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My best friends obviously have other friends, but I get so jealous when they have a conversation and I'm not part of it! I get even more jealous when they hang out without me! I really don't want to feel this way but I can't help it! What should I do?
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You need to realize that your friends are gonna have people they associate with that you don't necessarily associate with. That's fine. But don't get all worked up about it because your friends like spending time with and talking to you, too. There's really nothing to be jealous about. But you can always talk to your friends about it.
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i love singing, dancing and acting! i love been on stage but every time i do the school production or tell people i go to a stage school on a weeken then they say that its typical and say that im a drama queen. one of my friends say that i learn to act so that i can lie and make up stories to get attention! i dont know where it comes from because im really quiet at school. i only open up on stage because i feel that its not me! am i o.t.t? what do i do to change their minds? (link)
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That's just stupid what your friend said but I can kind of see where they're coming from. Just explain to them how it really is. How acting helps you to open up. If they're your real friend, they won't continue to accuse you of what they have. If they ignore what you say or continue to make accusations, forget about it. You do what feels right and what you like to do because no one has any control over your hobbies and what you like to do but you. And maybe your parents lol but I don't see how they could have any problem with this.
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i have a guy friend that i am really close to we cant go out 1) bc of distance 2) bc he has a gf right now. anyways his gf is always a bitch to me. i think it is bc she jealous bc i am so close to him and that he cares about another girl(me) and she says shit that he will never do me and that i shouldnt be wastin my time and callin me a skank and trash.... and she says all of this to my best friend well she says shit when she doesnt even noe who the fuck i am and idk what do bc he is a great person and i dont wnat to lose him over s stupid bitch like her? (link)
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First off, you should talk to your friend about the way his girlfriend has been treating you. If you're that good friends with him, I'm sure he'll understand and won't get mad or anything like that.
Another thing you could do is talk to this girl and try and solve this problem and let her know that you aren't going to do anything to jeopardize their relationship and that she needs to relax(ah the joy of run-on sentences)
You need to convince her that you aren't going to get in the way of their relationship so that way she'll back off and stop being so mean to you. But then, keep in mind, she may not back off and then you should bring your boyfriend into it and ask him to try and get her to stop. Hope this helps.
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There are 16 people (all girls) who I'm getting valentines day gifts. What should I get them? Don't make it too expensive.
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You can never go wrong with lotions and body sprays in my book. Fruits, flowers, that kind of thing. As long as they wear that kind of stuff and they're not allergic to it then you're good to go. Purses, make-up, hair stuff or chocolate can all be good choices. It all depends on the preferences and styles of the people you're getting gifts for though. Flowers don't hurt, either.
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me and my best friend have been best friends for a long time and then all of a sudden an old friend of hers comes along and they r spending all this time together. she was supposed to go to florida with me for vacation but she went to her to grand isle instead. i even got her somethin while i was there. i feel like this gurl is takin my best friend away from me. im not gunna lie i am VERY jelous. what do i do? (link)
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Talk to your friend about the situation and explain to her that you feel like you're losing her. I'm sure she doesn't want that to happen. The best thing to do is to talk to her and get it off your chest.
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alright. my friend recently lied to me about losing her virginity. she told me a huge sob story and stuff, and how it was good. i don't know what to do. she lied to me. and she still wants me to be her friend. would you ever go back to being friends with someone after they lied to you about something as big as that?
P.S. we were BEST friends. (link)
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Ok, first of all, how do you know for sure that she was lying?
Second, talk to her about it. Tell her that you don't want your best friend to lie to you like that. Something that important is something that you shouldn't lie about. It's a serious thing and she shouldn't be lying about that kind of thing. How can you trust her if she's going to lie to you about important things like that? Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel about her lying to you. Especially about such a big issue as that.
I personally don't like being lied to but I still think that you should give her a chance.
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my friend atdance brags all the time. she say how good she is and shows off all the time. if i get complimented and she doesn't, she tells ME i'm a show off... what can i do to tell her to stop?? (link)
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Talk to her and tell her that she needs to stop trying to be a show off. The world doesn't revolve around her and she needs to let other people get the spotlight once in a while.
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