A little bit about me...
*Name Stephanie Njunuri
*Age 17
*Height 5'4
*Hair brownish blonde
*Eyes drk brwn
*Location H-Town
*Stats SINGLE!!! all the way baby!!!!
*SCREEN NAME QtWitABooty00721... if someone is on a different sn other than QtWitABooty00721 pretending to be me... then YOUR NOT TALKING TO STEPHANIE NJUNURI your talking to an IMPOSTER!!
I belive lyf is only wut u MaKe of it, so love lyf cuz it dont last 4 eva
~When U Have A Problem KiSsEs Can Solve Em~
Gender: Female
Location: Houston Tx
Age: 18
AIM: QtWitABooty00721
Member Since: June 24, 2004
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Last Update: December 16, 2004
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ok well im in junior high and i hang out with these 3 popular girls...and one of them is calling me ugly and a slut and a bitch and a ass hole and crap like that...i think shes jealous of me but she says shes not!! ive tried to be the lil angel just so i could stay friends with her b\c their like the group i hang out with...and were rele popular...she says i am full of myself and im not!! omg she calls me a slut just b\c ive gone out with alot of guys!? soo what? i mean she says everybody thinks im mean and nobody likes me and crap like that and like everytime she gets mad at me she starts all these rumors about me..ughh i dont know what to do.. i rele need some help i feel like shes gonna get the whole scholl saying something bad about me.. i mean i wanna stay cool but she calls me a slut and tells everybody i get on her sn!! omggg and its all not true but nobody ever beleievs me they beleieve her..ughh im soo depressed.. Everytime she gets mad at me..all my other friends do for some reason? ugh im so hurt and shes constantly saying shit about me!!!! But she calls me a slut and a hoe and says im so full of myself when she juss got done telling me she thinks shes sooo hot and popular..ugh thats sounds like shes a lil full of herself..w\e i just hope everything works out for me and my friends...=( i need alot of help!!! plzz....thanks...*sad ashlee*=( (link)
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This girl isn't REALLY a TRUE friend, if she was then wouldn't treat you like that and put you through sh*t you shouldn't have to go through! I think you should tell her how you feel and if she keeps acting like that then whoop her a$s! Friends are there for each other and obviously shses not a freind. Don't base your friendship on popularity because its not everything. Rumors come and go.....trusst me i KNOW!!! eventually people will see the real you and realize she just another "Regina" of Mean Girls!
Love Stephanie
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my friend and I are having problems rite now how do i get her to sit down and talk to me. (link)
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Don't try to pressure your friend to talk to you, give your friend some time and eventually she'll come around. All friendships have their ups-n-downs
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what do u do when ur "supposed" to be friend lies and betrays you. How should I confront her? (link)
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Everybody lies, stretches the truth truth, or exaggerates.....but REAL friends wouldn't betray you. Go to your friend and tell her how you feel just try to work things out cuz loosing a friend isn't worth it.
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Like 5 of my best friends are cheerleaders..and they talk about cheerleading 24/7..and i feel left out alot of the time. How can i feel not left out? (link)
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Well ima cheerleader and im pretty sure i talk about it alot too...but i'd suggest that you talk about your hobbies and yall compare or just start a new conversation!
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I am so confused. I really want to be freinds with this girl. We used to be really great friends and we also used to sneak around town all the time. We would say we were going to the pool and really go to her boyfriends or my sorta boyfriends. See I really dont know now because ever since my sorta boyfriend went to Indiana we havent had time to talk to each other or hang out. My sorta boyfriend is back and we havebt talked or seen each other in a while. Sometimes I just think that my friend just used me to see my sorta boyfriend. I dont know what do you think? Do you think we are still friends and what should I do about it? (link)
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don't just end your relationship because you THINK your not friends, go up to her and ask her then base your decision on her reaction.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I ask you earlier about a friend of mines... she went out with my ex-boyfreind ( didn't have a serious relationship but it still made me mad.) But we stopped talking a while back....remember*
and now she has been tryin to talk to me, but i dont want to talk to her and im really scared to tell her.
P.S she even bought me something for my birthday!
