Hello!
My name is Katie....im a loving person who has been through a lot in life....friendship troubles, boy stuff, family stuff, i babysit, and I've seen my friends go through a LOT, so i know what i'm talking about.
I'm 15, and I'm currently a sophomore in high school!
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you see i just created a new myspace. btw, im 13/f. last year i made one but deleted it before the school year so i wouldnt get distracted. theres this girl, i've known her since like.. 4th grade, and we've been friends since then. this year (well it just ended for summer) i was in 7th. so yeah, like 3 years. when i wasnt in her pod for 5th and 6th grade, she was more friendlier with me. it was like we were still good friends though we didnt see each other often. she even invited me to her sleepover bday party in 5th grade though i couldnt go, cause my parents wouldnt let me. but in 7th grade it was different. in the beginning of the year it was the same like the other years but it progressed and it was like she was less interested in really being my friend, as i saw it. she'd share secrets with other friends and stuff, and wouldnt hang around me as much. i'd hang around her, but it was like.. she was half-interested in me. when i made my myspace before we were on each other's Top friends list. but this year, at the end of the year she had another sleepover party but she didnt invite me! i asked her if i was invited and she said it was for close friends only. i didnt show her how i felt, but i felt hurt cause i've been a good friend to her and i've known her longer than some of the people she considered as "close friends". and in my new myspace, i asked to be on her top and shes like "ummm.. no your not going on my top" and idk if its just me, but it sounded really snotty and that kinda ruined my mood for the rest of the day. cause i put her on my top... and yeah. and my other friend, we all knew each other in 4th grade too, shes not even in our pod but she got invited to the sleepover party and is 3rd on her top friends list. i dunno what i did wrong.. or is she just a friend i should drop? cause im not sure.. i dont like losing friends but i dont like being friends with people who dont act like friends should. or am i overreacting? also, i havent replied to her "umm no your not going on my top" comment yet.. i dunno what to reply! should i just be like "thanks, but no thanks" or "okay.." or "are you mad at me or something?" cause this is really hard to do. =( (link)
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like Tina_DUH said, drop her if she continues to be snotty towards you.
I sympathise with you..i just completed junior high (7th and 8th grade) and i can for sure tell you this....frienships change a lot, because you are really figuring out who you are, and discovering more about yourself. I lost a couple friends to junior high.
I don't think you ahve done anything wrong...ask her why she is mad (if she is) and tell her you feel hurt because you are being left out and feel like you don't hang out much anymore. If she is still snotty to you, then drop her.
Love the people who treat you right, and forget about those who don't (even though i know its hard...really, i do)
ok well hope i helped!
Katie
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okay, so to start off, im selfish of my friends.. i really am. i had this friend that became friends with other ppl and i dont talk to her, i dont like her anymore, not bc of that, but she is now fake bc of the other ppl. my other friend is friends with this girl i dont like and we got into a fightish kinda thing. her name is jada
well me and jada made up today, which im very happy about.. we plan to hang out with our other friend rachel this weekend. well i havent hung out with my friends in forever, bc i have a boyfriend. last time i did something with my friends is like 2 months ago, no lie.
so i plan on having a girls night at my house saturday. just us three, maybe someone else(bc i really want my friends back. i lost A LOT of them bc of ym boyfriend)
what can we do?.. ill be 16 next month and so will rachel. Jada is 15 1/2.. so we cant drive yet, but if we wanted to do something im sure my mom will take us.. but maybe things to do at my house.. thanks!!! please lots of answer with differnt things!! (link)
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yes, your frineds don't like it when you put your boyfriend before them. make them equal :)
You should go to a movie then have a sleepover...if you can....or just go to a movie, and you shoudl go to a spa if you can afford it :)
if you can have a sleepover, play games like "would you rather", "truth or dare", and
another thing is make up really funny skits, dress up in diva clothes and lots of cool jewlery.
im 14 and my friends are older (some of them) and we still have fun doing all that!
hope i helped :)
Katie*~
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me and my best friend are really close, but im starting to doubt our friendship, i mean she can be pretty retarted at times and i wish she could be a little bit more serious when im in pain(emotional)or upset or really really excited!I mean I love her(bff love)but i dont know what to do!
should i dump her or ask her to be a bit more serious? (link)
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you shouldn't stop being her friend because of one thing she does that you don't like. my friend and i had a problem like this.
just tell her next time you tell her something you think is serious something like "This isn't funny, please, this is serious to me" but be nice about it. she might just be trying to cheer you up....
well, try that, nd hope i helped!
