is so young that her parents would probly just kick her out. i dont want this to happen to her and i dont know if i should tell anyone she's not ready to have a baby at all and she cant get enough courige to go tell somebody about it so now im realy worried about what will happen if she doesnt tell. should i just go ahead and tell ppl and make things easy or should i just let her do it her way? (link)
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well i think you should try talking your friend into telling her boyfrined and family because this is an important matter and her paretns cant kick her out because she is not 18 and that will be ilegall and since she is only 14 she should talk about whether she would be an abortion or not with her family and then her boyfriend
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hey im 13 and lately ive been feeling left out. i have a whole group of friends who iused to hang out with but i cant hang out on the weekends anymore because i need to study for school and i also have something going on. even though i cant hang out really ive been feeling left out, my friends wont talk to me, and the only chance i can hang out with them they always have plans. ive been also trying to hook up with my friends ex so do you think its that they dont wanna be friends with me or what (link)
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heyy .. its not that they dont want to hangout with you its just that they are unaware of waht your going throw you should try telling them that you have to study alot and there is something going on in your family (or if you are confortable with telling them what it is tell them) and that is the reason why you havent been hanging out with them so much and since you havent been hanging out with them latly you fele sort of leftt out and then ask them (in advance on a day that you can hang out) if they want to all go to the movies or mall or something like that together and start hangoing out again more often
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