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Q: i rely like my friend but i dont know if he rely rely likes me
Ask him. =] Or ask a friend to ask him so that it's more comfortable i guess.
-Marissa

Q: Ok, so i got in this ridiculous fight with my friend in the beg. of school, right? And we havent really talked...at all since then. And i REALLY regret everything i said because i was just mad with other things and took it out on her. and now she might move to like..illinois or something..something with potatoes...and i want to become friends with her again but she ignores me.
Do you think i should try to become friends with her or just be "nice" even if she kinda, sorta doesnt like me at all? Thanksssss ....

PS- Do you know when they're actually going to show a new Hannah Montana? Seriously. I am in love with that show and they keep showing re-runs every friday night. RAWR. Thanks again!!
hey if you really want to be friends with her again why not give it a shot? Tell her you were really angry and stuff from other things and that you didnt mean anything you said. If she still ignores you well, at least you tried right? Sometimes we all say things we don't mean so it's not anything new. Just say you're sorry, and hope she listens! =]

-Marissa

Q: Holy Cow, this isn't really a question, like, at all, but like, you remind me SOOOOOOOO much of myself! Like, I LOVE DISNEYCHANNEL, I watch it more than any other channel, and like, Hannah Montana is my FAVORITE SHOW, and holy cow, Miley Cyrus is MY ROLE MODEL TOO!Holy Cow , my friends make fun of me for watching disneychannel! They expecially make fun of me for Miley Cyrus being my role model!Holy Cow ! your like my twin! hahaha! YOU ROCK! Also, do you think Dylan/Cole Sprouse is hot? One of my best friends, Taylor is obsessed with Cole, and I'm obsessed with Dylan!Holy Cow, please write back, you can email me if you want to, my email address is
playboy_bunny3113@yahoo.com
hey wow! we have lots in common! I have like downloaded all of the Hannah Montana Episodes onto my computer lol. I love it to death. Hmmm. I love Miley Cyrus she is such a good actress and has such an amazing voice. YES, i think dylan and cole are veryyyyyyyyyy hot! My friend and I love hannah montana and miley cyrus and we also love Rachel Mcadams. They are both amazing. I watch disneychannel Soooo much lol.

♥ Marissa xox

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okay well the other day my best friend whitney was talking to my other best friend jael on the fone...im closser to whitney but like them both. and jael told whitney that one of my friends was talking about me behind my back saying i was annyoing and stuff. of course being a good friend whitney told me..i wanted to know who it was so i confronted jael...we got into this huge argument cuz she woiuldnt tell me who was talking about me. i told her that it was bad that the person was talkin about me but it was worse knowing that she was letting it happen. she told me that shes just keeping her word to the other person but its really bothering me....please help!
xoXO
If somethings hurting you she should definetly spill. Ask her if keeping her promise to the girl is worth making you suffer. It's one thing to know that someone is talking about one of your friends behind their backs and another when you know who it is and won't tell them. That's just mean and RUDE. I definetly would try to keep getting it out of her. If she's a good, true friend she should tell you. Well, if you have any more questions visit my column!

♥ Marissa xox

Q: I have a friend she does nothing but drag me down and talk about my other friends. How do I tell her I don't won't to be her friend anymore?
If you don't feel comfortable around someone (ESPECIALLY A FRIEND) then you should just not hang out with her anymore. If you said something she might say something nasty to you so just don't say anything hun :)

♥ Marissa

Q: im 13/f
--my friend like is so cofindent when shes talkin to boys and when i find out guys like her i get jeolous i try to hide it but its not easy
--and when im around boys i dont talk that much
plz tell me how i can talk to guys without like bein shy and help me with my friend
It's very normal to get shy. You just need to act like they are your closest friends. Like if you just go up to a guy you shouldn't care what anybody else thinks. You know that saying, "Why go through life unnoticed?" Who knows? You may make new friends and maybe even a b/f :)
goodluck. If you need any help visit my column!


Q: Ok well my bestfriend, she was like my bestfriend ever & like now I just feel like shes replacing me with one of her other friends. cause she used to be like a sister to me and now like we barley talk & i tried to talk to her about it & ask her if she was trying to replace me and she even said i dont know. it really hurts and i was like crying for a while trying to think everything over & i just dont know what to do cause i love her shes like my sister & i deffently dont wanna stop being friends with her. I dont know what to do to make her understand cause talking to her wont work? any other sugjestions? =/
maybe she is nicely letting you know that she doesn't want to be "REALLY tight" anymore. I mean being her friend was way cool but maybe she's moved on. Im not trying to be mean but I'm just giving you the brutal honest truth. You should ask her if she wants to stay friends but not bestiies. If she says yes start finding other friends. Sometimes these things happen for a reason. Maybe somebody out there needs a good friend and that could be you. So if she's decided to move on there's no need to cry about it. Yes, it's sad but you should move on too. Find another best friend. I'm not saying you should completely replace her. You guys should still try to hang out or talk online. But make other friends. :) Hope you find lots of friends!


Q: i have a friend who has scary dreams..really scary dreams and he told me about one that one of his close family member got cut and the next day found a cut on her arm.hes really getting scared and doesnt want to tell anyone else about this ive told him to tell a parent but hes only told me.and i dont kno how to help him ive told him all i kno about telling somone who can help but he doesnt want to.
any ideas
This could be a special talent. He shouldn't hide it. I don't really believe in psychics (however you spell that!) but you never know. He could be but just in dreams. So if something really bad happens in a dream to someone he knows or loves he should definetly tell someone! You should keep trying to get him to tell. You're being a good friend :)


Q: ok well i was talking to my friend on aim last night and well first i was like are you mad at me shes like no i was like oh ok then shes like why and i said well you haven't taalked to me in almost 3 weeks then shes like oh well i was at my dads and i know she wasn't at her dads that long but anyways i was like ok at shes like were you mad at me and so i told her wh6y i was mad and stufff and i'm mad cuz her and her boyfriend i know hang out almost everyday and talk on the phone half the day and i get to see or hang out with her maybe every 2 weeks so her boyfriend hates me because they broke up awhile ago but their back together and her thinks i broke them up so he won't hang out with me. she basically told me that since he hates me and i hate him back because he hates me she won't be my friend anymore i am being unreasonable tht i want to spend maybe once a week or at least talk to her once a week with her??Should i try to be her friend??
thanks in advance.sorry this is long.
i just don't want to spend my birthday all sad over her.
Happy Birthday!

Q: Alright, im stumped as to what to do for my birthday which is in like 3 days..im having about 8+ people over between the ages of 13-16. Please if you can help in any way, that would be great.

Thanks,
Racquel.
Play some music & have a theme. watch movies. Play games like twister. Umm if you have a pool have a pool party with a tropical theme. If it's just girls have a spa theme. If you need any more help ddrop by my advice column


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MARISSAX33
Hey my name is Marissa. You can ask me basically anything. If you need help i'll do my best to answer. (Maybe not electronic type questions but fashion,gf/bf stuff,friends,crushes,and much much more. If you ask me something I give the honest truth(sorry if it hurts but thats just how I am). I decided to make a column because i just love helping people and i love it when I get good comments saying THANKYOUSOMUCH! ♥ you guys make my day when you leave me good feedback! :)
I love music and drama they are my life! And I know some people might think it's weird but I love disneychannel shows and don't care what they think. Miley Cyrus is my role model. I love lots of other T.V. Shows and movies that are awesome too. I also love hearts. I'm addicted! Beads are cool too. I love shopping with a passion. If somethings cute I'll buy it I honestly don't care where it's from.

Thanks for stopping by my advice column!
♥♥ marissaaaa xox

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