Katie*~
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i wish i had 1 best friend that i could share all my secrets with, and that would be like better than all my other friends and stuff. but most of my friends are just good friends and stuff.. but what do you consider to be best friend material? idk if we're more than good friends yet.. even the ones i've known forever. or maybe they are, but like i still dont think i've found someone that like completely blew me away and that i'd totally know is my best best friend. :/ how do i get one? How do i find one? im always hoping for a new kid in the neighborhood or in my class at school and that we'd click and become best friends. -sigh- what should i do?
13/f (link)
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To me a best freind is someone you can share anything with and not have to worry about them telling, and no matter if you fight or not you are apologizing to each other like really quickly and are best of friends again (like me and my bestest friend)...
two people can't just be best friends immediately (although me and my bestest friend brittany were ok....then we hated each other....then we became bffs like right away) but id oesn't always happen that way. just get to know a new girl/guy in your neighborhood or school. just start slow, and who knows, you may be best freinds somehwere down the road of life!
just look for someone who shares your interests or that is in a same special class (by special i mean home ec or life skills or spanish, or it could be a regular class) and start up a convo about what happened inthat class that day, or on a project you are working on (if you are)
Hope i helped! leave me a note in my inbox if you need more advice!
Katie*~
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my bff is a guy~wev ben bffs since 5th grade~my friend told him i liked him and he likes me to~im gothic but i hug every1 even him so his mom wont let him see me or even talk~she doesnt want girls huggin him and she hates anyone who wears black now~i dyed my hair brown~i had red streaks w/ black hair~i havent been wearin as much black clothes and i never even wore tht much black~so i still cant even see or talk to him~she hates everything about me now tht she found out i like him and he likes me~she never used to~now she hates my clothes hair music jewelery and my personality everything!!!!! (link)
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this is tuff but i will try my best!
I think his mom is just insecure about her son liking/dating someone. i don't know how old you are....
i don't see anything wrong with hugging....if you see her in the store or somewhere say hi politely maybe if you are very polite to her she will changer her mind...
when exactly did she start hating black? when you two revealed that you liked each other?
have your bff sit down with his mom and talk to her...maybe saying "I know you are trying to protect me mom, but i would really like it if you woudl give *insert your name here* a chance. she is a very, very nice girl, and she really wants to get along with you!" or something similar.
if his mom agrees...great! next time she is with your bff just be very nice....
well..i hope i helped! if you need more advice besdies what i put here leave me another note!
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okay so my best friend [ashley] and this other girl from her school [that i know] got in a "fight" & now they telling me to talk to the other person with their words. i always have to be this kind of person with ashley. im always stuck in the middle of these kind of situations with her. and sometimes i agree with the opposite person. but i dont want to make her feel that *I* dont want to be her friend.
omg
HELP
should i tell whats the truth even though it might mess up our four years of being best friends and should i try to stay out of the situation even though it might give the impression that i dont want to help? (link)
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what i do is stay neutral as best i can. listen to each girl's side, but don't do the dirty work for them. encourage peace....but if you like both girls as friends, and don't want to lose either of them, politely and nicely tell them both that you don't want to be on either side, and that they can talk to you, but you won't say stuff to one girl for the other.
it may not help resolve the issue, but it should keep you out from between them. try and spend equal time with each friend, so that doesn't make the other think you are on the other's side.
well, hope i helped!
if you need any more adivce, leave me a note in my inbox!!
Katie*~
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okay so im going to start out with the fact that my friend ashley is so awesome. but there ARE some bad points of knoeing her. she tells me everything and then when people ask if i know something that they dont they get real mad because the answer is so totally yes. shes my best friend. and some of this information is dangerous. im scared ill tell secrets that are supposed to stay unknown.
HELP
my best friend tells me too much,
victoria♥ (link)
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plz don't tell anyone! if your best friend trusts you with her deep dark secrets,then she trusts y ou not to tell. tell people who ask you to tell them "yes, but i swore the person who told me that i wouldn't tell." and change the subject. that way, you will be kept from letting a secret slip. think beforey ou speak other times, to make sure you are giving anything away.
if some of her secrets are dangerous to her health, tell a trusted adult and get her help. she should thank you later!
hope i helped!
if you need anymore advice and/or help, please leave me a note in my inbox!
