i give up... you ppl asking quesitons.... its stupid... yur questions r so simple.... and just not needed... sex.... does she/he like me?.... shold i do this?.... its up to you! its yur life! live it and make up yur mind, u sholdn't have others living it for you... i dont think i'll back back soon... not at least to answer a question.....
To see you when I wake up
Is a gift I didn't think could be real.
To know that you feel the same as I do
Is a three-fold, Utopian dream.
You do something to me that I can't explain.
So would I be out of line if I said,
"I miss you"?
I see your picture,
I smell your skin on
The empty pillow next to mine.
You have only been gone ten days,
But already I'm wasting away.
I know I'll see you again
Whether far or soon.
But I need you to know that I care,
And I miss you.
i miss you shelby..... i made that last one for you.... i wanna come back..... cherish the times we had cause you neva no if we'll be lucky enough to re-live them.... i love you.....
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well i had these two friends and they are trying to make me and my really good friend to fight. what should I do? (link)
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if you have 'friends' that try to mess yur life up, i dont consider them friends. i think it is possible that they are jealous that you have such a good friend and that they aren't. if i were you i would think about them and consider losing them as friends or tlakin to them bout it. hope i helped
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ok so i have this friend and she's mexican and obviously she's not white. i'm persian but i dont look persian at all...i look white b/c i basically am. she's acting all getto all the time and its hard to deal with sometimes like she is acting all like that and i'm stuck being white. how do i deal with this? (link)
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yur skin dont matta. eminem is pale as shit at he's 'ghetto'. so just be yurself. theres no reason to see yo skin colo as a bad thing to nethin. hope i helped
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well, there is this guy at school and he is really nice and such and i like him but i dont know if he likes me. sometimes when we are talkin he will just randomly sign off or if i say hi then he signs off...but other times he says hi to me and makes jokes about stuff and acts really nice. i dont get it and i dont know if he likes me or not. should i ask him or not? please help! (link)
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well the whole randomly signing off thing gives it away. he likes you more or less like a friend. i dont think he likes you. so i guessin you sholdn't ask him out. at least not until you become betta friends. i hope it all works out
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My best friend and I got in fight like a month ago and it awas the stupidest fight ever I cant even remember what it was... well we kinda lost communication cause she just started ignoring me(and what sucks is we hang out with the same ppl so I will be standing next to her but we wont talk) and then like last week i was aim and we started apoligizing and got everything worked out... but at school its like we still arent friends cause i will be standing right next to her and we wont say one word... it feels really awkard... but i miss her so much and I dont know what to do I mean Ive told her how much I miss talking to her... I feel like Ive been replaced... I just want my best friend back and I dont know how to do it? I have cried so much just because of the fact that i cant talk to her and tell her everything anymore... it hurts me so much at school to be standing next to her and not talk... i cant really tell anyone how im feeling cause I just want to cry... I am trying to make my self realize that were just not bestfriends anymore but its way too hard... i need advice do I need to make myself realize were just not the same or do i gotta do something and get My BF back and if so HOW???
PLEASE HELP!!!
SIGNED:I WANT MY BF BACK! (link)
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it seems that over the the month you two seperated, a lot. and if you want her back as a best friend, both of you need to make an effort of talkin to eachotha. ifyou dont want her as a friend ne more, i say you need to find a new best friend and just spend all yo time wit them. you'll slowly forget yur otha friend and it wont seem like you missed her so muhc. hope i helped.
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Hey. My best friend has been ignoring me lately and I don't know what I should do. On her website she shows who shes talking to and shes talking to alot of people and being all happy. But when we talk its just not the same and she barely says anything, if anything at all. Please help! (link)
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she probably doesn't see you as much of a friend as you do her. if you really want to be good friends with her, you should talk to her in person often. it really helps. hope i helped.
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ok umm im going to this kids house i just met and hes cool and i have bin talking too himALOT and his friends and everything and he wants me too go too his house after easter and sleep over but hes not sure if i can bring a friend and people are saying thats not a good idea cause they think i dont no him thaat well but like he is really nice and he would never ever do that and his mom is one of my teachers and i dont no she wont find out cause we are gong too his dads house and i dont no he are going to smoke and drink and i dont no what too do?
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well if you trust him enough that he wont like have sex with you, i guess you can go. but the thing i see wrong is that you two just met and he doesn't like the idea of you havin a friend come. escpeically since nobodies gonna be at the house but you two. so i think that he's got sum ideas about the whole sleep over thing, but if you trust him i say you should go and hopefully have a good time. if yo dont wanna go just tell him that you dont wanna sleep over. he should understand if he's a good friend.
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Recently I started likeing my best guy friend, (we've only been really good friends for about 8 months) And before we became good friends, we went out for a lil over a month. Now I like him, and he knows and he says he does too. Im really comfortable around him, but Im scared it will ruin our friendship.Because I think I will chicken out, because Im so use to being his friend, I dont know how to be his girlfriend..What do I do ? (link)
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well since he likes you and your both best friends i say go out with him. usually if you had been best friends for a long time than if you breakup the relationship wont take a big hit. so go out with him. it should all work out. i hope i helped.
