ok well i was talking to my friend on aim last night and well first i was like are you mad at me shes like no i was like oh ok then shes like why and i said well you haven't taalked to me in almost 3 weeks then shes like oh well i was at my dads and i know she wasn't at her dads that long but anyways i was like ok at shes like were you mad at me and so i told her wh6y i was mad and stufff and i'm mad cuz her and her boyfriend i know hang out almost everyday and talk on the phone half the day and i get to see or hang out with her maybe every 2 weeks so her boyfriend hates me because they broke up awhile ago but their back together and her thinks i broke them up so he won't hang out with me. she basically told me that since he hates me and i hate him back because he hates me she won't be my friend anymore i am being unreasonable tht i want to spend maybe once a week or at least talk to her once a week with her??Should i try to be her friend??
thanks in advance.sorry this is long.
i just don't want to spend my birthday all sad over her.
Also, you know what you should do. You should tell your friend that you would like to keep your friendship. Boys may come and go but friends are always there "wink,wink" haha. But really you should tell your friend to tell her bf that if he truly loves her he'll be nice to her friends or at least try to be. So you guys (all 3 of you) should get together sometime and whaddayahknow you might become friends with this dude (WHAT?!? it may happen)! lol. But seriously try this and see if it works out. If you need more advice visit my column :)
StarryNightSkies answered Friday July 28 2006, 2:35 pm: Happy birthday in advance!!!
Okay well i think you should talk to her tell her that you don't want to lose her as a friend because of her boyfriends... and remind her that boyfriends don't always last forever but you will always be there for her...you should also try and plan a day of the week where its just girls night, you two could go shopping, rent movies, and spend the night over each others house... alter it each week.
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