Katie*~
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My best friend is like the greatest thing ever. She is so sweet and would do anything for me. For christmas she made me a great present and now she's making me one for my half birthday. Her birthday is coming up, and I want to do something special, like make her something or you know. But I don't know what I should do. Ideas?
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for last christmas (but this could be for your friends birthday also) i made my bestest friend whos a girl, lol, a little book of stapled papers with her name on the front and Merry Christmas (although you could put Happy Birthday!) and on each other page, put one letter of her name, and put words starting with that letter that described her. i adorned it with pom poms, pipe cleaners, ribbon, and all kinds of cool stuff like that, and she LOVED it! you can decorate it any way you want, make it as fancy as you want, and she will love it that you made it all yourself. you could use marker, paints, whatever! a dictionary is helpful if she has unusual letters in her name like z, q, x etc.
Hope i helped!
Katie*~
p.s. leave a note in my inbox if you need anymore advice!
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I really just need someone to talk to, my best friends mad at me and I sadly, have no one else to talk to. I'm under a world of stress. I don't know what to do. (link)
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hey girl, take a deep breath and relax (i mean that in a nice way, incase you took it wrong)
my yahoo messenger name is sweet_kandies123 if you have windows messenger you can add my yahoo on there.
my email is golf_goddess_1964@yahoo.com
please email or im and talk to me, i will listen! ive been through what you are going through before, i have sympathy for you!
*hugz*
Katie*~
p.s. if im not on yahoo, email me or leave me a IM and add me, im usually on every day
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Are we best friends or not? We have known each other since I was 2 and she was 3. We see each other almost every week, and have play dates and go on trips together. We get along very well but we randomly fight. Now she is in a higher grade and in a different school. That means we don't get to see eachother very much any more. And that stinks! Her b-day is next week and we are going ice-skating. So are we still bff (Best Friends Forever)?????????????? (link)
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that really depends on hwo your relationship is still. i mean....you don't have to be best friends to hang out all the time and have fun doing stuff together. if you tell each other everything, and you call each other your best friends, then yes i would consider you bffs. i have two best friends in a different grade, and sometimes we are in different schools, but we still made it through.
hope i helped!
Katie*~
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Ok so I've know this girl forever it feels like. Shes is soooo my best friend. I mean lately we've been getting in a LOT of personal fights. I think that it has something to do with how much time she has been spending with her sister. ((step sister)). . .
Her sister isnt a good influence. Together they have been completely inseperable. But I mean her sister is like three years older than her. And her sister HATES me; for no reason; she doesnt even know me.
I mean with out her sister around Megan and I are like the BEST of friends.
What do I do?
Signed,
Confused && Broken! (link)
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its perfectly alright for your friend and stepsister to spend time together, but if you feel you are totally being ignored and unfairly treated, then gently tell your friend about how you feel.
you say she isn't a good influence, but how isn't she? and just because she is three years older doesn't mean they can't hang out. I hang out with my sister who is 6 years younger than me (although she isn't a 'step' sister)
as long as you are being totaly ignored to mistreated unfairly like i said above, there is no reason why you should disapprove.
either ask your friend to ask her sister, or ask her sister directly why she doesn't like you. maybe shse is jealous of the friendship you two have.
well, hope i helped, if you want more advice pelase drop me a note in my inbox!
Kaitlyn*~
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okay, i have three best friends. at least i thot they were my friends. im not really sure now. one of them will start toking to me and will be like hey blank, and blank (my other bffs.) are over. and ill be like oh, hey. in like a depressing voice because im sad they didnt invite me. theyll be like r you okay? y r you mad? ill be like um im fine. they dont ever invite me over but there always like oh i luv u so much! i dont know wut to do. (link)
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hey girl,
i have a similar problem with two of my best friends!
try and make yourself seem more available, and invite one or two of them over once in a while. That could reassure them that they know you aren't mad (or may lead them to think you aren't if you are) and might drive them to invite you over more.
of course, if they ahve known each other longer then they have known you, they probably would hang out more, like my two friends do. Don't act depressed. Talk to your friends about it to, just say you feel like you are being left out of what they are doing.
i saying this in the nicest way possible, but if it doesn't work, then maybe you should find some new freinds, because you aren't being treated fairly.
hope i helped, ify ou need anymore advice, email me, message me on yahoo messenger, or leave me a note in my advicenators inbox!
Kaitlyn*~
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