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I have a friend that most of the time underestimtes me and pouts me down when I'm in a positive mood. For instance, when I put a different answer on my social studies quiz that wasn't the correct word, but is nother meaning of it, She was like "I don't think that's right, and I don't think she'll accept it" when my other firned said it was right. Also, when my teacher said she was going to round my B+ to an A or A-, and she got an A-, she said to me "I think that it will just show up as a B on your report card". I feel like she tries to put me down just so she can make me believe that she's smarter than I am, which is definitely not true. Most of the time she getson my nerves because she always thinks she the smartest...even my other friends think she gets on their nerves. I haven't confronted her about her being a problem to me because she might just get upset and play childish games like not speaking to me and ignoring me, or she might get an attidtude. I don't know, what do you think is right and that I should do because somebody has got to set her straight!
P.S.: Whenever I ask her a question that I don't get, she says to me "That's so easy" in a voice that she thinks she get everything...I hate it!!!!! (link)
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ok i think she's insicure and if putting you down to make herself feel better. if anything you shouldn't listen to her and you should ignore her 100%, even if it seems hard. over time she should learn that you dont wanna hear it and that you dont care and that your not her friend any more. she shouldn't even be a friend to you if she always puts you down. i hope i helped
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my guy friend lies so much i don't whether to believe him or not. he lies about his age and other stupid stuff and i don't know whether to believe him or not. i confronted him yesterday but he denies that he lies. what should i do? (link)
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if he lies, he not a friend. i say dump him as a friend. u obviously cant trust him with anything so leave him for a better friend i guess... i hope it all works out.
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Ok my friend picked me up from track and i had her track shoes and put them inside and infront of the car. When we got home, she noticed she only had one. She sorta freaked out and then we had to pay her bro to go bak up to the skool and look for it. We couldnt find it. We got back and she was pissed and didnt want to talk to me. I felt really bad and uncomfterble, she gave me mean looks so i said i had to go home. I have to go back to her house so they can take us to a camp. What do i do?? i feel really bad.
please help i rate high (link)
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well its not your fault. you put thm in the car and the other one sum how got miss placed. to her though, it seems like it was your fault becuase she let you borrow them. so of course she's goin to be mad and blame it all on you. time and kind words saying your sorry will be the only things that make this go away. and if you really want her to be happy, try and look for the shoes yourself. if you find them, you will be like a mini-hero to her. i hope i helped
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i am a freshman in highschool and so is my best friend , there is this guy that is a junior that i have known for a while named chad and i intoduced chad and cat and i started to like chad then i was asked out by another guy i named sam so i went out with sam. then chad and cat went out and i still liked chad but i never said anything about it, now me and sam are broke up and cat and chad are broke up and i like chad but i know cat would be really mad if i went out with chad because sghe said she would be cause i asked but now he aske dme out what do u think should do?
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well if he asked you out you have the right to say yes. yur friend cant stop you from like the guy that dumped her. espcially since he's askin you out. so say yes, tell her that he asked you out and that your srry but you like him a lot. just make sure she isn't so hurt that she hates you. if that happens, give her signs that you care about her a lot but you are incontrol of your own life and that you need to make disitions of your own. i hope i helped.
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On Friday, I had asked (in an msn message) my friend Christine if she and my friend Jenn were going to a concert that night, because I wanted to go with them. She replied with a big long msn message (summarized) saying she and Jenn are better friends with each other than with me, they just wanted to hang out with each other this weekend. Also, Christine said she feels like I don't listen when she talks to me and that I don't care, so it's hard to want to be around me. Basically, I've been dumped as a friend. She said she didn't mean to put this all out on msn, and I could call her if I want to talk about it. So my question is, should I call her? What do I say? Is it worth repairing the friendship? Should I bother? (note- I did email her Friday thanking her for being honest with me, instead of just ditching me w/o reason, which they've done before) (link)
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well if you think you dont listen or take her seriously, you might consider taking her seriously and listening. if you dont think this you can just leave her as a friend i guess. but if you dont think so, i say call her, ask her how you can and her can make things better. its really up to you if you thinks it worth the time to repair. i hope i helped.
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my very best friend in the world walked in on my and this boy a few days ago and we weren't doin n e thing bad just kissing and having fun. and well now she wont talk to me. i tried to talk to her and tell her that i was sorry and try to explain it to her but she wont even look at me and then she calls me a sl*t so i really need help how can i explain to her that its really not that big of a deal and that im sorry? and the weird thing is she never really cared about me and my other bfs and stuff that we did. so please help me soon (link)
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well i think that she really likes him, enough to not like you. so first you might try askin her wats wrong, to make sure its not sumthin else, i dont know wat it could be, but ask her. but i see this as a love triangle. so if i were you might not wanna be her friend for a while becuase she likes yur bf a lot more than she does her best friend. i hope i helped.
