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Q: Weve been friends for 3 Years!!We were a trio.Me,Miranda,and the stupid barbie,Kaylie.Me and Miranda dumped her because she thinks shes all that.She wears things that are in style(they dont even look good on her and no im not lieing)and trys to compete with me.I dont mean to brag or anything but im Phater and way thinner than her.Shes very jelous of me.She feels really mad because she knows were better of with out her.Right now shes hanging out with the stupidest girls in school.She recentley came up to me and told me she needed to talk to me.I just walked away.Then she came up to me and asked do you think we will ever be friends again.I said i dunno(In a rude way)then she started giving me dirty looks and told her :"you know what,no i dont want to be friends again.She said fine.Im really happy with out her.Miranda and I are even hanging out with a cool girl we met:Catherine.My Question is how ca we just get rid of her,because shes always trying to talk to us.Note:This girl is very sensitive,we will make her cry if we say anything.And it is really hard to ignore people,so please dont tellme "just ignore it.p.S WE CALL HER THE BARBIE BECAUSE SHES BLONDE AND HAS A VERY UGLY NOSE"PEOPLE:4 THIS,ILL RATE HIGH!!!!!!!!

wow thats probobly like the bitchiest thing i've ever heard in my life.

you need to get over yourself..i agree with everyone else.
it sounds like YOU are the only one who did anything wrong here. and to not be friends with someone because of how they look? thats so ridiculous god i fucking hate people like you. i have blonde hair so what?
and what business is it of yours if she hangs out with people you think are stupid? it sounds like you're the stupid ignorant one.

grow up

Q: how do u smoke weed??is it like smoking a cigarette??i will rate!

you light it and then if you're using a bowl cover the little hole thingy with your finger and then take your finger off when you're inhaling and try to hold it in for as long as you can! i suggest a bong tho...less coughing

Q: I am trying to plan a great slumber party for me and my friend but I need some help on finding some great slumber party activities like pillow fights,chick movies,and etc.

I will rate very high for great ideas!!!

get lots and lots of food! make sundaes or pina coladas or frappuccinos or somethin! and get COOKIE DOUGH! and sit around and eat it and watch a movie! like a funny one...then by then you'll prob be really hyper so just do weird stuff and if any of y'all has a car just like go somewhere random and do something crazy. and then when you get home eat more food...whats soo good is doritos with pixie stick sugar on it dipped in spongebob icecream! i kno it sounds gross but its soo good!

Q: okay my friend is having a party tomorrow night and her parents arent going to be home .. and my mom treats me like im 5 so im thinking of getting dropped off early and then sleeping over there and then getting picked up later the next day so theres no sign that there was a party .. do you think thats going to work?? cuz if it doesnt then im screwed!!

ya i do it all the time it works

Q: Ok, this is how it is. Have 2 bestfriends at school; we have been friends 4ever. Anyway one of my friends {Lets call her Karla}found out that my other bf {Lets call her Tisha} was talking about her behind her back. It's very hard 4 me because everytime I talk to 1 of them the other 1 asks if she said anything about her. It's driving me nuts! I don't know if I can take it anymore. Anyway I've been friends with "Karla" longer than I have "Tisha". I've known "Karla" 4 about 8 years, and I've been friends with "Tisha" 4 about 2 years. I'm so confused and I cannot deal with it any longer. Anyway school is almost out, so maybe everything will get solved. {We only have 4 days left} But I really need help! Since there's only 4 days left I've been thinking of not talking 2 any of them? What should I do?

I RATE HIGH!

that wasn't worth it.

Q: ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?

i rate high so please help

stop being such a whore!

Q: What do you do when you lost something you cherished so much? And you know you'll never get it back again? And it can't be replaced? How do you get over losing something that important?

uh thats kind of a vague question

Q: this summer im moving from PA to Chicago. i need some tips to help myself get through this. like how to handle this kind of a change. thx a lot!

join a sports team like cross country and you'll make a ton of new friends! and join clubs. just keep in touch w/your friends through AIM or email or phone and make arrangements to go visit them so you've got somethin to look forward to

Q: There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?

i'm sure hes just kidding around guys do it a lot escpecially if they like someone...i doubt hes that big of an asshole that he would actually tell a girl she was ugly guys dont usually do that

Q: Yeah...so my friend is staying at my house for a week because her parents are out of town. But my house is so....BORING! And the TV is broken, so that pretty much stinks. =( Any ideas what we can do??? ITS SOOOO BORING!!!! lol

13/f (both of us)

just be weird and come up w/really random things to do tv is boring anyway

Q: My friend is over my house and we are running out of things to do to keep ourselves occupied. we are 13/f and real girly girl. and we can't go outside because of snow

why don't you just play in the snow?

Q: My best friend Olivia invited me and this girl Whitney, her 2 best friends, to go get a manicure with her for her birthday. The only problem is that we're going on the 23rd, and it's the 14th, so i want to stop biting my nails but i don't know how-------any suggestions???????
PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!$$$babiid$$$$$$

they have this stuff its like nailpolish you paint it on your nails and it makes them taste REALLLLY bad when you put them in your mouth and you like can't get the taste out for a while it should teach u not to bite them

Q: Ok, so whenever my best friend has another friend over she won't talk to me (I mean like online). Your probably thinking "ummm, it's rude to talk to you while a friend is there." But she talks to other people! I know this because if I IM her on the bottom it will say (their screenname) is typing. Then she just stops typing when she realizes it's from me and immedatly puts up her away message. Then someone will ask me if I know why she went away without saying anything. My question is how should I confront her? Do you think she is hiding something from me? Thank you.

maybe she doesn't like you or thinks your annoying. not to be rude but hey thats just my opinion.

Q: Ok i know this guy online and he thinks im rich .I met him because he made this site called y terror and i went to it and ever since then we became good friends.Well to get to the point he is selling ALL his sites that he worked so hard @ to get money for a car and i dont even think he is using it for a car so i LIED i know i feel really bad now .. and i said i would give him the 800 dollors so he wouldnt have to sale his site now he thinks since i promised him i would send him money from western union that he will get it but the truth is when he goes the money wont be there because i dont have it either and when i lied and said ill give it to him he said

Thank you so much your really nice my mom kicked me out ( he is only 17 ) and i live in my buddy's attic and eat mac and cheese every night and then he said now i wont have to eat mac and cheese every night

i really want to be his friend but i cant tell him im not giving him the money so what do i do ??

p.s. he told my sister he wanted to go out with me

wow thats really retarded why would you tell him that? and does he really believe someone he just met online is just gonna give him 800 dollars? how do you kno hes not some like 50 year old dude just tellin you that to get some money?