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okay so basically my mom is having a hissy fit because well i switched shifts with this one girl and now im opening (working 8-12) and shes all pissed off @ me because she "doesnt wanna wake up that early." and shes saying that all i do is think of myself... wow was i really thinking of myself because i thought i switched shifts with someone else to help THEM out .. ANYWAY - and i told her about one of my close friends parties on Sunday and she was thinking about it. UNTIL she realized that my brother is having his girlfriend eat dinner over for her birthday.. So what am i supposed to do?! the party is 7-11 and shes eating over at 8:30. (link)
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Well if you really wanted to go to the party you could go for an hour and a half and then go home and eat dinner with your brother's g/f.
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ohk well im 13 and colombian (spic) woot woot yeah i know lol. anyways my mom and my dad asked me what i want to have a sweet 15 or a sweet 16.. its kinda early but they wanna start saving up since they wanna have my party at the hilton ... but the thing is that most if my friends that im going to invite are white or black and like 6 are spanish ... and i think that they will enjoy a sweet 16 better , but i mean its a tradition for a spanish girl to have a sweet 15 ? im confused help me out (link)
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I think you should do whatever you feel is best for you. Not for your friends. If you want to have a sweet 15 then have that, if you want to have a sweet 16 than thats ok too.
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My friend's b-day party is on Saturday. I also have a very important softball practice that same day. They are both at the same time. I (link)
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I would go to the party. There will be other softball games but your friend won't be having another b-day party until next year. What is more important to you? Friendship or softball. Thats what i would do if I were you. Trust me you won't regret going to the party.
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ok, there's this girl, i'm not really 'friends' with her but i act like it because she is shy and not a lot of people can stand how shy she is...anyways, at lunch yesterday her chicken sandwich wasnt cooked properly and she started telling me to bring it up for her. so i said 'no, it's yours, i'm eating my lunch, you gotta do some things on your own' was i right? because she always wants someone to do things for her....like take out her trash go to the bathroom with her...i'm sick of her being so dependent on others. (link)
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I think you did the right thing. She really needs to depend on herself a little more. There will be a time that she has to depend on herslef and she needs to learn to do so. I think you did the right thing. If she was offended then just explain to her why you said that and your feelings towrds the whole thing.
I hope I helped and I hope everythign works out. Let me know how everything turns out.
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I know this guy since we were 7 years old. I think he is gay. He always talks about gay people. He always points out who is gay. He has no male friends of his own and he goes to gay clubs and claims he is just watching to see who lives a secretly gay life. He also has a lot of woman friends and gossips very much.
He dates women have no flaws. Very pretty women that look like models.He is very picky. He calls every body ugly. when i date a guy he tells me he's not that cute. I've seen cuter. Is it just me or is that something a girl would say? What do you think about this situation.? (link)
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If you really want to know if he is gay then just ask him. Make sure that before you ask him, ask yourself if YOU are ok with him being gay. If you are then tell him that you will still be his friend no matter what and then just ask him. If you are truely his friend then it won't matter what he is. Hope this advice helps and good luck with your friend.
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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..
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Scared 15-f (link)
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I think that you should tell your best friend how you feel and what he is doing to you. If she can't take that as a hint then that is her problem not yours. Explain to her that you don't want to lose her as a friend but you don't want to keep getting hurt.
Good luck!
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I fell in love with my best friend but its impossible for anything to happen between us because he's gay. I can't stop thinking about him and i really need help.
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What you can do is tell him how you feel. before you tell him how you feel, make sure you can take it if he just wants to be friends. Remember, if you are really friends with him you will respect his feelings.
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I am having a sleepover next weekend and i was going to invite one of my best friends but she has been really mean to me.She has been telling me to shut up and to leave her alone.Should i invite her to my party or not be friends with her? (link)
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If your frined has been mean to you then you can ask her if she wants to come but tell her if she is going to be rude then dont bother to come.
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