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o ya i remember! well it seems like your friend is trying to make an effort of getting your freindship back. give her another chance because people make mistakes....although hers was pretty big! what happens in the past stays in the past. just keep in mind that she hurt u.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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hey i have a friend who is sooooooo obsessed with her boyfriend and she is on the phone with him all the time and it gets sooo annoying but i love her too much to tell her that! and like what should i say to her and plus he is pretty ugly!! ick he is gross!
signed-
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as much as it might annoy you, that really isn't your place to tell her that. Just let her relationship continue and after a while she'll realize it. it really shouldn't matter what he looks like as long as he treats her right.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore! (link)
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I think you should tell your friend how you feel again, but this time let her knoe your serious. I've been in a situation like that but you really just have to realize that as you grow older you grow apart. It's not anything that you really wanna admitt to...but it happens! You still have all the memories to last a lifetime! just try and make new friends
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I had a friend, Trey Davis, well he died because he was chasing after his dog and a car hit and killed him. I wanna see how he's doing, and I wanna tell him how I'm doing. Sometimes I feel like he's with me, gaurding me. But at other times, I feel sooo alone. I wanna know if you can help me out plz!
.::Chelsea::. (link)
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Your Gone But Your Here
You've left me precious memories, your love will be my guide.
You live on through our friendship, you're always by my side.
It broke my hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone.
For part of my went with you on the day God called you home.
Your friend is gone but hes with you in spirit...i hope you like the poem!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
^Stephanie^
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well me and my friend are over..and i was j/w if anyone knew any quotes about friendship being over..thanks. (link)
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Friends
A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift,
A friend is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place.
Foot Prints
Many people will walk in
and out of your life,
but only true friends will leave
footprints in your heart.
Rare
A friend is like a four leaf clover,
hard to find but lucky to have.
Help
Parents start you off on life
but friends get you through it.*one of my fav's*
*the best of freinds fight*
*true friends last forever*
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it use to be me my friend jamie 'nd my friend kaleigh 'nd cera.. all 4 of us.. now we split up and kaleigh 'nd jamie are best friends and me and cera are best friends. they found someone else (who i am also friends wit) an me an cera have someone new too (amber- but we been tight wit her for a while!) But see kaleigh - jamie - dont like amber cause they aint all friends.. so i guess that could b part of the problem . but here goes the main problem to the situation. I miss kaleigh an jamie.. i dont know if i might b jealous that i was always there for them and it seems like they pushed me away for each other.. but i get sad sometimes cause they always are together granted im always wit cera and amber an they get mad (they tell me!) but i miss them i guess.. and heres the other probelm - kaeigh ad jamie have always talked shit about each other behind teach othrs back and i was always the girl to never tell and b there for both but yet they end up leavin me? wut the hell is that shit?.. god i dunno. (link)
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Well the best of friends fight, tell them whats up and let them knoe how u feel. But you really can't b too mad cuz you n cera didnt make the situation any better by addin Amber to the group. If things dont work ou tbetween yall...you still have meories and thats the BEST part!
~*~KiSsEs!*!
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my best friend is a year younger tahn me in school...so sometimes it feels like i dont have any one to talk to that is my age. I have many friends that are inthe same grade as me...but they arent my best friend...so help plz! (link)
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Well you can have more than one best friend so just try and get closer to some of you freinds so yall can become best friends.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Me and my OLD bestfriend had been split up when we went to highschool...but we still talked. but after she started going with this boi she REALLY fell off! i mean she made her life revolve around him. She also use to throw their relationship in my face and i think she was trying to make me jealous! but we stopped talking for like 4 months then she called me for my birthday and we went out 2 nights in a row. should i forgive and forget or move on?!
p.s. i guess you could say im jealous of her relationship, so sometimes i dont feel comfortable around her. (link)
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This boy must be important to her and she just got miss guided on your freindship. You should try and attempt to be happy for her cause he obviously means alot to her! She seems to think you need to be apart of her life otherwise she wouldn't be trying to hang out with you. Maybe she was not trying to brag but got carried away with her happiness and it went to another level. But if she was bragging then tell her how you feel. being jealous is normall. But if your friendship doesn't show progress then let her go because you shouldn't get caught up on one person whos not trying. Don't reminicse on the past. Their are plenty of freinds out there for you to make. If yall were not talking for 4 months then thats not a REAL friendship!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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How come one best friend can like another best friend more than one you have known longer?
