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okay, i have three best friends. at least i thot they were my friends. im not really sure now. one of them will start toking to me and will be like hey blank, and blank (my other bffs.) are over. and ill be like oh, hey. in like a depressing voice because im sad they didnt invite me. theyll be like r you okay? y r you mad? ill be like um im fine. they dont ever invite me over but there always like oh i luv u so much! i dont know wut to do.
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hey girl,
i have a similar problem with two of my best friends!
try and make yourself seem more available, and invite one or two of them over once in a while. That could reassure them that they know you aren't mad (or may lead them to think you aren't if you are) and might drive them to invite you over more.
of course, if they ahve known each other longer then they have known you, they probably would hang out more, like my two friends do. Don't act depressed. Talk to your friends about it to, just say you feel like you are being left out of what they are doing.
i saying this in the nicest way possible, but if it doesn't work, then maybe you should find some new freinds, because you aren't being treated fairly.
hope i helped, ify ou need anymore advice, email me, message me on yahoo messenger, or leave me a note in my advicenators inbox!
Kaitlyn*~
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juss talk to them. they probably didn't mean to do it on purpose & if they did then they aren't your true friends. talk to them about it & see what you guys can work out. if you tell them it hurt you & stuff, maybe they'll plan more stuff with you & stuff.
-hope that helped!♥
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