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I'm friendzoned by a friend. We are really close to each other and one time when her boyfriend left her I was by her side when she was really hurt and sad. And now she said that she is now looking for another love. And I volunteered but of course I made it a joke cuz I'm afraid I might be rejected. But then she said I must nit volunteer because she doesn't want to lose me cuz she treasures me as her brother. Wtf? I really like her and loved her but she just think me as her brother. Please help

The best way to escape friendzone is that make her long for you. You must not be available all the time when she wants to see you. I know this can be so hard but take some time about it. And also you must abolish the \"brotherly attitude\'\' which is you are too easy to ask for help and you are always with her. She can\'t feel that you have feeling for her because you are too good to her and are like his brother.

A little flirting can do. But if you are already trying it but the didn\'t work, I think it\'s time for you to have an own time for yourself. I\'m not saying that you must surrender about your feelings to her, but I\'m saying that you must let her think that it\'s not easy losing you and not all the time you are with her because you need to find someone who will complete you. But of course that\'s just a false alarm to make her think how important you are to her. And also by telling her that you are searching for someone, that way she can feel jelousy. At that case she will be preoccupied and she will be longing for you. So then she can realize that she likes you. Then after for few days, tell her that you haven\'t found someone else. Then ask her to go out. Ohh then your relationship will start to flourish.

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I like this girl since we were 8th grader. however she just think we're siblings. i don't know what to do. How to escape from being friendzoned?

Being in a platonic relationship is quite hard to get out. However if you exert your full effort, you can get her heart and start to date her.

You should not be available all the time as she calls for help, be a stone-hearted for awhile so that she could realize your worth and value. And also try to express your feelings for her as you talk. In your conversations, try to take on a topic that would lead about your feelings towards her. Like for instance, your topic is about love. Then ask her what she looks for on a guy. And if she\'ll tell you everything, tell her that you have all of them and the only thing that is lacking is a girl that looks the same standards of her (start to flirt) and also try to throw some puns to improve your humour. Girls love guys with great sense of humour. So just be cool and take her seriously.

i have a link that would help you also.
http://www.wikihow.com/Escape-the-Friend-Zone

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