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I have a lot of cool sayings in my profile. Most in whick I made up. Every time I look at me friends profile, she has all my same sayings in mine. I get so frusterated! Now, she just IMed me witrh her advice colum user name and it is almost the same as mine! Should I tell her how I feel? Please, I need help fast!
Hey!!! Don't be mean about it, but just tell her how you feel!!! I would feel the same way as you do if my friend would've done that. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped!!! ***
I am 14/F..My best friend and I have been friends for two years, best friends for about a year. We used to talk every day on the phone for atleast an hour, just getting to know each other really well. Eventually it became him being very upset because his mind is so mixed up because of his drug and acholol use. This is where the problem starts..he drinks and smokes..i don't, I totally dissaprove of all that. But, I stuck by his side. No one else did. He has called me at two and three AM drunk and eventually he just gets into a crying fit after about an hour of us talking..Eventually about after 6months of me telling him and telling he needed to quit he realized what he was doing was wrong and he quit for almost two months. No ciggerettes, pot, or acholol. Just recently he has started drinking again. I told him I wish he would stop and he said no i'm 14 and I want to have fun, people change. I'm torn to pieces that he thinks this. I have read internet articles about acholics. Drugs and acholol have totally taken over his mind in the past two years. So in actuality when I talk to him , its sort of like i'm talking to the drug, or so thats what the experts say. I just want my Best Friend back. I'm not sure how to approach him that he will not get mad. If anyone has any advice or can relate to me iM me on AOL (bballxbaberzx33) i'd really really appreciate it!!!
Hey, you obviously care about him and want the best for him so you need to tell him that and why you're worried. If he doesn't straighten up then maybe you should tell your parents or his and then he could maybe go to a counselor/therapist. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~
okay there is this guy and we are really good friends! He comes over and stuff and we just hang out and have the BEST times! We can talk to each other about anything! We have such a good friendship! I was thinking about him the other day...i might like him! I think it might be wierd though, and he hasnt given me any signs about him feeling that way... i don't think so at least. But i don't know if i should give him hints as to taking it to a higher level, and if i should then how should i do it?? HELP ME PLEASE!
Hey, if you really think that you like him then just straight out tell him because if you don't then you'll never know if he feels the same way about you. But, I guess, it depends how shy you are around guys. If it were me I'd probably have a friend tell him, but you're not me so... lol. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~
im going to a camp in another state and my cousin is going to the same camp. (its a church camp) and i dont think my cousin likes me very much. i just move to this church so i dont know anyone but my cousin. i dont want to hang out with her cause she'll get mad! i dont know what to do.
Hey, you can ask her if she wants to hang out at camp and if she says that she wants to then great, but if not then don't worry about it. A great part of camp is that you make new friends so even if you two do end up hanging out then you can still have other ppl to hang out with, too. I hope you have a great time at camp and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~
hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ?
Hey, ok, those 2 reasons aren't very good ones since by saying that you're judging her and everyone can be annoying sometimes like even your best friends and, maybe, your boyfriend. But if you really do hate her and can't stand her than it's better for you to tell her because in a way you're leading her on. I hope everything works out for you and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~
A girl just moved in across the street and since its summer I'm the first person shes met. We've hung out once but now she wants to hang out everyday. The problem is shes really annoying and I really don't want to hang out with her. I feel bad for having to make up lies about why I can't go over to her house. But is there anyway I can give this girl a hint?
Hey, I know that you don't want to hurt her feelings and I wouldn't want to either. Maybe you need to gently tell her what you're feeling or just give her a chance and maybe ya'll can become friends. That's really all you can do. I hope eveything works out and I hope i helped. *~*~KaLi~*~