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Ok so me and my friend ill call her *Kaia* last year in 7th grade we were in all the same classes. and we sorta grew away from each other in a way. but this year in 8th grade me and *kaia* only have 1 class together and it seems as if we are actually becoming closer...since we dont see each other as much. and we can talk about anything now..and last year we couldnt talk to each other about a lot of stuff. Is it possible that since we arent seeing each other we are actually growing closer? and also could it be because we like each other for who we are..not for what we dress like? thanks for your help! Ill rate you if i like your answer! (link)
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yes i think thats it. you two have probably matured since last year, and thats hwy your growing closer. so i think your your right with the whole like eachother for who you are, not wat you look like.
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i have this really great friend that always hangs out with me and share secrets with me and everything.but one day she said she saw something with a boy and they wouldn't anyone about it.and for awhile she would always ask me to change seats so she can talk to him it's like they like each other!what am i supposed to do? (link)
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well i think that they really like eachother and the only bad thing is that your best friend might start to forget you little by little. so try and stay friends with her, like talking to her more, you might wanna ask her wats really goin on, cuase maybe they dont like eachotha or sumthin, and just make her wanna talk to you like she used too. i hope everythin goes well.
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my friends are making me really mad because i like this boy and he used to with my cousin. i was all happy on my birthday and thought he liked me. and at my party, i find out that hes already talking to somebody and he used to go with my cousin. i dont talk to him on the phone, but at school we talk all the time. maybe he only likes me as a friend. but then why does he like to give me massages and likes to flirt. its annoying and i dont ever want to see him again. because i feel like ive been cheated because ive been getting the wrong messages from him. and i dont no, i just wish my parents would ship me off to boarding school. because im really, really hurt right now. by him and my friends, and my cousin. because she always gets what she wants. and im sorry this is so long, but what should i do? (link)
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well it seems to me he likes you and yur cuz. if you still like him you might consider flirting with him more and trying to get him to focus on you more. make him want and need you. but if you dont like him anymore, cause i still not sure on wether u like him o' not, you shold try to forget about him and look for a better man. i hope it all works out!
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ok my friend is really mad at me because we joke around and she took a joke personly so her mom called my mom and her mom told my mom wat i said.now im really in a bad situation /wat shud i do???should i joke around anymore???
sincerly,
xxmystary-girlxx (link)
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you can joke around all you want, you just gotta make sure it wont be offensive to anyone around you in anyway. unless you always warn them by sayin like "no offence" or sumthin like that. but i think al u need to do is say srry, you didn't no that it would have offended her and that you're really srry.
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is it just me?...or is it just the way my friend acts?...or are others like this also?..
there is this girl Angie...ive known her for about 4 years already..theres time where were close, like best friends. but lately shes been so annoying!..i get so irritated by her!..juss things she does!..shes so fake! and just doesnt know how to be herself! and she'll be so loud just to get attention!!...
anyone else hate this about someone?! (link)
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well of course it can be annoying but you might not be giving her the attention she might need, and that might be the way she is, maybe that is 'herself'. so it might not be so much that she's changed but she isn't getting the attention she needs. so show give her some more attention, and is that doesn't work, i would say its almost like a phase shes going through. i hope i helped.
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i have this friend..we are "best friends"..we used to be really close..and are families are still...but im sick of her. she took my friends from me and everything..all these guys like her..and i ade her become what she is today..i meani gave her the good clothes and what music to listen to..but i dunno..what should i do? everytime i confront her about this..she gets all upset and says she never wants to lose me..and just flipps out..i cant stand her!!..what do i do? (link)
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it sounds like shes mooching off of you for stuff, so she can seem cool and popular. and she sees that without you she cant keep the complection up. you might think about losing her until she stop beenin a bitch about how good of a friend you are.
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okay - two of my best friends have boyfriends (total geeky boyfriends, but boyfriend non the less) anyway, during the week, like in school and stuff, they are all like making plans with me for over the weekend and stuff, then the weekend comes, and i call em, and there parents tell me they are out.. well.. the point to the story is that they are lying to me all the time, its bugging me.. they tell me that they dont spend enough time with them and that they always spend time with me, when in all actuallity, i only see them at school.. i mean.. i dont have a boyfriend, and i feel like because of it, they dont want to hang out with me anymore.. anyway, this weekend, we were all supposed to go skating, and they told me like 10 mins before skating begins, they call me and tell me that they want to be alone with their friend.. my mom drives by this local park later that day, and sees them with they boyfriends (friend 1 with friend 2's bf wrestling and friend 2 with friend 1's boyfriend wrestling) they consider THAT a date.. i ahev tried to talk to them about it, but they always get mad at ME!! HELP!! (link)
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well its seems to me that they dont like you a whole lot, for no aparent reason. i'm think the bf thing. but if think that you should look for new friends. friends that wont hurt you or leave you in the dust. or get mad at you because you wanna be friends with them. you just gotta leave them. i srry to say that since they your best friends. but they like geeky boys than you.... i srry... i hope i helped
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