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Hi i am jennifer. I live in Northwest Ohio, I like to play alot of sports like softball, track, volleyball, and basketball. I have wavy brown hair with blonde highlights, I like to do my hair different ways. I have hazel eyes. I like to put on make-up and dress up.
Gender: Female
Age: 13
Yahoo: bulldogjennifer@yahoo.com
Member Since: January 12, 2005
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oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks! (link)
i think you should flirt with him only if she breaks up with him. you should wait untill she gives you the ok untill you put a move on the hot guy becuz guys will come and go but friends will stay forever!!!! good luck!!!!!
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I have this guy friend and we are like best friends no dout but I knida really like him and everyone thinks he kindof likes me. I dont know if I should go out with him or not because his guy best friend likes me too and I dont want to ruin thier friendship or our friendship
Please Help::f/13::I rate high (link)
no, because if you kinda like him and he kinda likes you well you really really need to like him not kinda but if you want to i guess u could!!


okay--well me and my best friend got into a fight! (it is a guy) i wen to his house yesterday and i was going out with his best friend shawn,but my he(best friend the guy) broke up with him for me(i asked him to) and like 10 mintues after me and shawn broke up..i hugged my best friend

then later my ex shawn called and was excusing me and my best friend of making out--and shawn went to my best friends house and said why did u make out wit (me) jamie! he said he didnt- then shawn told him i said i did- when i didn't and now my BEST friend is mad at me! and when ever i try to talk to him he says mean things and im nice! please help i RATE HIGH!!!! (link)
u can sit and talk with your friend and bring shawn too


There's this girl at my school who's two-faced (she got a bf a little while ago), and I pretend I like her, but I really don't. What should I do?
-Falon (link)
don't fake it tell her the truth

Good Luck
~Jennifer~


ok I have/had a best friend for over 5 years all of a sudden when 8th grade cam she started to ignore me! well not exactly ignore but like she found a different best friend adn that person follows her around like a little dog! ok well this past week my "best friend" and the other person started to sit at another table and there was no room for the other girl to sit there so she sat with us. I asked her [in a calm voice] how come you guys didnt sit with us this week? and then she started SCREAMING at me and was like OK it was only a week get over it!!! Idk why you guys are soo pissed about it! and I said that we werent and then I said "when I sat with other people you guys got mad at me" and she said..SO THIS IS DIFFERENT! and stormed off and went to where my best friend was sitting. I asked someone later in the day who they were sitting with if they are mad at us(the table) and she said that my best friend said that we are all "joined at the hip, and she hated all of us in general"?!?!? and ya..I have been crying for the past 2 hours and I dont know what to say to my best friend becase I dont want her to hate me...

srry this was long and kind of complicated...

I will rate high if you help me!

*Andie* (link)
maybe your friend wants time to herself my friends do that to me all the time but it doesn't they hate you hope this is good advice hoped i helped

Good Luck
~jennifer~


my friend is going out with this guy. i think she's too good for him but anyway. he's in my PE class and the other day i saw him touching another girl's pussy. like feeling up on her. they're both black and the girl he was touching is white. plus right now there's a lot of racial stuff going on. should i tell my friend or keep my mouth shut? (link)
tell your friend.... just say we need to talk... then tell her what he did in a nice way of course


okay i have a major problem

my school has the biggest clique system EVER....like you wouldn't believe how many cliques there are. Its such a big deal....and its really get on my nerves to the point where I can't concentrate on my school work and my grades are slipping. This is because I'm at the bottom of the pit I only have a few friends (1 or 2) but still I wish I had more and theres a certain group that I would like to make friends with and they seem nice but I'm soo shy and people say I'm one of the shyest girls in the grade and that I hardly speak. I know I should speak more but its hard for me and I think I have social anxiety. Please help as high school is starting next year and I don't know whether to switch schools or change my image at the school I am going to (the school I am at has the grades pre-k till 12th). Also my school is one of the best schools in the nation and that is another reason why I am having a tough time deciding whether to leave it simply because of the cliques. I heard someone call me a reject and a loser at school....and to be honest I am a reject, but I know I'm not a loser. Please help, thank you sooo much!! (link)
maybe u could try to talk to some people that u talked to before... get to know some people


I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help. (link)
just be there friends even if they make fun of u try to tell them that it can kill u


what do u do when all ur friends turn on you (link)
get new friends and if they want to be friends with u say no


this girl is having her sweet 16...and im not invited but the rest of my friends who dont even talk to her are. I was just asking...do you think when i have mine i should invite her? or should i not invite her. (link)
if u r friends with her invite her, even if shes not your friend still invite her to show her that u want to be her friend




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