okay my name is amber and if u need help i can help you i love swimming shopping go to scary movies and funny and love movies i love hanging out with friends going swimming im 14 i love french fries lol
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so heres the deal, my mom doesnt like my bestfriend which by the way is really lame. she only doesnt like her cause i kinda pick up her bad attitude. but the thing is my sisters nvr listen to me and tell me mom everything they are older btw and im f/16 and my parents nvr listen to me, my bestfriend is basically the closest thing i have to family rite now, and i would pick her over anything or anyone, but my mom wont let me hangout with her until i get my attitude up and im not gonna see my bestfriend for three weeks. so i have three weeks to get my attitude, up only thing is i dnt want to get my attitude straight when she is gone cause my mom will be like see she is the problem becasue when she isnt around your fine, but my mom wont let me see her so i cant work on it and show her, that she isnt the problem. pleasee help i mean my bestfriend is the only thing that keeps me sane and she is my world my mom is crazy and idk my bestfriend is always like that is so stupid that your mom doenst like me and blahblahblah witch is true, but i hate it when she talks about my mom like that idk help pleasepleaseplease (link)
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i would just make my attitude better because it happend to me and when you hang out with her again make her be nice around your mom or when shes over and if she says no and idc then tell her she isent being a good friend if she doesn't do that for you so tell her to change her attitude around your mom and you change oyur attitude around everybody
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I am a 14yearold girl with a bazillion guy friends. ok maybe like 10 and only 2 gal friends. Some people think i am weird but i honestly feel more comfortable around guys. These guys are not the hunky-hunky-baywatch guys they are more the nerdyish-computer-advanced classes-bandgeek guys. Now i have to tell you that i am much like them besides the computer part. Everyone else besides my friends talk about me and my gal friends and think that we are gay because we hang around guys. and that we are "nerdy girly girl virgins". I hear them talking down the halls and in the classroom and at lunch.
But now that summer has come i have mostly forgot about besides the fact the Drivers Ed. came up and i am now constaly reminded. It drives me crazy.
Should i drop my guy friends or what?
HELP ME PLEASE!!!! (link)
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no you shouldent do that to your guy firends i would just stop hanging out with them that much just barly hang out with them not as much as you did and make more friends
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Ok well my friend really likes this guy. Shes liked him for like two school years i think. We Anyway, I dont like him, but I have this feeling that me and him might date in the future... like soon, in a couple of months of getting to know eachother again, because we used to be friends. And like i said I dont like him but I do sometimes wonder what me and him would be like. And I dont want to lose this friend, she like him and I would never date her crush, but I wouldn't want to like him either. What should I do?? This feeling is strong, and i feel so right. (link)
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okay i had a crush on this guy and i liked him for a while but then my sister started liking him and he kinda liked me intell my sister was like starting to like him and then he likes her alot but i had a big crush on him and now there going out and this was last week and i felt really bad and i was mad at my sister but if i were you i would take a while to get to know him more and if you do date him your friend would feel really bad but then you would feel bad for doing that to her but it would take like a week or 2 for her to stop getting sad but if u do just to worn you it hurts her feelings really bad but i think you should not date him or wait! intell she stops likeing but you should ask her and you have to make sure he likes you but if you have that feeling then go for it
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hey read my first question but ignore the bottom.
anyway what should i do about the girl im friends with. i like her but i dont want to destroy our relationship by telling her how i feel.
it feels like every day i dont tell her it further tears my soul. (link)
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ok well flirt with her more and then call her on the phone and tell her that you promise that this wont ruin our friendship and then she says i promise then you tell her and i promise that will make you feel better maby she feels the same way
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to start off the year i had SO many friends.
i considered my self 'popular.' now it's the
end of the year & i have no friends. i dont
wanna spend the summer with noone to do stuff
with. all of my friends are friends with other
people and are always busy. theres 2 more weeks
of school & i wanna get most of my friends back.
i feel like giving up. random people are taking
my friends & buddying up with them. i ask them
to hang out but i always make plans too late.
should i sit with my semi-biffs at lunch? cuz
they have new friends but still talk to me..
i have so many ex- friends that have moved on but i need some friendss. help (link)
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ok well go to school talk to them ask if u can sit by them at lunch or talk to somebody get to know somebody and ask if u can sit b them at lunch and next time you go to school ask one of those people if they wanna hang out after school but talk to more people or your ex friends alot more ask if you can hang otu with them
hope i helped
love amber
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Im thirteen,Female.
I had a boyfriend, but broke
up with him because we had
litterally hadnt talked on
the phone for maybe twice in
a month in a half relationship.
I think my heart is telling
me that "He's a amazing guy
[True] and that i want to be
the best of friends with him"
But how do i know if thats not
just something to conclusion of
mine and his relationship. Since
we both say we still like eachother.
And i love you and what not.
Do i stay with this feeling,
and let him know?
Or try and keep thinking about
it, even though i feel like
i dont know what to do, at all.
