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Hey Im Sam!!A couple of my friends say that im good for giving advice and sometimes am motherly :\(JOE) which could be good in certain situations cuz im very responsible and try to make people feel good about themselves.So i figured id give this advice thing a shot. So if it turns out good you guys can ask me anything you want i wont reject anyones question i promise. AsK AwAy!!
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iok yesterday i went to my friends house and she told me there was a guy that looked like a guy that i used to like and had the name of my ex. so i wanted to see him.. nothin else. but then my friends cousin hooked us up and i dont even noe the guy i would have said no but her cousin told him i liked him. the problem is he is 20 and i am well 14.. he didnt care about the age but i have a clsoe guy friend that i like a lot we are planning to hook up we just have to find a way to see each other more. (he lives 15 min. away) and my friend is 15.. i want to give this guy a chance because he was all sweet to me but i think the only reason why he asked me out was 4 my looks. but we were taking pictures and he had his hands all over me and he didnt even noe me. here is what i would like to noe:
*should i give him a chance? if not how can i break it to him but still wanting to get to noe him better?
*should i tell my guy friend about this?
i want to tell my guy friend but he thinks i dont like him which isnt true i tell him i like all the time and he does the same to me..
thanks!
Well sorry but this guy sounds WRONG NO WAYYYYYY i think you should go for the 15 year old kid that you actually like. Plus this guy has no right to put his hands all over you, its wrong.Dont tell your other guy friend cuz knowing guys he will try to go beat him up, and probably lose (20 vs. 15 hmmmm)Try everything you got to tell him that you do like him.EVERYTHING. The guy friend sounds much better than the 20 year old, but thats my opinion. No matter what, folow your heart. Youll find the right answer somewhere. Well i hope i helped! Sammerz
I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!?
Hey i made cheerleading this year too!!hehe
Well i think you should just ignore this girl and dont bring anything up. If so try to keep your group people right near the Coach because she will evantually get caught. But DEFINETLY dont say anything cuz itll be your luck that you get caught saying something to her, and that wouldnt be good. Trust me, itll come back and bite her in the butt. ;-D Just give it time. I hope i helped!! Sammerz
look, theres this guy and i mean ive liked him a very long time and he really means a lot to me...i try to stop liking him because i know he messes around w/ these other girls that i dont like...that NO1 likes...but everytime im around him he puts me in this trap and like trys to find a way to hold my hand and stuff and its sweet...what does it mean? i mean we've discussed our liking each other b4 and he f'd things up last time so i told him to f off......but i know now that i really like him...again...and i dont know what to do...please help...
Well maybe you should give this kid a shot. I knows he done some bads things but oyu know people can change. But if he does anything again just leave him and tell him he lost his chance. I know youll be sad if that happens but HES A GUY i hate some of them cuz they treat girls like throw away cameras. You use them as much as you want until the picture are developed and they toss you out and move on to the next one. But dont worry about, there are other fish in the sea. Well i hope i helped. Let me know how things go!!Sammerz
im going to sleep over my friends house today..but the thing is i havent seen her in a yr and we were really friends b4 but weve been talking on the internet alot, the problem isnt lik im scared shes a creep its just that im scared it will be awkward! i can get really shy sometimes and the number 1 thing i hate is awkward silences!! is there any thing to do to make sure we'll both have fun???
p.s. i sweat alot too so is there anything i can do for that?
-awkward
Well i think you guys should try talking about something you both like(TV shows, movies, ice cream, anything)If anything gets awkward try to think of something you guys did a year ago. Its always fun to bring up old memories.Well i hope i helped!Sammerz
ps. the sweat thing...try new deodorant
i've been best friends with this girl since 6th grade. and we've always had good time together. but ever since march she's started to hang out w. different people and we've been talking a lot lessand sometimes i feel like i hate her. i'm in florida rite now and i didnt tell her that i was comming down here. and she's on AiiM alot and i havent talked to her...should i talk to her on AiiM? or shood i let her talk to me first?
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Well i think you need to let this girl know how you feel. If you guys are as close of friends as you say, she will understand. Sometimes at this age people feel like they need to do things and hang out with certain people in order to be cool, but they dont realize in doing that they are hurting the people around them who care about them. If you ever wanna talk for more advice or anything just IM me at Sammerz619. I hope i helped
It seems that now my friends are friends with this girl cait that im going to be left out. There all gunna be tight and im just..there. I think im the least outgoing one there and that makes me sad. Cait it just going to have fun with them and im going to be all left out and stuff. Cait changed and now its like she fits in so perfectly and i just cant. Im trying to fit it,be loud,nice,awesome..but im just a small girl. Befor i moved here i was outgoing,popular,nice,and cool. Now that i live here i changed and i wish i didnt. I REALLY wish i didnt change. I wish i never moved. And why? All because this one person is friends with my other friends now.
I missed out and im miserable. How can i get through this? I just want to be outgoing nice loud and cool again. I dont know why but not that Cait is friends with Taylor and Carry its like there going to be calling people,going to the movies,all this with out me..and i get sad. I think of Cait as a threat and i wish i didnt. How can i just not think about Cait as a threat? and How can i deal with this situation?
[[how do i become loud,outgoing,cool,and nice again?]] Please help.
Signed,
Miserable. :( :'(
...Well this kind of reminds me of something when i moved in 4th grade. At my old school i was like really fun,outgoing, and i had a lot of friends too. Just try to fit in and make more friends. I really think you might want to get to know this Cait girl. If your friends really care about you they would never leave you out no matter how many more friends they have. Just try to mkae yourself feel liek shes one of your friends and act the same around her as your would around anyone else. I hope i helped a little. If you want more advice you can IM me at Sammerz619
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