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My friend is hanging out with my old friend. my old friend is into bad things like sex and stuff. I don't want my friend to be around those kind of people.
tell your friend about the person that they are hanging with. let him/her know that the person they're hanging with is not so nice.
hey, i'm 14/f and i have a bffe, just like any other girl. But the problem with my best friend is everything i do, she must follow along. Its as if she doesn't have her own life to take after.She basically copys everything i do and if i come up with a new saying she starts saying it like 1 day latter ALL the time. And i even said a few things the other day just to see if she did it, and she did! i said i hate chocolate candys lately, so she took hers and threw them out! i couldn't believe how right i was that she copys but then again i can't help then feel bad. I mean, how do i get her to stop copying me, or even better how in the world do i tell her that she's doing it without making her upset? i told her once in 7th grade, and she didnt talk to anyone for weeks, but she has continued sense then though. its not like it helped. i thought about copying her to show her that she copys me 24/7 but would that really help? Reply pleaseeee i need to know :)
wow, ok maybe you sould like tell her how you feel about her copyingyou, and ask her about what she likes. If she tells you something that she likes, then try to get her to focus on things that go with the thing she likes.
my boyfriend cuts and im really scared for him..he just started so i want to stop him, but when i do he gets mad at me. wat should i do? help help help!
I think that you should get an adult and fast. This is serious, you should help him even though he doesn't want help. He may say that he's fine, or that he doens't need help, but if you want the truth, he doesn't know that he needs help.
this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!
When she least expects it, have one of your other friends get evidence that your "best friend" is talking about u behind your back. She wont admit it to your face!If that doesn't work canfront her face 2 face and dont let them leave until they tell u the truth.
I really just want to meet some new people and hang out with a new "clique or crowd" Where do you meet people?
I meet people wherever I go. I'm good with friendships. I'd just talk to some people for like 2 minutes and we'll just click. It all comes naturally to everyone. You just have to find the right people to click with.
hello im a 14/f goin on 15 in like 6 months ..ne ways i like this guy well call him Jimmy and my friend well call her Julie ...ne ways shes in his buisness class and said that he likes me and i was realli happy cuz i realli like this guy but then i herd that Julie was flirting with Jimmy but i didnt beleive it when i herd it cuz we were supposed to be best friends but then i saw then coming down the stairs and i saw Julie have her arm around Jimmy even when she saw me she kept her Arm around him . i guess she was flirting with him and i was so mad at her i didnt talk to her for weeks and she knoes im mad at her but the thing is is she has a bf should i tell her bf ? cuz if i dont then shell continue flirting with Jimmy and other guys but if i do then he could dump her and i could loose a realli good friend
A Real friend wouldn't do that to you. But then again, she could have been jealous or even liked "Jimmy" as much as you did without telling you.
My boyfriend ( well ex ) broke up with me and said it's because "we didnt see eachother much anymore" Which sucked but I saw it coming. That night my 'best friend' called and told me how sorry she felt for me and then told me she saw him with his new girl friend. I was really upset... then the next day i found out that his new 'girl friend' was her ( my best friend ). She doesnt know that i know. What should I do?
You should tell her what you feel and how much it hurts you. Personally, i think that people should wait a while for things to cool off first.
I don't have alot of friends because everyone thinks that I'm gay. Please help me out
Why do they think that you are gay? Have you been acting weird lately? I think that it's just a stupid faze that they are going through.
My best friend is leaving for the air force in 5 days..I just don't think I can handle it anymore. Any ideas?
You could always either join with your friend, write letters to each other all the time or just keep in touch.Just ask me AskAdrien!!
I have a friend and as a person she is great but our friendship isnt the best. I always feel like im the one screwing things up and sometimes i feel like she trys to make it so that im the bad person just so its not her fault like its her way of getting out whats inside of her but yet it makes me feel so horrible and im not the best person for taking things lightly. i dont really know what i should do so help me?
If she makes you makes you feel that way then HELLO!!! She is SOOOOO not your friend!!!
How do I get my best friend to talk to me and trust you, while he still has a girlfriend and all? His girlfriend is putting stuff in his head and how do I prove that also to him?
You could talk to his girlfriend and speak your mind. Then tell your friend that he's just a friend.