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Friendship isn't about how long you have know each other, its about how strong the bond between two people are. You and one person may have more in common or get along better then you and the other person
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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What would u do if U had a b/f or g/f Break up with u ??? me well I have too boys on my mind how do I get themn out??!!!! Jenipher (link)
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Just be more active and keep yourself busy because thinkin bout boys constantly can make you go boy crazy! but there's not really a way to keep someone from breaking up with u. I guess u should just really try not to hurt their feelings by cheatin, and other crap dat might make them feel shity! *HOpe i helped*
~KiSsEs~
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my friend steals small things like keychains and stuff and i dont really care but she stole from me twice! i dont kno wat 2 do i dont wanna confront her cuz its been a while and i dont want her 2 get mad at me cuz she is a really good friend except for the stealing from ur friends thing... so wat should i do? (link)
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Tell her how you feel and be honest, what shes doing is a crime and if someone dont let her know now then it'll be worst later. If shes a true friend she'll apologize for what she did and try and change, and not just 4 u but for herself too!
~KiSsEs~
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hi. i have a friend and she is about 13 and we have been best friends for 2 years now. we have always been there for each other and we are really close. but just recently she turned bi. and im ok with that cuz she knows i just like guys and i know she would never hit on me or nething like that. but after that she started hanging around the wrong group of people and she has done drugs before and smokes cigarettes daily. i wanna get her help but without her hating me or something. and now shes going out with this new guy matt who is 15 and he just wants 2 get in her pants and has fingered her before already! which is really nasty in my opinion for her only being 13. and she said she would do nething to keep him in her life but there is only one thing he wants. and me and my other friend tried warning her about him but she wont listen 2 us. i dont want to control her life but i just wanna be able 2 help her. what should i do? (link)
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Its really sweet how your concerned for your friend, just sit her down n tell her how you feel and what you think about her decisions. Make it clear that your there to help and NOT criticise or control! But she really can't be helped until she helps herself, so if things dont work @ least you tried!
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one of my friends (a boy) asked me if he can sleep over my house sometime. He said he knows he has to meet my mom and that his parents would say yes. We havent hung out alot, but we are good friends. he said he can stay in toen longer than. I dont think he is the kind of boy into all "that". I trust him and everything and im really happy he wants to hang out with me and it would be hard for me to tell him no. I already told him he probably could. My mom said my other friend(boy) could once. i dont no if he really wants to hang out or if he just wants to so he can stay in town or for other reasons.....How should i aproach this situation and what should i tell him? How should i aproach my mom with the idea? (link)
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If you feel comfortable with him then this is a good oppertunity for yall to get to know each other better. If he's as good as a friend as he sound then i'm pretty sure he's not using you just to stay in town longer. Just ask your mom if you can have a really close guy friend spend the nite and tell her he's trust worthy and you feel comfortable with him. ~KiSsEs~
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my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
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Don't let them put you in the middle, tell them their discussing their problems with the wrong person and they need to tell each other.
~KiSsEs~
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mmmk.....well i've liked this guy for eh 3 yrs i think and we r pretty good friends. i like him A LOT but am scared to make a move cus i dont kno if he likes me. i keep getting mixed signals and stuff from him so i have no clue how he feels. its driving me freaking crasy. i have no way of getting in touch with him cept for AIM and he is never on! i have asked his friends to tell him but they never get around to it and i just really need to have a way to tell him b4 its too late! the reason i didnt tell him during skool was because i dont like rejection(even tho it happens i kno) and i felt like i was being pressured to tell him. also if he did like me and ask me out i would go otu with him but whenever we broke up i wouldnt want our friendship to b akward or not b friends at all. what to do?! (link)
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Maybe you should ask his friends for his # or sumtin....find some way to get into contact with him so you can tell him how you feel. It's ok to be scared of rejection but you run away from it forever?! Just face your fears and ask him if he see's apossibilty of yall two hookin up anytime soon. If yall are really meant for each other to be friends then if yall went out and then broke up you would still be friends. yes it may feel awkward at first but things change! ~KiSsEs~
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