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ok i need help one of my bestes friend bf dumped her and i mean he was like cheating on her and evry thing bu she still loves him and cant get over it becuse one of her best friend xbestfriend is now goin out with him be he is jut trying to make life suck for her an i dont no how i can comfort her
thx for ur advice most of i worked bu on the ingnore tht person thing no i just got in a big ass fight wit him and beat the shit out of himin fron of alot of ppl but ne fanx times like a bagilion
my first smile in about a year was a couple of days ago thx for all da help :)
Alex
Well, im sure that guy who cheated on her is an ass whole. Tell her not to worry about him because shes most likely 423084 times better than him in every way. Just tell her how he doesn't deserve her and stuff like that because its probably true. But sometimes no one but the person who broke your heart can help heal it. And im soo glad i helped you. Awwww the last thing you said made me smile cause im so happy i made your life better. ♥. So glad to help you, if u ever need anything else just come back =). keep in touch too ♥.
katiee ♥
Ps.- good job kickin' that kids ass ;). hah
i feel as if my friends hate mee.. i feel like i shouldnt even have friends sometimes.. they just put me down.. they make me seem as if i cant do what i really want to do.. they make me just want to.. i dont know.. i just wish i could be differnt.. i always feel like the one who doesnt fit in oh my god.. i dont know what to do!
Have your friends been doing this for a long time or just lately? Ask them if there is something wrong or what not. You shouldn't have to change yourself for anyone, espically your friends. You could try to change, but if your happy with who you are then stay yourself. It always feels horrible when you get left out... so just try if you want to... maybe to get into the stuff they like? Hope this helps you ♥ ♥ ♥
Well, a girl, who used to be my friend doesn't seem to be the same any more.She was one of my good friends for a while,but then she just kind of changed. I used to be able to tell her anything. Now i just cant trust her i dont know if I should say something because knowing her she'll get all offensive. Well, I really wish she was still the same person, well I know she is still the same person , but I miss her old personality. She changed like a lot shes more like not liking us and only wanting to be with guys and that kind of stuff. I really miss her being on my good friend side of me.
Maybe try hanging out with her & trying to get the "good" her back... like bring up how many good times or laughs you guys had & inside jokes. She might just be acting different maybe to show off or get someones attention like a guy. Or shes just being fake. If this happened to me i think i would be like "you seem really different" or stuff about her changing. If you were best best friends then you should be able to get in stupid fights... me & my best friend get in plenty of little fights but were always laughing the next minute. So just try telling her & saying how you miss your old times. Hope this helps
♥ Jedi
okay, well i moved from like my old town to a place like 15 minutes away (if u drive there) and like u would think my friends would call to hang out or something they havent called once, at all except for 1 friend. and i really miss hanging out with them, so what should i do? cause sometimes i call them but they never want to hang out n e more, should i just stop calling and move on with my life? cause they made me feel like shit. what should i do??
Aw Im sorry. Sometimes friends do that, maybe they moved on. I'm sure they miss you though. If they make you feel like shit than there not good friends. Maybe there just lazy & dont bother calling... but I bet they didnt forget about you. I think its almost impossible to forget about friends. Try talking to them online/calling if you still want to be friends. Sorry this happened to you.
♥ Jedi
Well, I have this friend, see, and she's probably one of my best friends and I love her to death. But she's been going through some tough times lately and I've realized that she's been hurting herself. As in cutting. and I've talked to her about it and stuff, but I don't think it does anything. It really scares me to see her do this and I dont know what to do..
Talk to her. Try to talk her out of doing those things. There not good for anyone. She might not apprecaite it now, but she should later. Maybe even try talking to a student counselor or a parent. Show her all the cons of cutting & that its just stupid & shes hurting herself. Just try & stop her. Well i hope this helps *`
♥ Jedi Kt
Well i have a lot of friends.. rite? Well i like to hang out with both! But the one i use to hang out with all the time are getting kinda old! What should i do?
You shouldn't judge your friends. I could have loser friends but i don't care because i love them. If thats the case...
but if you don;t like hanging out with them then don't hang out with them. Or just hang out with your other friends more. Hope this helps ♥
ok so all these guys use to like my friend bc they think shes hot but they found out she was prude so nobody has asked her out in likke a couple months and she keeps asking me what happened like why arent they liking her anymore what did she do wrong and i dont know what to say to her or if i should tell her that hey dont like her bc shes prude help ?
Haha' okay...
If you don't want to be like "your prude thats why"- then just say your not sure or don't know. Maybe tell her to ask someone else...or even the guys. But theres a...
"never been kissed" prude
or a...
"never wants to do anything sexual" prude
If shes the "never been kissed" prude, try to tell the guys that she would actually do stuff(make sure she really would first). But if shes the "never wants to do anything sexual" prude, then you need to try & pop her prude bubble & get her into stuff. But if you need to tell her & don't want to lie, try & explain to her & be like... promise you won't be mad or something like that. Well if you need any more help, just ask !
♥ X0O
okay this girl was my friend.key word was.We used to hang and we were seriously like best friends but now she is all snobby and always insulting me.I mean i say stuff back but I never just stop being friends with her altogether.Should I ?? Please tell me !
Well is she a friend you want to loose? If she is then forget about her. But if you still want to be friends & all... ask her whats wrong. Say you still really want to be friends. If she does then she should stop being mean to you, if she doesn't then she might keep saying crap. But you shouldn't say as much crap as she does. It seems like your geting even but your just being as bad a person she is. Hope this helps ♥
My friends have been being me to me latley. What do do ? YOU HAVE TO HELP ME HERE !
If my friends were being mean to me I think I would ignore them, & if they really cared then they would ask whats wrong. But it might not be the best idea. So you can just ask them whats going on, or if they're mad at you or something. Just try to be open with your friends. Hope this helps
♥ Jedi