Ok well me and my best friend both like the same guy!!and like its big time like,so u cant stop liking him.hehe confusing i know.and so like he was saying he wants to "do stuff" with me then he turns around nd says he wants to "do stuff" with her adn tells her not to tell me because he doesnt want to ake me mad.and like we just want him to pick one of us because its getting like jealousy.but if he picks one of us then one of us will get jealous but we want him to soo like hehe whta do we do??????thanks soo much and ya i know its a little confusing! 14/f
p.s. i really really like him!
hMmMm...
listen here.
why would you like someone thats asking someone to do stuff behind your back? what if they actually have and you just dont know it yet?
it seems like your more in love with the competition instead of the guy. who seems like a little punk ass any way trying to play two girls at once.
now think of this...
whats more important
the guy OR your friendship with your BEST friend?
hmmmm?
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well one of my really good friends has this notebook that she writes all her feelings in I guess its a way to get rid of her stress..but anywayz i read it last night and it talked about getting raped and why did it have to happen to her and stuff..well i asked her if it was true and she didn't answer me i kept asking her but she said she didn't want to talk she cuts and I can't get her to stop..how can I get her to open up so I can help her? i dont want her to hurt herself more than she already has! Plz help! Sincerely, *Concerned*
well obviously if she wrote about it.
face it... it's true.
get her help in a nice way.
dont go tattle to her parents right away.
smooth into things...make it calm.
write her a letter or something, showing your concerned.
she'll come around when she's ready for you.
dont bug into her space to much...it'll push you out of her space even faster than getting in.
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There's this guy Anthony that I went out with this past January. Our whole relationship was kind of stupid and didn't last that long. He's 18 and graduated this year with my boyfriend. (they hate each other) My boyfriend went on a trip for a little while and since he's gone I figured I would spend some time with old friends. I just happened to start talking with Anthony again and we started hanging out. We talked everything over before we hung out and he knows my relationship situation and seemed to show respect for it. When I hung out with him last night though, we were just joking around and stuff. We watched a movie and we were laying on his bed. (No problems there) But soon after he started caressing my legs and stomach, and I got totally pissed. He said he respected that I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. What the hell is his problem? I need a way to tell him that that's not cool and to back the hell off in a nicer way then I probably would. I want us to still be cool, but for him to know that that's not exceptable.
hmm..hes trying to ether win u back, bcuz he hates this guy..or he still has feelings, or hes just a guy wants some..i dunno. tell him to back off, i dont think hanging out with him is a good idea anyways..
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I am a 15 year old girl who is confused because my best friend today asked me if I would be mad if she went out with my x boyfriend i went out with all year. I'm not all that sure if I am over him completely i think i tiny part of me has feeling for him again not sure. I told my friend that would be really happy if she went out with him but yet im not. Can u give me some advice what to do?
sincerely,
BabieGurl33
whoa whoa whoa...tell ur friend to calm down!! she should understand if you still have feelings for someone you went out with all year..tell her that it would bother you if they were more than just friends and if she doesnt understand, shes not a true friend. theres plenty of other fish in the sea for her, she doesnt need to take a sloopy 2nd of her bestfriends!
xo andrea
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How do I get more friends?? I have two best friend but it feels like no one else is really my friend.... like I only have 2 friends!! I think I'm pretty... I mean people tell me I'm pretty and modeling agents come up to me (not to sound cocky but I'm just trying to tell ya the whole story) I used to be popular back in 8th grade but now I dont know what happend.... I mean I have A LOT of "not really/kinda sorta" friends. I know i need to "be myself" but I dont know how to... HELPZ
i know exactly where ur comming at! you can make more friends easily, dont give ur 2 friends ur whole time though! talk to people online, go 2 partys, get active in stuff, theres all sorts of diff ways you just gotta try and be a socializer!!! be nice and open with people and they'll like you, but believe me who cares what u look like, ur friend will like u for u not how u look!!!!
xoxo-andrea
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