I'm about 5 foot 7 and 13 years old, but i sound a lot older then i am. I'm a brunette with green eyes. I've been wanting to have an advice column forever and i finally made one. I think i give good advice and i hope i can help everyone. I can answer pretty much any question. Esspecially about friendship, love lives, and music (i'm a guitar player) I never give useless answers so feel free to ask anything!
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Okay, I there's this guy that likes me and i told him i would go to a dance with him but now i dont wanna go (and for a good reason dont worry) so would it be rude to tell him over the phone? Or should i do it in person? I would really rather do it over the phone so i wont be as nervous but im afraid it might be rude. Plz help me!! And i need to know like ASAP!! Thx (link)
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In person, the guy will think ur a jerk if u do it over the phone. Hope i helped!
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What do i do if im on a perscription for acne but my bff dosent want to be around me because i have zits? (link)
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She's not worth your time, find a new best friend.
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what should i do my friend is mad at me for some reason really upset might lose my best friend :( (link)
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it depends on why she's mad, but i'd talk to her. Try to find out what's wrong, maybe there's a family problem or something that u dont kno about and she's upset.
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my friend is doin some stupid stuff, and i want him to stop. he's always takin crazy chances, like jumpin off roofs into pools and stuff. and then the other day he was burnin himself with a lighter. and on more than one occasion he talks about he wishes he had a knife with him so he could slice his wrists. when i ask him why he does this stuff he answers "no one cares about me, so why should i stop?" how do i tell him that everytime he does something, it kills a part of me. i dont wanna seem mushy or anything, but i cant stand to see him doin this crap. please help me im freakin out, im so afraid for him.
ps-and dont tell me to get an adult to talk to him, cuz if i tell on him, he'd neva speak to me again.
thanks
xXxashliexXx (link)
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tell him exactly what u told me. that everytime he does something, it kills a part of you. Say u love him maybe not as a bf but u do and u care for him and you dont want to lose him. And say something like u'd rather die 5 times rather then him be gone forever. Say he's such a big part in ur life and it kills u to see him diong that to himself, thinking no one cares about him when u do more then anything. I kno I'm mushy but i've been in this situation and my way worked, i hope i helped!
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k im a female and my best friend he like went sicho and i dont no whats wrong with him hes bein really weird and all of a sudden he hates all his old friends and is findin a new friend what should i do i dont wanna lose him hes like a brother how do i get him to talk 2 me without cussin me out and he goes 2 church with my boyfriend and i think es gonna tell him lies about me WHAT DO I DO plz try 2 help (link)
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I have a feeling he's jealous of ur bf for 1. Tell him that u dont wanna lose him, but dont tell him he's like a brother. If he likes u or something, he'll hate to hear that u think of him as a brother. Dont talk to him on IM until u've worked everything out. I recomend u talk to him either in person or on the phone if u can't meet in person. Just say how much he means to u and that'd u dont kno what u'd do if he wasn't your friend anymore, and u hate that he's finding ppl to replace u. And if he's really a friend, he wont tell ur bf lies, unless he's REALLY jealous or just an awful friend. Just tell him how u feel, and remember, dont pull the "you're like a brother" thing. it's a bad move. Hope i helped!
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I have this friend that one day can be like my best friend and the next day act like she doesn't even know me/ like me. She is someone i want to be friends with but i just can't really take all the confusing things she does. I just kind of need a good friend in my life that is pretty stable since i dont really have to many other friends where i live. 15/f/wa thanks (link)
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I have that same problem. Tell them that what they're doing is impossible and ur not gonna stand for it! U deserve better. i kno that u just want a friend even if they abuse ur friendship. But i kno u kno it's wrong to remain in that position. think about it...
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