So my bestfriend just got a new boyfriend. When they first started going out they really didn't talk much and now he is her whole life. Which means she has forgotten about everyone else including me. We used to hang out all the time but I've only hung out with her twice this summer and both times she has blown me off for her boyfriend. He also isn't very nice to her and will ignore her and stuff. So i just want a nice way to tell her that her friends matter too but I don't want her to get mad at me. So any advice helps. Thank you!
14/f
Hello :)
Basicly, one of my best friends did this to me, and it was NOT nice. I thought I had totally lost her because she was always with her boyfriend. But sooner or later she is gonna get her heart broken, don't ya think? And she will probably run straight back to you. This is what happened to me, it really wasn't good.
But the point is, you should just talk to her about it. Ring her one evening and just talk to her about what is bugging you because if she was your friend she would listen and do something about it so you felt much better. She will probably say, "Oh but (name here) and I are in love! There's nothing wrong" blah blah blah. But really, you need to STOP her from going on about him all the time and make her have time for YOU.
Ask her if she wants to hang out at the weekend or something, and get her to promise you so she wont bail. If you ditchs you, then you have that against her (if the worsest comes to worsest).
She will eventually need you when something goes wrong and her boyfriend isn't there or wont give her the time of day to listen. This is why you need to tell her everything that you feel. Just completely vent everything out.
My best friend and I fall out sometimes because the other one is so selfish and only talks about their problems, but eventually we both just vent it out and we are the best of friends. It really works, trust me. Just talk to her about everything that us bugging you, otherwise you are left empty. If she forgets about you, then she is simply not worth it.
Good Luck! :)
Ox'Jess
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My friend can get on my last nerves. Anything exciting I tell her s do she has to have something exciting all of a sudden too, she is also a pretty big liar.How do I solve this.
Hey there. I've been through this too, also with a friend. And yeah, it really DOES get annoying :/ But seriously, the way I got over it and solved the problem is to come out with that friend and tell them how you really feel about what they say/do. Because, you wouldn't want it to carry on, as you would get more irritated and eventually just snap at them which wouldn't be good.
What I did was to talk to them about it. After all, a friendshipcomes down to trust, right? So the easiest thing would be honest with them about the matter, and see how it goes. They wouldn't just not be your friend because of it because it's a problem you have and they should at least acknolege that and do something structural about it. Furthermore, they should be glad you were honest.
Good luck and I hope this helps! :)
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does anyone know a site with friendship poems poems like im sorry for hurting you friend or somthing like that and i need some secret admirer poems please anything is apreciated thanks
Check out google. It'll have loads of websites if you type in what your looking for. Just need to do some research. :) Google's the key. :D X
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I have a really good guy friend. I like him as more than a friend. He has a girlfriend. Me and him have been hanging out a lot, but the other day I was in a bad mood, and he didn't do anything wrong(actually, he was being amazingly sweet), but I guess I was stressed out about a lot of stuff, and I was tired of watching him be with another girl, so I said some mean things to him, and yet he was still nice, and then I got meaner. Then he kinda ignored me. Now we talked a little, and he says he's nit mad, but he's not talking to me much, and he doesn't seem to care about me like he did. I think he's still mad and I want to make it up to him. A friend thought New Years would be a good time for all of us to get together and have fun again.
I've been in this situation before and it's not nice. I told the guy how i really felt and that i couldn't live knowing that he had someone else other than me ( i know, stupid right?). But, i think you need to be good friends again for it to work (tell him how you feel), so just generally be nice, chatty etc. And i agree with your friend, DEFINATLY GET TOGETHER AND BECOME FRIENDS AGAIN AT NEW YEARS.
Hope i helped. :) x
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14/f
my boydfriends sister wants me & her to like bond tomorrow.(like go to the mall shopping)
But 2 of her friends are going with us.
i kinda dont like hanging out with them.
but i do want to hang out with his sister because she seems really cool.& i want to hang out with her more.
theyre all really skinny and i know this sounds wierd but i feel like im just going to break them whenever im near them.
should i cancel with her and tell her something came up? but then id have to tell my boyfriend. or should i go and just try to have a good time?
Thanks in advance.
Dear Future Sister Bonder,
I think you should go and see what they're like because you never know... they might turn out to be OK.
I also think that you should tell your sister how you feel about going shopping with them and tell her that you'd love to bond with you but it'll have to be the two of you. Mabe that could work. :)
If you have any more quieries such as what to do, feel free to inbox me when ever and i'll reply ASAP.
From, SuperDuperJess. x
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hey im 13/f and live in australia.i skate,i play guitar,im a tom-boy, i have a great sense of humer ,im fun and im looking for someone with the same intrests as me,male or female, to talk to on msn. i love meeting new people.even if u dont have the same intrests as me it would be great talking to some1 from another country.also if you live in australia and have the same intrests as me i wouldnt mind talking to you aswell.just leave your msn addy on the answer thing.
That sounds cool.
I'm 13/f.
But i live in England [UK] If that maters...
jessiica1013@hotmail.com
Thanks. *=]
~Jess. X
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16/f
so my 6 girlfriends and I have this notebook that we write note back and forth to eachother in, put quizzes from magazines in, cute quotes, ect.
do u guys have any ideas of cool stuff i could put in the book?
thanks!
I like that idea alot. I think that you could put pictures in and you could put some imbarrsing ones of people for your year at school and you could all comment them ect..
You could also put in some secrets mabe because it seems that your all very close to eachother with this book.
You could go on the internet and see what you could find. Like you could search some ideas and i'm sure taht there will be loads of websites with some ideas.
Good Luck. =]
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OK, so the other day my friend Megz and I were hangin out with these 2 guys, Paul and Dave. Well, Megz has pretty big boobs. She was wearing yellow. We heard Paul and Dave whisper to each other, "She looks like a banana.. a JUICY banana muahaha." I thought they were talkin bout her boobs, but Megz got upset cause she thought they were calling her fat. Which one is it?
It was Big Boobs i think.
My friend has got big boobs for her age and she used to get called Melony (melon) because melons and boobs... you know, so i think it is that, but she shouldn't get upset because there are 1 in 5 girls that have big boobs for there age.
jessiica1013@hotmail.com
jesshatcher@gmail.com
for any further questions.
[= SuperDuperJess =]
xx
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I am 29 yrs old. I dont have any friends.I have a wonderful boyfriend who is very outgoing and confident.Every now and then he says I need to make some friends. I cant. What do I do, call some girl up and say will you be my friend?? How cheesy. I go out with him where his friends hang out but no one engages conversation with me.They do for a minute then go. I am an attractive person that is not the problem. But how does someone who was abused as a child, not allowed to have friends, phonecalls or sleepovers, and a 10 year marriage where I was not allowed to work or have friends, change and get friendships. It seems so out of reach for me.Help!!!
Well, not everyone is an outgoing person. It isn't your fault, so don't worry about it, it is only probably because you were bought up differently. If you go to work and there are lots of people who you rougly know, it might be worth while to ask someone if they want to go out for a drink some time. It is probably best if you ask three people because then it isn't too biga group and it isn't a small one. When you go out for a drink you will find there will be a lot of convosations! So get your self into one of those, and there you go!! If you need more help, don't hesitate to ask!! Good Luck!
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