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ok lately I've been feeling more and mroe left out cause my friends all go out partying together and of course they always invite me (But my parents dont let me go) + i dont drink (which is obligatory if your out partyying where i live) and at first i just thought i didnt fit in, but last night when i went out with them for the first time (my parents were away) i noticed how close you get and how much more you like each other after one night of partying together.. what hsould i do? how do i get my parents who would dig my grave if the word party ever came out of my mouths to let me freaking party? and should i even do it? heeellp (link)
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Yeah I can see how you feel left out because it sucks being home on a friday night while all your friends are at parties that they will probably come to school talking about on a monday in 1st period class. But honestly if you wanna party; do it, its completly your decision an if you are really desperate to go partying just have friends cover for you. My parents would never let me party but all I would have to say is im stayin the night with my best friend my mom knows well an then she could tell her parents the same then you both have no curfew...But its up to you to try it thats my advice to you from what i've done just don't get caught with the wrong parties an your pretty much straight as long as you aren't drinking anyway cause alot of girls need alchoal to mingle an get along with people an talk to people but yeah thats my best advice hope I helped ;)
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15/Female
I guess I am really lonely/bored. I am "popular" and friends with a lot of different people but they always seem to be busy, working or on vacation.
I know I'm feeling desperate but I have been invited to some big parties but haven't gone since I don't feel like lying to my parents (even if I didn't drink or blaze I can't go home smelling like that). I'm afraid that I will get bored enough of sitting at home doing nothing that I will go to the party and get myself into a lot of trouble.
I guess I'm asking what I can do to meet new people if I can't sign up for camp halfway through summer, no sports teams are running, I can't get a ride anywhere to volunteer, I'm home alone all day so I basically can't get a ride anywhere and my parents don't want me to work yet.
I really just don't want to waste the summer being alone.. I spend enough time doing that (I'm an only child). What can I possibly do? I know every person in my grade in my highschool it seems hopeless.
Thanks. (link)
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Really I had the same problem but I did little stuff like sports outside in my backyard, arts and crafts, whatch movies, go outside and run, because if you stay fit on YOUR own then you are helping yourself alot because you can tryout for sports at school and hopefully meet you know people an then that next summer you can play sports together and you will have other people in your life besides the same friends you usually devote your time to!!
-StephAnie-
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I've been going thru a rough time with losing almost all of my best friends to drugs, sex, and alcohol these past few weeks. Losing them has been so terrible, we've just found the end to our 5 year friendship between the six of us.
I've developed several large cold sores with horrible swelling above my lip. I'm also getting a sty under my eye, and my eye twitches alot too. Big headaches and stomach aches are also becoming a problem. My doctor confirmed these are just stress problems with losing my friends, but what should I do? I honestly cannot name two friends I have right now, nor am I ready to start school again alone.
What should I do? Not having friends has also resulted in loss of appetite, me and these girls were just so tight, and now, we've changed so much, it hurts so bad to lose them. (link)
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Well it sounds like you got it pretty ruff girlie. I had the same problem you know until I got in the most amazing relationship ever! It was like everyone around me was changing like doing very negative things and I felt I was the only one doing positive things like not going to parties drinking, not having sex because my morals are TOO high and, not doing drugs because I know the effects they have on ppls body! Best thing you can do is be strong. I know it hurts but like believe me school is going to be ok. You will meet very outstanding welcoming people and everything will be fine. And then yall can relate your problems to one another. Believe me girl it will get better xoxo!!
-StephAnie-
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me and my husband are trying to have a baby...but my best friend of seven years called my mom behind my back and was telling her that she doesnt want me to get pregnant, and that she doesnt want us to be together and that when she gets home shes gonna do everything in her power to split us up...she even said she was gonna bring a bunch of guys around me and stuff to try and get me to leave him to go with these guys so...i told my husband about it and he got mad and said i shouldnt even talk to her anymore...so i wrote her a letter telling her how i felt...i told her that it was selfish for her to want to split us up when i am happy she should be happy for me so she called me and said that i was selfish because i didnt want to come to mississippi to see her and stuff and that was selfish of me so she evidently thinks its ok for her to do what she did because i couldnt just up and go to mississippi to see her...what should i do? (link)
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Hey,
Ok I honestly don't think she is your *friend* if she is going to go behind your back an do that. If that were me in your friend's position I would tell you how it would change things if you were to have a baby, So she probably thinks that if you have a baby you wouldnt care about yalls friendship an it would probably fade away because of something new in your life. So obviously your friend is probably more than likely jealous!! But I dont think this should ruin anything you should just talk to her an exsplain to her that it bothers you that she cant come to you with her problems, an let her know how much you love her an that nothing will change if you have a new love in your life.! Hope I helped somewhat!
