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Wazz good? Umm things about me...hmm.. Im 13 from south Jersey. I am light skinned (carmel omplextiom) long brown hair and about 5"4. I Love giving advice to people.If i didnt u wouldnt be reading this woud u? I am single but i talk to someone....S.O.V.S *some1 very special* I have been talking to him 4 about 4 months. I think i'm in love wooo *sigh*. O anyway..I am very hyper..I am a cheerleader,i run track,play softball and i am on the national jr honor society. I got most popular and best looking in the yearbook. I LOVE TO TALK dance and SING..My favorite song right now is "we belong together" by mariah Carey and her whole Cd and umm Ciara song "oh" and "GRIND ON ME" by Pretty Ricky yes!! I am still a virgin but I know alot about Sex from all of my friends and from reading.I am just waiting for the RIGHT* person right now....um...If u ever need to ask me any questions or give me any comments *THAT ARE NOT RUDE!!!!!!!!!!* feel free to IM me on IXI WuN luV IXL .... love yall lots
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Okay, 3 friends (2 against 1) got into a fight right?(I wasn't in it, and verbal kind) and so i asked one of them what they were talking about in their conversation online. So she told the other 2 people that i wanted to know what they were talking about. And so i admit that i was nosey, and their partially mad at me for that(except the one i asked what they were talking about). And i guess i was kinda instegating and egging on the fight(thats what they told me)
so the point is that they're pretty mad at me, and these 2 were like bff. and whenever i appologize they dont take me seriously.and say that im just saying that to shut them up.
what do i do to gain their trust and be friends again?
p.s sorry it was kind of long
Dont sweat it. Dont kiss their butt to be there friend again. The'll be ur friend before u know it and if they dont try 1 more time and if they still regret then dont worry about them they must not be good friends..
ok well last year in 7th grade was the most roughest time ever i could think of!! i was so liked at the begining of the year and people started making rumors up about me and i lost almost every friend....i also got beat up once well i didnt get beat up thats what everybody says i just got in a fight ok and i am just having such a miserable summer bc thats all i ever think about is next year how im not going to have any friends to be with and where im going to sit for lunch and all that ughh i dont know what to do and all my mom says is "i dont know what to tell you" all im really worried about it one person bc she was friends with all the 8th graders and all the 6th graders and shes mean to me and hates me and she could prolly get everybody else to hate me and shes tall and is friends with all the popular people and shes not afriad to come in my face and say crap to me [ITS HAPPEND BEFORE] =[ it just started out i was hanging out with the popular people at the beegining of the year [ i guess thats what i wanteed the most ] and i dont know what happend but they all started hearing roomers and crap and yeah i started to get bad grades and i almost failed 7th grade and all this crap ughhh im not sure if god made all them hate me for a reason? im just so confused=/ somebody please help me ive been going through this forever and i really really need some help please =(
-ashlee
wow that sound like alot of stuff that has happened to me. But when you start to be or get popular thats all people do is start rumors hun. There jealous. There mad because your popular and your probally really pretty and they want to be like you.So instead they try to bring you down.They try and start rumors and they try to fight you.But God NEVER puts to much on you that you cant handle.Pretty soon all this will clear up i'm sure. It'll start to get old soon. If you have 1 good friend thats always been there for you keep em'. Dont let them go. Try and make some new friends by signiing up for something in your community or maybe take some Self Defense classes. Then you can make some new friends and learn how to defend yourself. Well just try not to worry about it. If some1 says something say something back that'll shut them up or just laugh and the'll start to think you dont care and their not doing anything to you to hurt you. And the'll get bored. well hope i helped
sorry so long (lol)
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okay i like this guy he's in college he's about 2 years older then i am. i am only 17. i really like him and i told my friends that i do. all of my friends suggest that i should just call him and tell him that i like him. would this be right or should i just get to know him more??
I think that you shold get to know him more. Because there may be a side to him that you dont know about. People are quick to change up once you are in a relationship with them. But thats my OPINION!! hope i helped
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my friend dani is a really weird person. she's my friend and all but i don't know how to tell her how weird she is. help me.
Just bve straight up with her be like hey danny your weird lmao..
we'll call her leslie...we used to be best friends, until this year, i made a ton of new friends(being involved in a lot of stuff helps) and well she doesnt get involved in anything, and she complains about people all the time and talks trash about people, and is obsessed with really retarded things, like TPing is like her favorite thing and she keeps asking me to go TPing or spray painting with her, and well shes kinda childish...we're both 16 but im the only one who has the liscense and if we hang out i always have to drive and gas is really expensive, and overall shes just really annoying. how should i let her know that we're not really best friends anymore?
Maybe you should'nt completely "DITCH" her but It seems to me you dont really want to be her BEST friend anymore but then you dont want to compleatly diz her.Try talking to her tell her she is 16 and to start acting like it. But if that doesnt help still keep contact with her maybe just dont be as COOL* with her as you were.It wouldnt work out anyway because you are maturing. One day she'll get to your level just wait.Still keep contact....Hope I helped :)