What do i do? (link)
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let him know because if u still like him tell him and stuff but if you had an weird relationship and broke up with him do not go back out with him make best friends with him but if you truly love him tell him that you do and if you guys get back together make sure it works but tell him
im sorry if i answered it wrong or read it wrong
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everytime me and a bunch of my friends always get together i always end up feeling left out. i try to like talk and talk in their conversations but i just cant or they end up ignoring me. and i dont know how to amke new friends. what should i do? (link)
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tell them that you feel left out everytime you go with them but like start your own conversation and then then will go on with you and then you wont be left out
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my friends are starting to get so bitchy and i cant handle it. like i have problems of my own to deal with this. how do i deal with it like what do i say. my friend has been acting so mean to me and my other friend thinks theres something wrong. how do i control myself and ask her nicely whats worng? (link)
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well call her ask her whats wrong?? why r you mad at me what did i do and then when she anwseres it tell her sorry or if she didint tell her sorry for whatever you done but if u get in a fight tell her i don't wanna start a fight i will call you later
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two people other than me are involved in this situation:
-jimmy: ive talked to him for about 2-3 months over the computer. my friends know him so i know he's not a stalker or whatever. he's pretty cool, and i know he's liked me in the past.
-brent: other guy i've been talking to over myspace for the past week now. he's really cool and sweet, and i really want to get to know him outside of myspace. also, my ex-friend knows him, but i'd never talk to her about him because she likes him and already hates me. brent sends me sweet text messages like ily and stuff and im almost starting to like him:]
well.
jimmy one day noticed a comment on my myspace from brent. automatically, he IMs me and asks me how i know him. later, he goes on to tell me that he's really bad news, and that he's beaten up girls he's gone out with and has even killed someone! and i guess jimmy knows this because the girl he currently goes out with used to go out with brent. he told me that i can talk to him but i shouldn't get involved.
i don't really believe it cuz brent is such a sweet guy, but now i'm kind of scared to ever hang out with him. i know i'd bring friend's if i ever did but i'm still pretty scared. i don't know if jimmy is jealous for some reason or whatever.
who do i believe and what do i do?! (link)
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well, i dont know who to belive but if i were you i would ask brent if that was true or aks sombody hes went out with but i think the other guy is lying but i dont know because i never knew any of these people so u have myspace well idk if its his friend or whoevers friend then hes lying or he isnt but i dont know but i think you should ask him or ask one of his exs
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So I took her lunch seat today not on purpose but my friend took my seat. Who gets mad over that?! So my friends like FLIPPING out at me. And she gets my other friend to get on her side! WTF! And She has been IMing me all day trying to argue its so stupid she doesn't realize how much shes overreacting. If only she could realize it. 2 Of my friends so far cant believe she's not over it yet. She called me a friend stealer and starts believing my frien who NEVER tells the truth and she's the one who told me herself that she never tells the truth. And now she's sticking up for her. And Its to the point where I've been crying my eyes out. I didnt tell her, since I've been acting like i dont care (thats what she would want, for me to care) and she just didn't let me explain ANYTHING. Shes a fucking asshole. Shes a bitch and she doesnt even know it probably. I dont know what to do she turned a friend against me already and probably has more of it coming. I'm crying my eyes out because If i could just explain stuff. And hwo the fuck does she think she can call me stupid?! She fucking says the fight was MY FAULT! Like I decided my friend would take my seat, like I decided i was going to sit there JUST to get her mad, like I freakin decided she was gonna flip out at me . She knows I dont have the best grades right now because my grandma died a few months ago and some of the work I never got to hand in brought my grades down. So she used it against me! She said (the one she turned against me) that "L" doesn't get bad grades and is really smart and never stretches the truth (But she does) And I'm Mad at my friend and "L" now.
What do I do I am so upset! I dont know what to do at all pleasehelp (link)
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ok its probably the time of month for your little attention friend she wanted to get in a fight with you so u will feel bad and be sorry for her and she is trying to turn all your friends against you for that that is stupid but if she does then your friends arnt good friends if they r on her side anyways well call her in a couple of days and if shes still acting like that then tell her what the f
why r you acting like its such a big thing for me taking your seat and tell her that i said that she needs to quit trying to get all the attention because she shouldn't get mad over one little thing so just call her in a couple of days and see if she is still mad about it and you guys will probably be friends in like 3 or 4 days again but don't start a fight with her again it will just get it owrse
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How do you tell a good story? (link)
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say more about it ok i will make up a story ok say there was this person that walked across the street and robbed a store dont ask thats the first thing that poped in my head ij thats not a good enough story say it like this there was this mean man that wore a black coat and blue jeans and he walked across the busy road and he walked into the big white bank and then he sneaked by the counter and went pass slowly looking at the girl in a blue dress nicly and said hi and she said what are you doing he said putting money in my depsite and then he ran and robbed the store running out fastly where the cops were chasing him he ran to the white car and jumped in it so fast you couldent even tell he went into it and then he was speeding like the fastest care ever
ok i dont wanna make a long story and im know it sounds weird but thats the first story that poped into my head and i dident wanna think hope i helped
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im a girl im 13.i grew up with all brothers and only boy cousins.im very rough w/ every1.i have mainly guy friends.ive never had a bf.i just really wana bf.but im ''one of the guys''.they dont think of me as girlfriend material.yes i wear really baggy pants but tight shirts.i snowboard.i wana bethought of as more girly. ~help me~ (link)
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ok turn into a girly girl wear eyeliner and eye shadow pink or purple or tan eyeshadow get some cute clothes that are made to fit you you can still snowboard and do all the guy stuff and crap i do all that stuff and im a girly girl start wearing make up and girly clothes go shopping at the mall
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