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hey my name is Albania, i am 13 and i was born in spain. i like to model and act,i also love to play soccer. lol, if you want advice from me just send me a message and i will do my best to fix your problems.remember im an average teenage girl and i have experiencedlove,friendship, school and much moresituation. if you want to chat with me just aim me at albanialov.well love ya sexy beasts!
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Okay, I'm having this Halloween party and I don't know what to do, I told them to ware their costumes, and to bring some warm clothes incase it is cold, but I don't know what to do! There are going to boys and girls, along with my parents, little sis, and my boyfriend;) I don't know what we should do that would be fun for kids our age. We are all 13/14 and we want to just have fun, do you know what we could do? ( please don't make it expensive, my family doesn't have verymuch money right now.) thanks! (link)
just make a big dance party.


Three girls. Used to be friends with them. Now I'm not (long story) and they're bitching about me behind my back. The part that makes it upsetting is that act really lovely to me when I'm around... and I'm a trusting kind of person. It took ages for me to believe it.
Would you please tell me what to do? Is it better to...
1)...confront them, and a)hold a grudge b)forgive them OR
2)...ignore them, and a) hold a grudge b)forgive them.
3)start a hate campaign.
Or if you have an alternative I'd be glad to hear it (but I'm not changing schools!) (link)
ok just talk to ur friends check if its really true and tell them to stopif they dont than ditch them!!!


I have a friend who is verbally and physically abusive. She called me and my other friend a**holes for stupid reasons, and she just us both (hard!). She's been doing little things like that forever, like calling me an idiot or stupid, and maybe hitting me a few times. I could deal with that, but now she's gone way too far. I know that's not how a friend is supposed to act. She doesn't seem to know that her behavior is mean and immature.

I'm avoiding her, but I know I can't do that forever. What should I do? (link)
talk to your frined, tell her how you feel and that what shes doing is wrong, but go easy in her. maybe she is ahaving problems at homeor someting, but if thats not the case then jjust talk to her if she keepson doing it then just stay awaway from her

albania


(SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE HIGH) well there is this kid who i think he might like me like he really acts like it sometimes.. like sometimes he'll come over to me and just like kick me just kiddingly... or like he'll tackle me and make me fall into snow also just kiddingly (when there is snow obviously) well i dont know because a lot of my friends think he likes me because the way he acts around me.. and i asked one of his friends and he said he acts flirty and smiley.. which he does around me i thought thats just the way he was but i guess not... but he told one of my friends that he only liked me as a friend... is he lying? does he like me or just want to be friends? help please.. ill rate high! (link)
sometimes guys are like that. when they really like a girl, they are scared of admitting that they like you. just talk to him and ask him yourself, maybe he says yes or maybe not, but if you look intohis eyesi am sure you will get get the right answer in your mind, even thought if he is lying

albania


15/f

I have two best friends. One (shelby) has her sweet sixteen coming up in december. She has planned on just spending time with her mom, but my other best friend ( christa) and i know thats not what she wants to do. Its just something that her mom made her feel guilty about. Well we decided we are going to throw her a surprize sleepover in my basement, somewhere around her birthday. My question is, I dont know exactly where to start. I also need ideas for what to do. This party is coming totally out of christa and my pocket (with a little help from out moms) so It cant be expensive. Any help would be appreciated! (link)
if you want you can get ppl to donate money, another option is get a job, like baby sitting, i think it would help,then put all the money together and through a humongous party

albania


im doing the talent show and im gonna dance to Pon De Replay and S(lets name her S, and shes my friend)wanted to join in, so me and my other priend who are in it said yes but she hasnt practicing or anything. So we decided we want her out, so does anyone know a nice way to tell her???
Ill rate 5's for good answers...
not smartasses
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ok just talk to her calmly and tell her look we were nice and we let you in the talent showbut hello you need to be more responsible you havent practiced or anything so please we are very sorry but we want ypu out.

albania


Okay so I have like a BEST friend we have been really good friends since like 4th grade and now we are in 8th well ever sinve like last year she has been blowing me off for this other girll I'll call ash well whenever I ask like what shes doing shell be like oh Im staying after and Ill be like ohh cool for anything fun and she'll be like no not really but than later it comes out that she was with ash and I just bugs me that she wouldnt tell me where she was going..is it just me and what can I do so it doesnt bug me as much..Thanks (link)
well i can relate o this because my bf is just like this. what you have to do is talk to her, tell her how you feel and tell her to please stop blowing you off. and tell her that she cant be lieing to you like that if she is a true friend she will understand

albania




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