My best friend in the WHOLE world told me that she is going to privite school next year. Today was the last day of school and she's leaving for 8 weeks of sleepaway camp TOMORROW!! I know I will see her after camp but I just have this feeling we'll get torn apart during the school year. I'm really scared to walk the halls of my school without her!! Help me get over this emptiness im starting to feel!
Well try and find a new bestfriend.. I know it will be hard for you but it will be ok. Just make like a plan you call her everyday for this week then the next week she will call you every day the next week or something like that.. You get it?! Well yeah I have went through this problem before but other than just moving to a new school I moved to a whole nother' state.. And I don't want to worry you but me and her aren't friends anymore nor are me and him. But don't worry it will most likely work out for you if you make a plan of some sort.. Well hope I helped :)! Good luck..
Cyaz,
Shann
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OMG! I don't have any friends anymore all the guys at my school hate me and my "friends" don't even talk to me. No one talks to me. and no i'm not a "loser". I had "friends" but they keep discludeing me! HELP?!
You'll be fine.. Everybody hated me at one point and everything was just going down for me! But yeah everybody got over it and it was all good. Don't worry and don't make a big deal out of it just leave the people alone for a while and they will come back to you! Hope I helped!!
Cyaz,
Shann :)
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ok.i have this friend and there was a party one weekend.of course,I partied it up. But there were guys that i did stuff with. I didnt tell anyone BUT my friend. I requested that she not tell anyone about it.Then she told me the guys and 1 of my friends hated me because of a cake fight.I later found out that none of them said that. I got mad at her so she decided to tell EVERYONE about me night. When I first confronted her,she denied it. But when I asked her again she took the blame.She told me she did it because i was mad at her.I dont think I should forgive her.Can anyone help me?
Signed,
Angry Friend
No! I wouldn't forgive her. I mean my friends when they say they won't tell anyone no matter if we aren't friends or we are madd at each other they wouldn't say anything! She's no affense but she's a bitch. I would not forgive her. Just reading that made me madd (lol). But yeah that's just my opinion I wouldn't forgive her. It's really up to you. Hope I Helped! Good Luck! :) If you need more advice just ask me.
Shann
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my friend and i both like the asme guy (my ex bf) and i know i could get him but she'd be devastated.. but i really miss him and i want to be with him but i dont want her to be hurt.. :-/ advice would be nice
Well, Okay ask yourself this would you wanna* lose a friendship over a guy? Or would you rather have the guy and not a friend. This is a *Quote* that I kinda* think is true. But here it is>> Boyyfriends/Girlfriends come and go. But only friends stay by you till* the end. Just ask yourself what you want most. A friend and just be friends with your Ex Or a boyyfriend and lose a friend? Hope I Helped You Out With That! :) Good Luck! If you want more advice just ask me I most likely will be able to give you some more. :)
Shann
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13/f. I have this friend. We've been friends for two years already. Well, he's nice a lot. We make jokes and all. But other times he makes me upset. He talks badly about my friends. He also always comments on my profile on AIM. He tells me somehow how I'm wrong in what I put, or how it's dumb. He promises time and time again to keep my crushes a secret, but tells them anyway. Half of our grade finds out and soon enough I'm a laughing stock. I no longer tell him but sometimes when he's nice I do it anyway. In person he's got a really great personality. We used to date in 6th grade and he was the sweetest guy. When we broke up he talked about all the things I didn't do perfectly when we were going out. He makes me upset basically just online. So what do I do?
Personally, I would just stop talking to him online for good. Because I'm sure that you shouldn't be treated that way. Hell! No one should. Maybe you should just start ignoring him in person as well see if he does anything because that sounds to me that he can't say it to your face he has to say it online and bullshit like that because he knows its not true and/or is to (don't want to say pussy) but pussy (lol) to talk shit to your face. Don't take it from him no more. But be nice. Just talk to him about that and how you feel about it all. He should listen if he really is your *Friend* if he doesn't listen and won't stop then just forget him (until he finally wants to listen). If you need more advice ask me I'm sure I could give you some more advice or even better! :) Good Luck. Hope I Helped You In Some Way.
