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my friend is really nice to me when she its just me and her but if she is with another friend she is such a butthead to me and i get mad at her all the time and stuff but then we havce a fun time or we talk o0n the phone and we r friends again like all my friends are friends with her so it sucks and now im mad at her again wut shuld i do ? (link)
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You should definitly talk to her about this directly. She can't be 2 different people, it gives an insecure feeling to people who THOUGHT they knew her. If she doesn't change, it doesn't look as if she really as good of a friend as u believe she is. She should be herself around everyone, not just sometimes she's nice, and others she's not. Tell her straight "you're acting a little weird" when u're alone. Just tell her wat u think, and if she really is a good friend, she'll understand and not give u a stupid answer like, "I don't want anyone knowing we're friends" that's gay and anything like it is also gay, and u should drop her from "friend status" right away! Tell me wat happens cuz I had fun answering this question :-D
*Mayya
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hi.. i'm really bummed, my friend was talking behind my back and i got the advice to talk to her, so i did . she told me she never said anything and so i beleived her... it was fine, then my other friend sends me this e-mail she sent her saying she did sy stuff behind my back and isn't sorry for it and she doesn't want to be friends because i don't show that i want to be either.. but can i help it if i've been busy all summer? anyways i just wish we could be friends back.. and real ones who don't talk behind eachothers backs... what should i do?
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Wishing doesn't do anything unless u find a shooting star.. Take it from me, it works :-) but in reality, right here and right now, no friend who talks about u behind ur back is, or ever will be a TRUE friend. U should just stop talking to the girl if she will get jealous like that and start saying things behind ur back. She should be saying it to ur face anyway if she has a problem. There are a lot of other people that can be wat better friends. However, if u insist on staying her friend, I think u should talk to her about it, say wat u have been hearing, and if she says no, tell her that u want the truth, or ur out, just as if ur boyfriend secretly cheated on u. Kinda wrong, but it's the same idea. Anyway, I think u can find waaaay better friends, but keep ur head up girl, and be urself, then nobody will have anything to talk about, except how great u r ;-)
I hope u make the right decision :-)
*Mayya
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My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.
Signed,
Very Scared! (link)
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Tell her exactly wat happened. She may be mad at u for reading her personal thoughts and feelings, but she'll get over it because anorexia can kill, and she'll be happy u saved her life. Atleast she should be. If not, just be happy with urself for helping a friend, it feels good even if they get upset because it always turns for the best in the end!
*Mayya
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hey i had already told my friend that i like him and he had liked me but he lost interest in me becuase i am insecure and he said theres a 50 50 chance of him liking me in the future i really like him and i want him to really like me agian and i was wondering what i can do for him to like me again i have been secure lately and i feel theres some other reason why he dont like me but he aint telling me it (link)
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Now I believe this fully that he is NOT worth ur time. U may think he is, but it's very childish and player--ish to say a 50/50 chance! What bull! However, if u REALLY think he is worth the hardship of changing, or working harder to catch his eye.. By all means, do go ahead and just show him ur true self all over again! Maybe he'll have decency and start to like u again, but I beg u NOT to let him hurt u.. I hope he doesn't again!
*Mayya
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hey i like my 2nd best friend hes also my best friends ex b/f should i like him or should i froget about him she says its ok but is she really ok with it (link)
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WOW! that's weird.. that same situation happened with me and one of my good friends.. but ur story was her's... Bad thing was.. She asked me and I lied.. even though she should have noticed that I still liked him.. grr.. anyway.. first of all.. it's an unwritten rule NOT to go out with ur friend's exes.. I stand by it. However, if u reeaally like this guy, and can't just move on, if ur friend says she doesn't, and she'll confirm it over and over, go for him! Maybe he's worth it ^_^
Tell me how things go!
*Mayya
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Me n my friend have been best friends for a few years now but then she met this girl and shes a really bad influence on her-drinking smoking and cutting herself. now me n my friend arent really best friends nemore and shes lost a lot of her friends because no1 really likes the other girl and she's really mean to me. My friend's been cutting herself fer about a year and i don't know what to do to get her to stop but she's going to start drinking too cuz she thinks it will help and she wont really listen to anyone. she told me she's turning into a person she never wanted to be-doing the things she does and ruining her life b4 she's even 13 but she still doesnt stop. theres a lot of crap going on in her life right now but still.. i dont know what to do anymore please help me! (link)
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Hmm.. VERYY familiar. She needs a councilor. I know u'll prolly be scared to tell an adult or ur school councilor, or even another friend that may be able to help.. you may think she'll get mad and start to hate you... but she can kill herself, or worse, lose every loving person she has. Don't let her do that to herself. She will end up thanking you. Trust me, it's happened to my best friend b4, but I'm sooo proud of u not backing down. Keep on being a good friend, and send me news on wat happened!
*Mayya
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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else? (link)
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Have u ever seen those movies were the nerds always turn out to be rich sexii millionaires? Well.. That barely ever happens.. However, if u truely like this guy, u wouldn't think twice about wat others would think of him, and just stand up for yourself. I think that you should give him a try.. and who knows? Maybe you'll find out what friends are really true.. and what people aren't worth impressing. Tell me what happens!!
*Mayya
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