|
Are we really best friends????
Are we best friends or not? We have known each other since I was 2 and she was 3. We see each other almost every week, and have play dates and go on trips together. We get along very well but we randomly fight. Now she is in a higher grade and in a different school. That means we don't get to see eachother very much any more. And that stinks! Her b-day is next week and we are going ice-skating. So are we still bff (Best Friends Forever)??????????????
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
that really depends on hwo your relationship is still. i mean....you don't have to be best friends to hang out all the time and have fun doing stuff together. if you tell each other everything, and you call each other your best friends, then yes i would consider you bffs. i have two best friends in a different grade, and sometimes we are in different schools, but we still made it through.
hope i helped!
Katie*~
]
As time goes on, we go our separate ways in life. It's just a part of getting older.
So, this is happening to you. That doesn't mean you aren't still bff. It just means you each have something different going on. You may not be able to see her as often, but that just means it will be happier times when you do see her.
P.S. All people who care about each other fight randomly. It's just a part of any relationship.
]
Hey, I read your problem and i think that your wrong to even wonder about such a thing. I mean, for crying out loud, ofcourse your still best freinds.
I have been put in such a situation before when i had this gorgeous best freind and we used to fool around and do everything together until one day life seperated between us cause he went to a different school. But we still talk on the phone, chat, send our pictures to each other, go out and hang around. You could do that too every now and then. And the best thing is that at the end of the day ,when she gets sick of her new school and new freinds and new life, then you'll find her going back to YOU cause your someone who she knew for so long ,loved ,and cared about. Don't let the fact that your in different schools put you down, because that has nothing to do with seperating you from one another. Because if a true freindship exists, then it would last forever. And i am sure, that she thinks about you most of the time and wonders if she's still YOUR best freind just like your wondering. So tell you what, put the whole idea of best freinds aside now, and just think of how to make her birthday special, and what you could do to make her happy ,and what gift would you get her. And you know something, that even though she's in a new school with new people and stuff ,but i am sure that she would never be able to find a truly amazing best freind who cares for her and loves her as much as you do. So stop worrying and thinking about this, and just have fun while you can.
If there is any other advice, troubles, worries or concerns, then please be free to contact me with a private message or email me, and i would be glad to give you my prompt reply.Take care.
]
Yeah definitley. i think so. and if i didnt help you could always just ask her if your that much of good friends.
--natalie
]
More Questions: |