Shannon
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hey I need help. I'm 13 and my friend likes this guy I like and we were best buds now I hate her. She thinks she should be the only one to have a boyfriend and she thinks i'm to shy to talk to him. HELP!!! ps i'm a girl LOL
Well, prove her wrong. By talking to this guy. No affense but your friends a bitch for saying that. Just try to win the guy over but don't be mean. Don't stoop down to her level. That's all the advice I can possibly give you. If you need more advice then just ask me. I will mostly likely be able to help you. Good Luck!!! :)
Shannon
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I recently ran into a guy who I have known since we were little kids.It's been a long time since we've seen each other,and I always had a crush on him when we were young,and I didn't wanna let myself feel it again but when we ran into each other it brought back all those feelings.Anyway,my BFF,tho I love her,she...well,sleeps around a lot,and she right away started saying how hot this guy is and how much she wanted to *get* with him.I asked her to please not do anything with him because I do still like him,and it would hurt my feelings a lot.She said she can't guarantee that she couldn't do it,and that she's "taking a chance" with him.Basically,she's gonna go 4 it anyway.She says he told her he couldn't date me because it's me(meaning we go back so far as friends and our families were real tight).And she tells me he asked if it was ok if he called HER sometime.But when we were all hangin together he was acting interested in me and seemed...less than amused or interested by her.It's breaking my heart that she's gonna do this.The thought of them together makes me sick to my stomach.I've had nightmares,been unable to sit still,felt sick to my stomach,all because I'm so upset over this.But she says she basically doesn't care,and that she's not gonna fight and I can "take it how I want".What should I do? Even the mere idea that he would be into her is mind boggling to me,and especially cuz he really wasn't all actin like that,he kept huggin me and talkin about old times,and he even talked to my mom on the phone for God's sake!And the idea that he would ever be into her makes me feel sick.I cried all night last night and all morning this morning. HELP!!Thanks,I'll rate ya!
Well, ok if this guy doesn't want to go out with you because he always known you as family and just nothing more than a friend or best friend then I would agree with him and just get over him and find someone new like they say *there's more than one out there*! :) But if your friend says she can't garauntee that she won't hurt your feelings then that's not a true friend either becuase 1) I would ~Never~ do that to one of my friends nor would they do that to me 2) You deserve to be treated better most likely because you sound sweet and all. But you do need to get over him because first of all if you and your friend and him are hanging out and he *Finally* notices you that means that he needs someone there to show off that he can get you. That's my advice to you. Talk to your friend once more and if she don't listen screw her *Not litterally* haha but yeah and get over that guy. Becuase if he really cared or had feelings for you then he wouldn't be all up in your bestfriends shit ya know? Well hope i helped good luck :)!!
Shannon
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OKay my 2 friends and i are in a fight because it all began when they started taking drugs, smoking, and drinking! i felt uncomfortable so i left them alone and i kind of ignore them too! so anyway today my other friend tells me to come sit at the same table as them i did! well they didn't give me the time of day! last i heard one of them is smoking weed afterschool and it all started with these girls they have been hanging out with! What should i do? My other friend is determined to get us to be friends again! I 've already tried talking to the 2 of them but they won't listen! What should I do? I rate!!
Well, you should tell those 2 *friends* of yours how you feel about it that you don't like them hurting themselves like that (once more). And if they don't listen to you (again) and do it anyway then they really don't care so that means they aren't really your friends. Just talk to them as soon as you can and be very persuasive before someone *~*Quote*~* Really Gets Hurt!! I have seen ppl* in the hospital for overdosing themselves on drugs. It wasn't a pretty sight. So just go along with it and do what your heart tells you to do. Remember if they don't listen they truley were never your friends... Hope I have helped you a lil* Good luck with that!!
Shannon
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I have this friend who can get on my nerves so much because she just tries to control everyone! well many people i know complain about her and it is so annoying. she is always in my face like am i your best friend and i made you a picture but im not gonne give it to you and do u hate me, and AHHH ITS IS SO ANNOYING!!! i like want to scream my head off when im around her and answer all her questions "truthfully" and AHHH!!!!!! but i cant because she like gets my friends mad at me and why do i care? AHHH WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
Well, you need to tell her to stop. Like to let her know that she's not controlling you. If you don't tell her soon about how you feel it will get worse so I would just say something now and help yourself in the near future.. Its always good to go with what your heart tells you too. Good luck with that :) Shan
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ok to understand my question here is what happened before...Sorry it is long!!!
my friend kristina is dating this guy named richard. Well they dated for about 1 year before breaking up because he is constantly a jerk to her. He was possesive and always jealous. When she would talk to her friends while talking to him he would flip out and he would flip out if she talked to other guys. Well, many times before she wanted to break up with him but he would always say he loved her so much and that he would change but he never did. Even her parents hated himZ Well, right before school started he wanted to get back together with her. (**Me and Kristina talked every day**)She wasnt sure if she should because of how he used to treat her. I kept telling her not to because she would only get hurt again. Well, she is dating him now and she totally changed. SHe never talks to me or her best friend Kayliee anymore. We both said that if she keeps this up that when she needs we might not be there anymore. What can I do to make her see what is going on and that he is a jerk without hurting her feelings or anything.
Well, you have to say what you have to say. Don't worry about hurting her feelings because later on she will understand and thank you. Just say what you feel and she might listen if she doesn't she will learn from the mistake or just live with it. But eventually she should come around and thank you. Good luck with that though.
Shannon
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