my parents have to find a place for me to stay for thursday to saturday but the problem is my mom set me up at my bff's house but im mad at her and i think we are separating apart from each other cause i have new bffs but i dont no how to tell her i dont want to stay at her house because my bff is on the same bus as my other bff so she will no im staying at her house what do i do?????????
signed
Lonely
so wait.. let me get this straight.. your best friend will be mad if you hang out with your x-bestfriend..wow what a loser.. anyway.. I mean give your xbff a chance.. and tell the two that they are both your friends and you would really appreciate it if they tried to get along..
Sorry if this didnt help, but the question was really confusing..
-Christine
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I have so much going on in my life right now and i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to and i found out all the people i thought were my friends are just using me or are just jerk and my family is always fighting and my parents are divorced and i had to live up to all these high standardands and i cant get over this guy ahhhh i dont want to go back to my bad habits...drinking...drugs...cutting...any of that can you please help me
Just stay strong, life gets better :-).When I say stay strong, I mean don't go back to the bad habits, they wont get you anywhere. (Trust me, first hand experience here). You just need to find better friends thats all. ahh High standards arent fun to live up to, whoever is putting this pressure on you just tell them to back off and that you need some space for a little bit. Call a hotline if you dont want to bring it up, they are completely confidential. Your parents wont find out if you called one and they can actually really help you. Its like writing in a diary except you get a response back. Its also good knowing that the people on the other line are volunteers, they dont get paid, they are there because they care. If you dont know of one 1-800-SUICIDE is a 24 hours one..
Leave a message in my inbox if you want to talk to me over AIM or something.. I'm here for you
:-).
-Christine
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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help.
nice dark clothes..preferibly black, if not black, then either a dark blue or a gray..flowers, a card, a great big hug is what you should bring..just show your sympathy..
-Christine
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Okay well i have a friend and she makes me do EVERYTHING 4 her well at lunch like she will be like here is 50 cents go buy me a cookie and i do it! i dont want to but i do anyways. and i through her trash away 4 her and she pays me a dime and i dont want to do that either i just feel like i can tsay no and when i do i feel like she will be mad at me but whp cares right i cant do stuff 4 her right? well i dont know what do to please help!
Ask her to go with you.. this way you arent really saying no or yes.. this way she does the work herself with a friend by her side :-) ..she might be afraid of being infront of people, who knows..but if she doesnt agree to go with you..then just say no..and remain seated, she might need the exercise ;-)
-Christine
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i have this friend that talks about me to my best friend nd my best friend tells me everything she says..my friend isnt the nicest person and she really hurts me but im afraid to confront her wat should i do? thanx a bunch!
Well. its probaly jealousy if anything..i personally think any 'friend' who talks behind another 'friend's' back, then she's not much of a friend.. just confront her and ask what her problem is..talking is 9 times out of 10 the best thing to do..
-Christine
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Ever since my best friend started going out with this one guy, she has been starting to be mean to me like not talking to me durring school and stuff like that. She has also gone a lot of places with her boyfriend's friends (her new friends) and haven't even asked me to go.. I'm worried about loosing her as my friend becuase.. well.. we only have 6 girls in our class and to tell you the truth I don't like the other 4 girls in my class. Oh, and she has turned into a MAJOR slut! What do I do? What should I say when I talk to her??
Sorry It's so long
Well..you have to be there for her..because eventually they will break up..and all of a sudden her boyfriend and his friends will disappear..then she might realize the friends that have her back ;-)... and..hang out with her anyway..sleepovers,parties,movies, or pizza..just hang with her i guess..and talking is always good..
-Christine
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my friend has depression and shes not taking her pills and she doesnt realize it makes her worse. she thinks it makes her better. and we got into a fight and we are over it now but i dont want this to happen again. she thinks the pills dont help but they do!!! and i dont want to lose my temper and say "WELL IF YOU TOOK YOUR PILLS WE WOULDN'T BE IN THIS SITUATION!!!" because i know thats mean. but i dont want to just sit here either?
any advice?
Well..taking her pills probaly makes her feel 'different from everyone else..like she's a freak because she's on pills..' ..just talk to her about it..try making a compromise, like taking half of her prescription..like half a pill instead of a whole..i dont know..there is probaly a bigger reason then the fact that they dont work..just talk to her..
-Christine
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ok, i have this friend and i really am good friends with her..and then theres a guy i like and i finally got his sn and then she asked for it. i know this sounds really stupid. but i just dont want to give it to her.. i know that she doesnt like him but something is telling me not to..should i? *
dont give it to her..and claim that 'you arent at liberty to give out other people's screennames without permission'..or something like that..
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ok so i was best friends with my neighbor steve from first grade until about sixth when he moved to a different neighborhood. during his move and after, we kind of grew apart and now i want to ask him to this big dance my school is throwing in may and i want to be his friend again because he's moving back into my neighborhood. i never see him in school and we're both in the eighth grade. how can i start talking to him again and get to know him enough again by late in may? please help me!
This can be awkward. I know exactly where you're coming from..definitely a white one..and just talk to him in the halls..try to beat around the bush on how your getting him a flower, call him. I'm sure if you were neighbors your family and his family can hook up, and naturally you 2 being the same age would hang out together. Once you guys are good enough friends, everything will workout fine. Remember to just be yourself!
Good luck!
-Christine
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this is a little long but i hope someone will answer ok today in science i was writing a note back and froth with a girl then she said i was dared to ask you out and i said yeah sure why not now i dont know what to do becasue like this is the first time ive been asked out does everything like pan out or i just dont know how to deal with this situation. ITs confusing me so help it would be great
Claiming that it was a dare, is one of the more common excuses to ask someone out..if they dont really want to admit that they like you..I mean go for it..I mean hang out with her after school and she if she really has a thing for you..and find out if you have a thing for her..With the whole dare thing, she probaly wouldnmt say it in the note if there really was a dare..but be cautious, it might be a dare..
-Christine
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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?
shaiina
She sounds like a typical girl. Talk to her, tell her that it hurts,..if you want to do it the civilized way..but if you want to prove that your not fat without saying anything..let her try on your clothes..or go shopping with her..try something on, and if it fits..make her wear the same exact clothing in the same exact size just to prove a point..
-Christine
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My friend vanessa has a friend named alyssa. When i became vanessa's friend i knew right off the bat that i didt like alyssa. almost everyone i no hates alyassa. one day alyssa decided to get revenge on all the peeps. She stole over $200
from the our purse's that we left unattended in the girl's locker room. She must hnot have lioke me cause she stole $9 and a gift card from me. Everyone then totally hated alyssa. The only person alyssa had then and only had so far in middle school was vanessa. vanassa imed me om aim and told me that she didnt ewant to be alyssa's friend anymore but she was the only friend alyssa had. Me and vanessa want to get away from alyssa but not really hurting her feelings, wat should i do?
*JeNnA*
Well..talk to Vanessa..if her and Vanessa are 'friends' then maybe Vanessa knows about Alyssa's background. If she doesnt then they cant be that great of friends anyway.yeah, she stole $9 and a gift card, for all you know thats the only way she doesnt starve..you just dont know.or you might and didnt mention, go to your school guidance counselor talk to her/him about Alyssa. but if her life is pretty good, tell her she needs to get her act together if she wants friends.
-Christine
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What are some good revenge things for evil people?
Revenge just makes you reach the same level as the 'evil' person...its makes you and this person look bad..so why not just let it rest and make this person look bad all on his own?
idk.
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