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Friends
My friend vanessa has a friend named alyssa. When i became vanessa's friend i knew right off the bat that i didt like alyssa. almost everyone i no hates alyassa. one day alyssa decided to get revenge on all the peeps. She stole over $200
from the our purse's that we left unattended in the girl's locker room. She must hnot have lioke me cause she stole $9 and a gift card from me. Everyone then totally hated alyssa. The only person alyssa had then and only had so far in middle school was vanessa. vanassa imed me om aim and told me that she didnt ewant to be alyssa's friend anymore but she was the only friend alyssa had. Me and vanessa want to get away from alyssa but not really hurting her feelings, wat should i do?
*JeNnA*
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Well..talk to Vanessa..if her and Vanessa are 'friends' then maybe Vanessa knows about Alyssa's background. If she doesnt then they cant be that great of friends anyway.yeah, she stole $9 and a gift card, for all you know thats the only way she doesnt starve..you just dont know.or you might and didnt mention, go to your school guidance counselor talk to her/him about Alyssa. but if her life is pretty good, tell her she needs to get her act together if she wants friends.
-Christine
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i think that you should just have a talk with her.tell her how you feel and ask her why she did that bad stuff. when you met vanessa, why did you start not to like alyssa. maybe alyssa has problems with her self or her family that you don't know about. i think as time goes on , you might think that she is better than you think now.
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You can't break away from Alyssa without hurting her feelings. I'm sort of wondering why you didn't like Alyssa in the first place? Was it that she was annoying, obnoxious? If you have good morals you won't break off from her, she could do something serious if she gets mad enough. Talk to her about what she did and why she acts this way. Maybe it's a deep down problem at home that brings this stuff out in her. If she can't change, or at least be nicer, tell her that you really can't be her friend if she doesn't change. It made you mad that she stole from you, and that maybe she should give all of the things back she stole? Give her a second chance, though I don't advise it if she isn't willing to cooperate on any level.
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if this alyssa stole 200 dollors from you and your friends she must have had a tough relashanship with other friends and/or family i would still be her friend but,if she still does this off and on then i would try to talk to her and ask her stuff like why are you doing this? why do you not like me? and /or ect. i hope this advice will help you if not im very sorry
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