-Stephanie
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ok... yea.. i have this friend that i like alot and he knows that i do adn i was told that he said that he dont like anyone at the moment but when ever we go out to lunch and stuff cuz z group of friends and me go out to lunch from school, he like sits next to me and it seems like he flirts with me and stuff.... adn i like him alot but i dont know if he likes me and i want to go out with him.. so what should i do??? by the way im 16 adn female (link)
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Hey,
The only way for your to let him know is to be straight up with him an honest to yourself an him about how you feel. And if you feel it is the right thing, an it might make your friendship grow somewhat, then don't be shy tell him!!
-Stephanie
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when i'm with a group of people, i get really shy and i never know what to say. when i'm around just a few people i'm really loud & outgoing. like tonight, after my soccer game we went out to dinner with the team. everyone was laughing and screaming, but i was really shy and not "hyper" as they called it. and those kids are my friends so it's not because i didnt know them. i tried speaking up and being outgoing, but the more i tried to like fit in, the shyer i got. it was so weird. but then again, in school the teachers all yell at me because i never shut up. how come i'm shy around certain people but REALLY loud others? oh, and don't say i don't feel comfortable around them because i do. and how do i step out of my shy zone and become outgoing (to the people i'm shy with.) what are some things to bring up in a conversation and stuff? i really dount know why im like this.
signed,
confused (link)
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Hey,
Well I used to have that same exact problem. But then I realized that noone can change your feelings but you. And even if your comfort level is at the point where you are comfort but you still feel shy, all you can do is deal with it because it come's naturally. Believe me it happens to me to, but like see I started having this problem when I had to leave all my middle school friends because I moved and it broke my heart. Now im only like really hyper around lil groups of ppl now big groups. I guess I just dont like all that attention from people. But its all good because I have my close friends im crazy n hyper around, but like my soccer team for school cuz I play varsity, I just made captain an that made me open up to everyone an made me just act crazy an have no doubts about the way I would be acting! But some girls have different maturity level's an you might be more matured then them!! Cause that is what my mom says about me!
-Stephanie-
*Hope I helped*
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my friends and i can never think of things to do on the weekends. seeing movies is alright, but once youve seen the one or two good ones its pointless to go again, and the same goes for shopping i mean you can only go so many times and not see the same things and run out of money. what are some things that a bunch of 14 and 15 year old girls can do? (link)
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Hey!
In my own opinion some thing's I would enjoy doing when I was that age was...
-Go Four Wheeling
-Play Flashlight tag at night
-Go to a fun party
-Have a get together at your house
-Do each other's makeup an wear crazy clothes and go out to eat at mcdonalds!
-Go bike riding
-Make a cd, then Go wash your parents car...((brownie points))!
-Go Swimming
-Take pictures
-Make cute posters to put in each other's rooms, or get like a big like umm thumb tack board you know an like make a collage of pictures...
-Go tan out back of your house
-Go the the gas station get bubbalicious and eat one big pack each person an prank call people!
I tryed lol..Couldn't member all of my past memories but there is some!!
-Stephanie
*hope i helped*
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Ok so i got this friend i have known for like 4 years now. I been on messenger talking to her mom alot. Her and her mom are always arguing. Then her mom says she thinks that my friend is cutting herself in the bathroom and all this. Then her mom said that she has caught her doing some thing on the webcam. And then her mom says she is talking bout moving with this 21 year old she met over the internet bout a month or so ago. And she hasnt had time to really get to know this person. What is something i can do or say to her that will help her cause i am getting really concerned as far as her and i am not one to get concerned hardly but i am real concerned as far as her. (link)
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Hey Sweetie,
I think it isn't your position to get invovled in a mother daughter situation.
I think it is her moms responsibilty to control where and when her daughter get's on the computer and what kind of access she has. And if she can't control that then I don't feel it has anything to do with you.
And how would your friend feel like if she found out her mom was telling you this kind of stuff. It's like you don't know whether to believe it or not, or if you should ask or not. Either way someone will be hated either her mom or you, in my opinion but honestly I don't know.
All I know is it is very dangerous to meet someone online, an if her mom is that freaked out they can catch the guy or w/e if it's that serious.
But I have a friend who's sister was killed by someone over an internet relationship. And believe me it is scary so, just leave it up to her mom, an exsplain to her mom that she should talk to he daughter about it!
*Hope I helped*
-Stephanie-
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recently my friend had a bonfire with about 17 ppl. and we were all drinking. her dad knew about it though. well the cops came and her dad got a ticket for minors in possession of alcohol. is there an estimate on how much it will be for the ticket? (link)
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Hey, I know someone who has been in this same predicamen and this is what happened with the whole M.I.P situation plus, she had to do like community service and stuff. But anywho....
Possession of Alcohol by a Minor is now $400.00 for the first offense, $600.00 for the second offense, and a Class B misdemeanor for the third offense.
A driver's license can be suspended for 30 days on the first MIP. Driving with a Suspended DL is a Class B misdemeanor with further loss of driver’s license.
-Stephanie-
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