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My friend has vouchers for a day spa next weekend and has asked me to go with her. Recently I've had to cancel on her a few times and we've been drifitng apart so we decided it would be a good opportunity to catch up. I said I would but then remembered that my boyfriend was planning on taking me to the same spa for our anniversary in a couple of weeks. I wasn't going to tell my boyfriend that I was going with my friend so as not to ruin it for him but I felt too guilty so I did. He said I could go with my friend and he'd think of something else for our anniversary but I know he's disappointed about it.

Should I go and risk upsetting my boyfriend or let my friend down again? (link)
I don't see why you can't go with your boyfriend and your friend. It's a spa. You can do different things each time, and I'm pretty sure relaxing never gets old :]


ok im 17 female....I have a really good friend Bianca and we met through this guy Rey who played us at the same time...anyways i broke up with him and she stayed with him...the thing is me and him have been doing things behind her back because he is really in love with me and i amm still sooo very in love with him...He told me he would brake up with her just to be with me...Question WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?? I mean she loves him soo much and she would never talk to me again if i went out with him and he broke up with her for me...But i dont know who to pick over who he makes me so happy and he is like the love of my life.. What do i doo??She asks me every day if i have talked to him and i have to lie t her every day soo i dont know NEED ADVICE thnx i will rate high is answers are decent and i will give u my feedback wel thanx whoever wants to help please be atleast 15 or older thnx buh bye

Dominican Grl~ (link)
Have you ever heard stories about how girls date married men who promise they'll get a divorce, but never do? It happens a lot. Guys can be @ssholes sometimes. Both of you shouldnt be involved with a guy that would do that to both of you anyway. If he's cheating on her, who says he wouldnt cheat on you? I know, you're probably thinking, "This is not the kind of advice i wanted," but it's the truth. Sorry..


okay well my friend doesn't really have that many friends nd ALOT of people hate her and like i like her but she can be REALLY annoying. and if i dont put her in my profile for AIM she gets pissed off but then im gunna lose alot of friends if im friends wit this girl so wat should i do? (link)
Well just put her name in and no specifics. You can always just tell your other friends that its just a different girl with the same name.


Hi umm i need a little advice i like these to boys but they r best friends ther names r Jimmie and Elijah. Jimmie is cuter but Elijah is more my type which one should i go wit hwhen school starts because they both like me. what should i do

Signed Beautifulmamii05 (link)
Well, personally, i think you should chose the guy who's personality you like better...because someone's looks can always change...and they may b fun to look at, but wats the point if you cant hav fun with them doing anything BUT that. Before you go out with either of them thought, think about them and their friendship. Will choosing one best friend over the other cause rivalry and hurt feelings?


Okay, well you see, I was really good friends with this one guy. We go to different schools and only see each other occasionally. For a while we were boyfriend/girlfriend, but not offically. We would hold hands and then, one night he just held me, in that way. Then, I didn't see him for a while, and I have recently just seen him. I asked him if he still liked me, (because I knew he did( as in he did in the past)) and he said no. I don't know if I should do anything else, because I still like him, or if I just should let it be, because he initiated our "realtionship" and then he just ended it like that.
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It really depends. Watch how he looks at you and everything because to me it sounds like he could just b shy, so you would hav to initiate it. If that is the case you would also have to think about risking the friendship too.

hope i helped!! &hear; bandgeeksunite


I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!? (link)
The best thing you could do is talk to the coach. The reason he sets those rules is so the team is close, but oviously this girl is just pushing you away. As long as he knows your feelings he'll probably try to correct the problem asap.


all right, i'm going to this wedding today and i'm bringing my best guy friend and now i'm feeling nervous. see i have this huge family and i'm worried they will bug him or make him feel uncomfortable. i can't cancel because he seems to really want to go an i'm just worried my family will scare him away or something. what would you guys do in this situation? i already warned him but he just laughed and said he was sure it would be fine... but still i'm nervous. help? (link)
If he's your best guy friend im sure he'll be willing to take a little teasing from your family members...i know my best guy friend does ALL THE TIME....but thats one of the best parts of having a guy thats a really good guy friend. Being able to laugh those things off is good for situations like a real bully teasign you. If you've warned your guy friend and he said it was fine, then i dont think you have anything to worry about. Just consider yourself lucky for having such an amazign friend!


hey im one of those people who really likes helping other people, you know helping them with problems whether serious or not. well some times i get overwhlemed by all of their problems and i become depressed too. and sometimes it feels like they start to expect SO much out of me and i cant do everything...then we get into a fight! what should i doooooo??? (link)
i used to be the same way!!!!! the best way to deal with it is to tell a person you'll do all you can for them and not promise to accually fix their problem. Maybe then they'll expect less of you so u wont hav as many fights....sry, i dont really know wat to tell you about becoming depressed too...but i hope i helped!!! -BandGeeksUnite




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